Topic: Answer me please 🥺
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Thu 06/15/23 06:59 PM
How to know if someone is serious about you? I need an answer. Thank you very much.

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Thu 06/15/23 07:50 PM
Are you in a hurry? It can take months or years.

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Thu 06/15/23 08:30 PM
I would think that it is a sense that you feel when that person is honest and sincere towards you and requires nothing from you except your happiness and well being. You are young yet so take your time and give this new relationship time to mature to see just what is happening.

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Thu 06/15/23 10:25 PM
It's not like mathematics. There's more than one answer.

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Thu 06/15/23 10:41 PM


A simple question coming up for you ..
How far........... You will go for Love ??
Good Luck ..!

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Sat 06/17/23 02:18 AM
Edited by Duttoneer on Sat 06/17/23 02:25 AM

How to know if someone is serious about you? I need an answer. Thank you very much.



At your age (20) I would say don't start a relationship expecting or wanting it to be too serious, dating should be fun for both of you and to see how you get along. Things will develop if they are meant to be. If you have been dating for some time already you could ask him if it is monogamous between you, or if he wants it to be monogamous between you both, that may give you an indication of how serious he is about dating you. As others have suggested here 'What's the Rush'.

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Tue 06/20/23 08:35 AM
At your age (20) I would say don't start a relationship expecting or wanting it to be too serious, dating should be fun for both of you and to see how you get along. Things will develop if they are meant to be. If you have been dating for some time already you could ask him if it is monogamous between you, or if he wants it to be monogamous between you both, that may give you an indication of how serious he is about dating you. As others have suggested here 'What's the Rush'.

thank you very much. I really appreciate your help.

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Thu 06/22/23 05:30 AM
Dont worry nothing will happen to u like it did for me I was betryed:disappointed_relieved::disappointed_relieved:

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Thu 06/22/23 05:30 AM
Dont worry nothing will happen to u like it did for me I was betryed:disappointed_relieved::disappointed_relieved:

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Thu 06/29/23 10:24 AM

Are you in a hurry? It can take months or years.

Have you found someone

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Thu 06/29/23 10:39 AM
You fall you learn..

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Thu 06/29/23 05:31 PM
They don't press charges.

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Fri 07/21/23 09:24 PM

At your age (20) I would say don't start a relationship expecting or wanting it to be too serious, dating should be fun for both of you and to see how you get along. Things will develop if they are meant to be. If you have been dating for some time already you could ask him if it is monogamous between you, or if he wants it to be monogamous between you both, that may give you an indication of how serious he is about dating you. As others have suggested here 'What's the Rush'.

thank you very much. I really appreciate your help.


Though Duttoneer's answer is good, I'd like to add to the "what's the rush" angle and say that knowing if someone is serious does require trust, and this does take time to build. If you can truly trust each other, then you can trust that the affection the other shows you is sincere. Then, if you're both serious, you will certainly feel it.

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Sat 07/22/23 10:44 PM
The best way is to ask him and
watch if he squirms biggrin waving

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Sat 07/22/23 10:53 PM
greetings of friendship for those of you who are already on this site:raising_hand::raising_hand:

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Mon 07/24/23 12:45 PM
Just a guess maybe I'm wrong. From your post it sort of comes across sounding like maybe someone is pushing you on the issue. If so everyones advice is correct. Take your time. Trust and love are earned and gained over time.

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Mon 07/24/23 02:08 PM
If he is a good listener and is very respectful of you. He cheers you on your goals and dreams. He is like a supportive best friend.

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Mon 07/24/23 11:40 PM
greetings of friendship for those of you who are already on this site:raising_hand::raising_hand:

Welcome To The Jungle
Good Luck :wink::thumbsup: