I am new here and trying to figure out how to maximize my efforts. I am looking for a s/d/w while male, who does not smoke, and can handle dating someone with kids. These kids have special needs and almost everything I do is for them. Some of what I do is for me because I know I need to be healthy to be whole.

Yeah, I am still working on this! I really like being in the middle of nature, watching old movies, British comedies, History Detectives, and for movies I also like comedies and romances. One of my favorite things to do is see a Shakespeare play in the park during the summer. I cook up a whole meal, and yes it is good. Although my chicken is still coming along!

Other than this, I am an open minded person who believes in looking for the best in others, and overlooking a few flaws. Trying to find the same is hard! Also, trying to find someone who will actually respond back is even harder! One guy did, and then it looked like he was too far away!

What else can I do besides stay positive, check messages everyday, and the usual? Oh, and is there a rule about IM? Do I have to be a member for a certain number of days? I cannot get it to work!

Hi, good morning and welcome. Good luck with your search. As for the IM's, they should work right away, but mine anyway has been a little hit and miss lately

.... new members must post naked for first three post..... yep...uh huh...i herd that ....honest

well, THAT explains a lot Obi....lol

I heard that too but when I posted naked everyone booed me!!

..i can be silly...i know...cant help it!

No, you don't post naked pix. You just have to be naked when you post - like this!


Welcome 1971. Just get in here and get known - p0st.

you mean there are people that AREN'T naked when they are online?

Welcome. We all get a little silly in here.

So I've heard - the pervs.

....you ROCK !

nothing more to do..i think you got it figured out

well today, i'm wearing 2 pairs of socks....michigan is cold.....brrrr

Take small steps hopefully you'll find somebody on the same page....

Hello and welcome to JSH. I hope you find what you are looking for. There are a lot of nice people here. Just post in the forums and you will get to know some of them. Good Luck.

hey lovingmom...I just read your profile and I think it's very good...just start posting on forums so everyone can meet you...

by the way...wow...you are very busy!!! good luck...have fun!!

Thanks for the feedback, and humor is definitely a plus! It feels good to know I am not alone! Now, has anyone seen where I put the winning numbers for the lottery? Anyone? No? Well, I still think you're cool!

P.S. If I ever do get the winning numbers maybe I will share!

Good luck. I'm having a horrendous time finding a male, anywhere, within a decent age range, that is a non-smoker, myself. It's a given they are rare, unfortunately, but it seems like they should exist somewhere!