2 Next
Topic: Why is it?...
Jim519's photo
Thu 01/17/08 06:24 PM

Im sorry, I didnt think a girl who slept with 50 guys was a slut.

Why woudl you put a quantitive number on anything like that. Who the hell cares and what difference does it make. for that matter what buisiness is it of anybodies how many peopel someone has slept with it.

Judge not less ye be judged yourself!

Judgemental people really disgust me! sick


I agree, but we are talking about society as whole here

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 01/17/08 06:24 PM
Edited by MirrorMirror on Thu 01/17/08 06:24 PM
huh

stevex86's photo
Thu 01/17/08 06:24 PM
Society is only what you let it be!

lifedesigner's photo
Thu 01/17/08 06:25 PM

One psychologist would say it has to do with the amount of eggs a woman has compared to the amount of sperm a man has. Men are supposed to spread their seed while women are supposed to concerve theirs. Another pshchologist would say it is a social standard that we are subjected to from a young age is all. Just like how little boys should play with toy trucks and little girls should play with dolls. Who really knows though...


There actually is something to the inherent nature of a man "spreading seed". I've even studied birds that are exclusive year after year as a couple during summer but spend winters apart. The males cheat with many other females during the winter - those that have no mates.

LitBugi's photo
Thu 01/17/08 06:25 PM
I agree with what was said above, I think part of the double standard stems from the idea that men are supposed to spread their seed as it is limitless and women are supposed to cherish their eggs, thus it is alright for a man to sleep around but not for a woman. I do think it is unfair that there is a double standard and I do think it is wrong that people are judged based on how many sexual partners they have. Will it ever change, who knows?

Jim519's photo
Thu 01/17/08 06:26 PM

Society is only what you let it be!


In your own world yes, but society will always be a majority

kaspyv's photo
Thu 01/17/08 06:26 PM

Im sorry, I didnt think a girl who slept with 50 guys was a slut.

Why woudl you put a quantitive number on anything like that. Who the hell cares and what difference does it make. for that matter what buisiness is it of anybodies how many peopel someone has slept with it.

Judge not less ye be judged yourself!

Judgemental people really disgust me! sick

could not have said it any betterdrinker

stevex86's photo
Thu 01/17/08 06:28 PM


Society is only what you let it be!


In your own world yes, but society will always be a majority


A majority of what? The people I care about or the people I could care less about?

briancarr's photo
Thu 01/17/08 06:31 PM

Men whores are as disgusting as women whores.....sick sick sick
Couldnt imagine the world without whores. that would be like strip club with no dancers.

Jim519's photo
Thu 01/17/08 06:33 PM



Society is only what you let it be!


In your own world yes, but society will always be a majority


A majority of what? The people I care about or the people I could care less about?


No, those are only the people that you know, meaning that is your own world. Your circle..Not society..Scoeity's beleif's are poor..Such as racisism. You yourself may not be a racist just as I am not, but as well all know there will always be racism. Regardless of your ethnic background. That is what this was meant as. No matter your belief or mine, this is what is portrayed...

stevex86's photo
Thu 01/17/08 06:40 PM




Society is only what you let it be!


In your own world yes, but society will always be a majority


A majority of what? The people I care about or the people I could care less about?


No, those are only the people that you know, meaning that is your own world. Your circle..Not society..Scoeity's beleif's are poor..Such as racisism. You yourself may not be a racist just as I am not, but as well all know there will always be racism. Regardless of your ethnic background. That is what this was meant as. No matter your belief or mine, this is what is portrayed...



No, thats not true, your society is only as big or small as you let it effect you. Different countries, even different stataes or cliques within a high school have societial norms that are accepted or not! Do you care what someone in Australia thinks of your drivng habits, probably not. Do I care what someone in New york thinks of my political views, nope! You can expand or condense your society and whats accepted within your society to any length you wish.

no photo
Thu 01/17/08 06:41 PM
It's absolutely ridiculous, that's what it is. There should be the same standards held to both sexes, period, no exceptions.

no photo
Thu 01/17/08 07:10 PM

If I sleep with 50 women I am a hero, BUT..a woman who sleeps with 50 men,... she is a sl*t?

Who made this decision to be that way and why?

A man tends to like a woman that is a slut, but a slut just for him.

I think it has something to do with the way human brains are hardwired - something to do with ancient survival and care-taking instincts regarding offspring. Probably has more to do with ensuring one's genes get passed on through the generations than anything else.

IndnPrncs's photo
Thu 01/17/08 08:23 PM



If I sleep with 50 women I am a hero, BUT..a woman who sleeps with 50 men,... she is a sl*t?

Who made this decision to be that way and why?


HAH A man did who do you think!


Only you Indn...How's your week?


I'll bet not :wink: I'm good how are you darlin'??

sleeved_heart's photo
Thu 01/17/08 08:26 PM
Edited by sleeved_heart on Thu 01/17/08 08:27 PM

If I sleep with 50 women I am a hero, BUT..a woman who sleeps with 50 men,... she is a sl*t?

Who made this decision to be that way and why?


Over how many years?

I mean, let's say a girl loses her virginity at 16, and she's now 60 and still happily single...one per year is only 44 men...is that really so much?

2 Next