Hey all ,first time poster (be nice) lol. OK...so the situation i have is , i met a guy and at first i would hear from him everday he would send me cute little messages - like hey babe good morning,i miss your comfy arms(lol) etc..then all of a sudden he was frauding me on dates(two), meaning he would set a time and date,but be a no show,no calls or messages..nothing. Then the day after he would send me a message sayin again "hey babe" completley ignoring the fact he frauded me,said not one word about it ,except sorry.

Now i hear from him like every 4 days, he pulls a houdini and vanishes on the weekends. If in fact he isnt interested in me,why would he continue sending cute messages and whatnot. Its just a huge change,like i said earlier we talked everyday for hours on the phone and now...nothing...a message a couple times a week. Is he leading me on? playing games? should i just let it go and move on. Correct me if im wrong,because i thought if you truly liked a person that you would WANT to talk to them all the time(and its not due to a busy schedule with him)

Sounds Like you got Played

that sounds so much like another women in da picture

playing mind games

I hate to tell you this but it sounds like he's seeing someone else

I'd leave him, sounds likes he's playing you.

Things like that happen to lots of people...I would let go of that one and find another one. Always remember you know your own self worth, don't sell yourself short.

RUN!!!

grrl i wouldn't diss ya on a date, i would take ya on a date every day

i hate to say this, but i really think you are being played. why sell your self short when u could be with someone who will treat u so much better than he is....best of luck to u
Becca

Present him with your questions and see what he says

Thats all fine and dandy- i mean ok,so you met someone else..tell me. I think im just too available he's just keeping me around as an "option".I'd just like to know why people play mind games for? honestly,we're all adults. Grow up and be honest . IS finding a person who is honest and sincere really that hard these days?

Unfortunately they must "dangle" the carrot and keep you on the line until they see if the "one" they are focusing on is going to pan out-they check in with you every now and then, but while they are "hot and heavy" with door number 1 they leave door number 2,3, etc., very used-sorry hon-leave that one alone -just my opinion

Games are definitely bein played. If he's not that important to you then just drop him.

sometimes it is.

Faster! Faster!

Kick him to the curb girl...

Find someone who will take you out when they say they are going to.




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did u talk to him seriously
the same is happening to me
i talk to this girl a lot and once i got attached i hardly to talk to her i dont kno y

I am telling you to not look back at this man or should
I say boy ya i think so boy just walk away not worth
Your time or effort your time should be spent on
A Real Man run as fast as you can