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Yes porn can be bad for a relationship since it can be addictive.

TRUE.
Just Like Loving Upside Down Pineapples.

I didn’t know upside down pineapples could be addictive.

yep! some of the standards are set way to high and so are the expectations!!!

It's okay if we remember that it's fantasy and for entertainment; not to be realistic.

Congrats on the achievements you're making
in therapy.

only sixi

Change Your Thoughts

Well... there are many addicted to sex and/or porn. That is indicative of some serious unresolved issue.
As it is, many people are still affected by the collective wound(s) concerning sexuality.
We all share a history of abuse, rape, disrespect, lack of love, oppression and so on, regardless of gender. We have all suffered from this and many still do this lifetime depending on their culture & religion.

That means many still need a very strong focus on sex -and unfortunately porn is part of that- to work on these underlying issues.

Also bear in mind that having to oppress sexuality for instance because of strong religious beliefs, doesn't help.
That's the reason that porn is watched / bought a helluva lot in strong religious areas, not just in developing countries but also in the US.
(Google this, I'm not making it up)

If porn is a problem in relationship... depends on how much a man wants/needs to watch it, whether it's an addiction or not, and how much personal growth and development both partners have already gone through.
People that have done lot of healing in that sense and thus also worked through much of their part of the collective wound(s) will automatically be less inclined to need/want porn. They are able to have a healthy sexual & loving relationship instead.

That maybe so but some men think it is reality. Not only can porn be bad for relationships but also for marriages. The song “Strut” by Sheena Easton comes to mind for this subject.

This Reminds me of Catholic Primary School,
when Sister Innocencia Caught Me Looking at
the National Geographic Magazines in the Library.

Curious to know what issue was that? At least National Geographic is a wholesome magazine .

Any issue from before the late 1970s.
Graphic pics of animal fornication.
Pics of partial to full human nudity.

Native Women of the Amazon Jungle.

Oh that one. At least it’s part of their native culture. As for the Nun’s since they’re considered part of the Western society they wouldn’t know about that and of course shun it. Like I said at least National Geographic is a wholesome magazine.

I would say porn is as bad, for a select few, like violent video games. Most don't cross it into the real world.
Reminds me of the game show, fill in the blank. _uck _e in the a__ tonight.
Correct answer: Luck be in the air tonight

Porn has its upside. Saves tons of time dealing with todays "modern" woman and the delusions most (not all) of them have about themselves and their "self worth". 5's and 6's in the real world thinking they are 9's and 10's online gets REAL old REAL fast.

Anything can be bad for us if we over indulge. If you apply moderation in everything you do, then you can’t go far wrong.

Porn this can be blockage of the blessing and work concentration..