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Topic: Define Sexy
Larsson71's photo
Mon 03/18/24 04:41 AM
Define sexy? That's gotta be me? So many women, only one Larsson71! 🤣🤣🤣:thumbsup::100:

Saher's photo
Sat 03/23/24 04:02 AM
Emotionally & socially smart

Stephanie's photo
Sun 03/24/24 11:16 AM
I am told I am sexy almost on the daily. I'm not trying g to be. When I have asked why I'm told the way I move. The way I look when I speak the sou d of my voice and how I speak and my essence or energy that surrounds me...whether that's true or not ....I recently was I voted to another photosshoot a boudoir shoot...wow! Even I was impressed. I was able to see myself from an outsider perspective...I was invited to a shoot that the theme was Angelica what did everyone say about my photos....sexy....they weren't supposed to be...and a night shoot in t.o. same response...but how or why truthfully I want to say it's a natural trait that either someone brings out when they want to...I mean when I want to be a d behave so I can't image how I would be defined then...I believe it is mostly when someone pulls it out of their hiding place....that's because the rest of the time we are people just living g life...does a person know they are sext...not until told

no photo
Sun 03/24/24 12:27 PM
You can't define sexy. Sexy is literally in the eye of the beholder. Forcing people to define beautiful and secy and pushing those definitions is what's wrong with.

If a 6 foot super model finds the short overweight balding guy sexy then that's her call and society has no business in it.

Beachfarmer's photo
Mon 03/25/24 04:59 PM
For there is no such great beauty which hath no strangeness in proportion - Francis Bacon

....a quote I have always loved. "Eye of the beholder" is something I always attributed to Shakespeare. I was wrong. I Googled years ago and it was from Margaret Wolfe Hungerford.

I agree with both of them and you, Ronm.

I'm just looking for several different take's.

Phillipa's photo
Sat 03/30/24 10:24 AM
Excitement :dizzy:

bobtail76's photo
Sat 03/30/24 10:57 AM
Edited by bobtail76 on Sat 03/30/24 11:18 AM


Crystal, you are thinking of romance novels, not reality.

Not unless you wish to call science & psychology a romance novel, hihi.
What I am telling is reality.

It never ceases to surprise me how little people know and understand of how we 'work' when it comes to relationships.
When you explain them -still in understandable language- they get all awkward, sometimes nasty even, and dismissive.
That's in general, not talking about you, so don't take offense.
But this subject is what I've studied to great length, still do,-and even taught courses about.

All what I'm saying is based on hormonal workings and psychology, aka science...

This knowledge has been out there for decades yet hardly anyone knows about it! Even in spite of thousands being single and could benefit greatly from it.
That's what I find weird, but alas.


You're actually right. I've learned that women - can find the same man sexy and repulsive, depending on their cycle.

Evolutionary psychologist Sarah Hill wrote a book about the unintended consequences of the birth control pill. One of the unintended consequences I recall, is the pill tricks a woman into being attracted to a guy that she may not be attracted to, when she comes off the pill. The synthetic drugs that trick their body into thinking it's pregnant really messes with the natural order of a woman

motowndowntown's photo
Sat 03/30/24 01:44 PM
I find the ability to make a really good sandwich while staying quiet when the game is on the telly extremely sexy.

MuseOutsideTheLines's photo
Mon 04/01/24 10:36 PM
For me, it’s a whole package- what works for A might be ridiculous for B. It’s just how they carry themselves. Now that I think about it- I agree that confidence is required. I am not religious or a zealot but I find a man who swears all the time to be a turn off. And if, at the end of a first date, they can’t tell you at least 5 things about you….sexy be gone!

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