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Don't waste your time, if they can't accept you for you they are not worth the time. To be honest it sounds like he's is picky about weight, unless it was you who approached him about loseing the weight in the first place. Twenty pounds is pish posh, that would be one lousy reason to give up on possibilities.
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Hummm all I can say he did you a favor heck I have pictures of me up full body pics why to weed out the azzzzes well at least thought it would. But have had it happen twice they talk to you and all even had one not long ago said my version of a few extra pounds and his was different and I should be honest about it. Shshsh sent him and e-mail told him excuse me but the pics of me have been on my profile not my fault you did not take the time to look and it even says in my profile that I'm a full figured woman how much more honest can I get. Ended the note with Hido's Amigo seeeeeeeeeeeee yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!
   
Shshshhsshshs life goes on, move on they are not worth it heck we might have ran onto the same person who knows lmao.
But now can't assume just becaue they write that they are all bad shshshhsshhh I write too and I'm only half bad lmao 
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Sounds like something to do with the pics. Did you tell him before sending them that you had gained weight? In any case, he handled it completely wrong. Update your pics, move on, and find someone that appreciates you for who you are! I did tell him on the phone I had gained some weight and he is a bodybuilder and gave me advice and said we would work at this together and he wanted to help me. My current picture on line was taken 1 year ago and 20lbs lighter, which this guy knew. forget him, be thankful that it didn't go any further than it did. he could be married, and chickened out at the last minute, who knows? someone better will come along!! |
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the man that you were writing to miss panda was a phony from the begining..you know i wish that when ladies do get treated in this way,that they would leave these mens's nicknames under thier posts..just so that if another lovely lady dares to take a chance with jags like this..the women would know who they are talking to.. you'd see how fast they would leave this sight..just throwing it out there ladies.. im sorry miss panda but im sure that there is nice guy around the corner for you..canadian girls rock!!! Thanks and I agree. I will tell you this about his username.......he is a poet. you see this,people?? this lady is so kind-hearted that even when she has the oppertunity to get revenge on this guy for the way thatshe was treated..she wont.. but now that the idea is out there,and i have a feeling that some of the ladies agree..just as you miss panda..i really hope that this will be done.. you are a very nice lady miss panda |
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Purple, is that your new pic on there now?
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How would you like it if your 180 lb hunka burning love showed up at your house and was 400 lbs???
Always be truthful...... 
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I think we only have half the story here. Im not being critical here, but I think you know why he stopped talking to you. You said yourself you gained some weight, took updated pictures of yourself and then sent them to him. Right after that he stopped cooresponding. Im not saying its right, but its a lot easier for a guy (or a girl) to just avoid an issue than to deal with it, hence the ignored e-mails. He didnt know how to tell you he wasnt attracted to you as you currently were so he just did nothing. Your like a book of commonsense... I did that to a guy once, not proud of it but I did. 
Your not alone. |
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His loss, move on
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Purple, is that your new pic on there now? Yes, this is a picture taken yesterday. I also was emailled by a great lady who was contacted by the same guy and we chatted. He is a player big time. Weight or not...........HIS LOSS. Thank you all for the wonderful posts. YOUR GOOD PEOPLE! Panda |
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How would you like it if your 180 lb hunka burning love showed up at your house and was 400 lbs???
Always be truthful......
Or your 6' date was 5'5"!! LOL Or your date had hair but went bald on the way over!!!! LMAO
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