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Topic: What is the first question you ask your opposite partner whe
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Wed 08/14/24 11:23 AM

'Is that a smartphone in your pocket or
are you just happy to see me?'

Welcome ;-)

You may touch with your hand to find out for yourself. :blush:

Gia's photo
Thu 08/15/24 07:27 AM
Interests like music taste, movies, tv shows
hobbies, favourite foods.
what they do for fun.
favourite color
do they have children /animals
Live alone
Relationship status
Close to family, how many siblings
Like animals /kids if they don't have them
Work
Then find out common interests
Core values, where they grew up
Religion
Political choices for Americans
Last relationships
Ask them their favourite childhood story

And just talk. Communication is key and take an interest in their interests. If they don't give effort move on.

Not blood type. I would get super creeped out

What else did I miss?


SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Fri 08/16/24 04:54 PM
Ask their name???
Is it a blind date?
Normally when you go on a date you know their name.
You also know some background info from chatting before meeting.

Personally I have nothing specific I'd ask.
I am not into 20 questions, but in a nice conversation.
If conversation is difficult it's not the right person for me. With the right one it just flows and you automatically get to a question here and there, but then it's a natural thing that is related to context of the convo.

Vijay 's photo
Sun 08/18/24 06:22 PM
How are You doing ?

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Mon 09/02/24 03:42 PM
Maybe ask them what's their favorite book? That'll weed out a few real quick. laugh

Jaan Doh 's photo
Fri 09/13/24 03:04 PM

Ask their name???
Is it a blind date?
Normally when you go on a date you know their name.
You also know some background info from chatting before meeting.

Personally I have nothing specific I'd ask.
I am not into 20 questions, but in a nice conversation.
If conversation is difficult it's not the right person for me. With the right one it just flows and you automatically get to a question here and there, but then it's a natural thing that is related to context of the convo.


Yes ask their name...
Ever since the bank phoned and asked me if I was buying a $2000= car in USA, I stopped using my real name and date of birth online...
So I ask their name lol...

I agree if conversation is difficult, then it's probably not the right person...



Interests like music taste, movies, tv shows
hobbies, favourite foods.
what they do for fun.
favourite color
do they have children /animals
Live alone
Relationship status
Close to family, how many siblings
Like animals /kids if they don't have them
Work
Then find out common interests
Core values, where they grew up
Religion
Political choices for Americans
Last relationships
Ask them their favourite childhood story

And just talk. Communication is key and take an interest in their interests. If they don't give effort move on.

Not blood type. I would get super creeped out

What else did I miss?


I have to admit that I also agree with Gia, sure, I would like to know everything about my date too, and would be open to answering my date's questions too...

And I would expect the topics in the conversation to just jump from one topic to another spontaneously, at the whim of both people, about knowing each others thoughts on a specific aspects of their life..

Just generally using the time during the date to get to know more about each other and seeing if we "click", and if it's worth continuing to date, which can only happen if both you thought the date was positive...


Dramatic Muffin's photo
Fri 09/13/24 03:31 PM

Maybe ask them what's their favorite book? That'll weed out a few real quick. laugh



The Gulag Archipelago

Do I win? flowerforyou

(Kidding, it's not my favorite book. It's just suuuuper long, and you'd have to be a very avid reader to get through it.)

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Fri 09/13/24 04:32 PM
I would just want to know what their interests are.

Heidi Grey 's photo
Fri 09/13/24 05:04 PM
Transylvania maybe????

yes

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Sat 09/14/24 04:26 PM
Do you like home cooked food? Take down my number.

Duttoneer's photo
Mon 09/16/24 12:58 AM
Would you like to go for a coffee and chat?

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