Topic: why do people lie?
buttons's photo
Wed 01/16/08 06:20 AM
now that was some good writing jistme so very true!!flowerforyou

franshade's photo
Wed 01/16/08 06:32 AM
I don't regret making mistakes, all mistakes I have made have made me the person I am today. It's what we do w/the information that matters. I chose to be positive in all situations. Works for me :wink:


jennyjmn720's photo
Wed 01/16/08 08:45 AM
hey guys thanks for sharing your stories and general conversation on this matter. i appreciate all that you have said and i will be more cautious in future.and thanks to all the people that sent me messages too!! it was lovelyflowerforyou

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Wed 01/16/08 08:51 AM
I've had this happen, too -- a "normal girl" turned out to be an arsonist, and was later involved in stealing clothes from a store where she worked. You never know.

I think there's a danger, when one becomes overcautious, of missing a "good one." On the other hand, nobody wants to get burned either. It's a balancing act, and you do need some luck -- and one decent person, too.

jennyjmn720's photo
Wed 01/16/08 08:57 AM
yep..very true..maybe we should stick to meeting people when we go out and take a chance that way? maybe ill just give up period!! lol.

franshade's photo
Wed 01/16/08 08:59 AM
Never give up nor accept defeat Jenny.
Just put the focus on you rather on finding that particular/special/significant other...

focus on making you happy
others will see it ~~~~~~

good luck

wiley's photo
Wed 01/16/08 09:01 AM

yep..very true..maybe we should stick to meeting people when we go out and take a chance that way? maybe ill just give up period!! lol.


Most people usually don't find what they're looking for until they stop looking for it. Just don't cut yourself off completely and let that opportunity pass you by if it comes.

jennyjmn720's photo
Wed 01/16/08 09:23 AM
yes i know you are all rite, but you dont half feel like an idiot !!! tends to put you off...does me anyway. i suppose im just fed up..you wouldnt think it would be so hard to meet someone would you? oh well theres worse things going on in the world eh? x

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Wed 01/16/08 09:41 AM
hello once again miss jenny..i have also read your post conserning what you said about this (faker)..rememebr the conversation that we shared conserning this matter?..you have used your powers of observations and realized that he was a lier..but only after you started to have feelings for this ..i am having a difficult time saying the word..man...

lies are never thought of..they are planned..a person takes the time to plan a lie..i am sure that he has conned a lot of wonderful ladies...

your duty is clear..if i may say to you..you have a responsibility to tell these ladies who this man is..so that he will never play with any one's heart or emotions again in this sight.

but please check your email..i am sure that there are dozens of men waiting to take his place...

take care..
kol..

longhairbiker's photo
Wed 01/16/08 09:46 AM
Welcome to reality dating!

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 01/16/08 10:17 AM
Well I'm no different than anyone on here I have had it happen to me as well. Awww got the pics whole 9 yards and they were all of the same guy at that in the end he turned out a scammer. Yeah most you know by there broken english but aww this one was into credit card scamming. Did he get me nooooooooooo I got rid of my credit cards a while back don't want them or need them.

All I can say the FBI has complete print out of all the conversations we had down to some of the ones they tried to scam but the stuff was stopped or returned.

All I can say is to all the women if you talk to anyone on IM make sure you keep all your converstations. Re-read them the next day for those red flags. Talk to them ask questions this is a hard cruel world you can't believe everything someone tells you.

Use Google you will be surprised the info you can find out online if you have there first and last name or phone number if it is a land line number and it is listed there are ways to reverse look up with out a cost to see who's name the number is in. Ohhh you would be surprised what I have found out on some. Shshshshshsh research research.


Old saying Don't Mess With TEXAS!!!!! laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Wed 01/16/08 10:18 AM
And dont expect TEXAS to give back your doll OR replace your sheets!!!noway grumble laugh

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Wed 01/16/08 10:44 AM
<------REALLY AN 89 YEAR OLD MAN devil :wink: laugh

wiley's photo
Wed 01/16/08 10:45 AM

<------REALLY AN 89 YEAR OLD MAN devil :wink: laugh


With a colostomy bag? huh

SQUIDLOVERGIRL85's photo
Wed 01/16/08 10:46 AM

why do they lie in their profiles and their lifestyle? i know we have had the fake fotos on here etc but this is far worse.ive been chatting to this guy for a while, well since i joined.we get on so well, chat everyday.i asked for some fotos of where he lives as it sounds gorgeous and asked for a foto of his horse as its his pride and joy.anyway he did send them to me.they were beautiful but my friend pointed out that they looked like fotos of the internet!! when i checked again it looked as if she was rite.the 2 pictures of the horse werent even of the same horse,just slight differences which you wouldnt notice if you didnt look hard enough!, so i feel as if i have spoke to a complete stranger all this time, i dont even know if its his real foto or even if its his real name!! im absolutely gutted and angry at myself for not knowing...but i truely believed him!! why cant people just be themselves..we arent all out for looks, money grand houses you know.....i would prefer a down to earth, honest guy any day!


BEACUASEW THEY ARE ****ING RETARDS THAT IS WHY THEY HAVE NO LIFE BUT AN IMAGINARY ONE WHERE PEOPLE LIE TO EACH OTHER AND THINK IT IS OK...

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Wed 01/16/08 10:46 AM
COMPLETE WITH FALSE TEETH AND A HERNIA....laugh :wink: laugh

s1owhand's photo
Wed 01/16/08 10:55 AM
<------------really a naked mole rat!

wiley's photo
Wed 01/16/08 10:56 AM

COMPLETE WITH FALSE TEETH AND A HERNIA....laugh :wink: laugh


Just my type...


*ducks*

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Wed 01/16/08 10:58 AM
devil :wink: laugh laugh


Chiriya's photo
Wed 01/16/08 10:59 AM

<------------really a naked mole rat!


better a naked mole rat, then a naked mall ratlaugh drinker laugh