37 and single for 20 years. tried so many ways over the years to even get a date and failed every time. at that point in my life where it almost feels easier to just give up. I must have something wrong with me if I never got a yes in all that time. Feel a bit like a loser. Advice? Thoughts?

Never stop trying. But maybe change your tactics. It might be your approach, your choice of women. There are alot of variables to consider. For example, if you don’t know the woman and ask her out, she might be shy and startled and say no. So get to know her and if you like each other, ask again. Alot of women like to be wooed. Shown that you have a genuine interest in them and not just want to date them so that you’re no longer alone. It’s not easy being single and it is tough to find someone that is on the same wavelength as you. But I think you will find a woman that sees who you really are and wants to be with you. It’s just tough to find in a sea a phonies.

Broaden your search, maybe by joining a club where you have an interest, or evening classes to learn something new. Meeting more people will certainly increase your chance of finding someone. Good luck in your search, stay positive and you are sure to find someone.

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Reading some of that does help me feel less bad about myself. Gonna take a lot of work to not feel like a loser, but I'll keep working at it and trying. luck is definitely not one of my traits so all I can do is keep on moving.