Topic: WHY good people are hard to find | |
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And all my life i ask this quistion, most people think all people lie, there no such thing is honest person and at some point they going get hurt,
Fear is work of deamons in us we fear becuase of our past, we think all people are same as what we allways seak out, and them who are honest we tend pass them by as too good be true, ON test very long test on one sight stated most weman will think i to good be true, that only 3% will want try find out more, so we judge befor we even met, we see in gods eyes and what we see is what we wish to see, SO what is point, every one pre judgeing all others vr all the fake accounts, and no one beleaves in forever, WELL i do know for fack forever is possable, THAT some love can never be broken. but there only one way this can happen and just one, Two people married by God, witch is a very diffrent kind love that is built over time, I think we all forget love is not given or sold or paid for it is earn in time, Most valuable things is little things, holding hands hugs, we learn all to easy to take the other for granted and so hard get out of it as it like a poission and spreads , and so hard to break love is job for bouth people for all times, not for just few years, but till death, We seam to forgotten that true love is built one stone at a time, and nothing in world can ever change that |
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Edited by
motowndowntown
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Wed 07/31/24 02:03 PM
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spell-check wants a word.
so does grammarly. |
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Good people are not hard to find. Go outside and talk to people.
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awww
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Good people aren’t to find
You attract exactly what you are. If you are a good person there is an 85% chances that you’d meet a good person too #IMO |
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Yeah, they're hard to find...
Or maybe some people are too picky.. |
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Edited by
Picnic
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Thu 08/01/24 12:16 AM
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Only 10% of the Pop
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Edited by
Katie King
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Sat 08/17/24 10:10 AM
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Good people are out there. I meet them in my office every day. One of the ways to set yourself up to be able to find those good people is to make peace with your past. We all bring our past baggage that has not been dealt with into every new relationship. What is your relationship like with your parents? Siblings, past partners. If either of those raise your anxieties, then work out this issues with a therapist. Humans tend to follow patterns based on their unprocessed issues in their past. To do something different, a person has to change themselves first. Work on anger issues, anxieties, fears, and communications skills focusing on conflict resolution to be ready for that good person.
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True
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I agree well with you
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It's really not hard to find good people. Just be kind to everyone.
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When you are good to yourself you can find good people everywhere
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"A stranger is a friend you haven't met yet”
Poet. William Butler Yeats. 1923. |
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Good people aren’t to find You attract exactly what you are. If you are a good person there is an 85% chances that you’d meet a good person too #IMO hii |
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People itself distinguish between each..
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Good people aren’t to find You attract exactly what you are. If you are a good person there is an 85% chances that you’d meet a good person too #IMO Agreed |
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Good people aren’t to find You attract exactly what you are. If you are a good person there is an 85% chances that you’d meet a good person too #IMO You're right we tend to love someone who truly we know he's not going to be honest with us and abandoned the once who are ready to brings happiness to our life all the name of fantasy and worlds things. |
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Plenty of good people around, I come across them all the time. Few people are nasty/ not good.
But... someone being a good person doesn't make him a good partner for me. If it was that simple no one would be single. In order to be fulfilled & happy in a relationship and with a partner I need a bit more than simple "good person". On another dating site a bloke became a member while his wife had passed away less than a year ago. He's a good person but not good partner material. He thinks he is but all he talks about is how much he loves his deceased wife, how much he misses her. He even wants his ashes to be mixed with hers after death. Now he truly is a nice person, a good person, but nowhere near ready for a relationship and I doubt he ever will be. Just one example of how 'good' doesn't equal "good partner". |
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Good people are out there. I meet them in my office every day. One of the ways to set yourself up to be able to find those good people is to make peace with your past. We all bring our past baggage that has not been dealt with into every new relationship. What is your relationship like with your parents? Siblings, past partners. If either of those raise your anxieties, then work out this issues with a therapist. Humans tend to follow patterns based on their unprocessed issues in their past. To do something different, a person has to change themselves first. Work on anger issues, anxieties, fears, and communications skills focusing on conflict resolution to be ready for that good person. all this wisdom looks wonderful typed in black and white. but the simple fact is these sites are not designed for you to find your soulmate or even a reasonable person to date. these sites are designed to milk the money from your wallet. but all of us really want a relationship and continue to pay. which I guess makes us all pretty stupid. southwest suburbs of chicago, female, older than 45 and not wanting children. also not wanting to get married. |
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Good people are out there. I meet them in my office every day. One of the ways to set yourself up to be able to find those good people is to make peace with your past. We all bring our past baggage that has not been dealt with into every new relationship. What is your relationship like with your parents? Siblings, past partners. If either of those raise your anxieties, then work out this issues with a therapist. Humans tend to follow patterns based on their unprocessed issues in their past. To do something different, a person has to change themselves first. Work on anger issues, anxieties, fears, and communications skills focusing on conflict resolution to be ready for that good person. |
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