Topic: Please rate my profile.
Kittykat's photo
Thu 03/16/23 12:10 AM
Let me know what you think and any advice would be nice.

no photo
Thu 03/16/23 12:57 AM
N:slight_smile:I:slight_smile:C:slight_smile:E 8ight
Good Luck :thumbsup:

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Thu 03/16/23 04:02 AM
Not much to go by.
When looking for a friend I wouldn't go for someone who says to be sarcastic but someone who's kind & happy & joyful. I'd want someone who adds to my life, not takes away from it and 'sarcastic' can be pretty nasty and is also indicative of lack of self-love. Not what I'd want in my life.

Apart from that it doesn't convey what you'd want to do, nor whether 'friendship' means platonic with a man or if it can also be a woman.
Do you want to go shopping, have girl-time, go out etc. Or is it you want a male friend to take out the bin, fix the fence, or what??
Too vague.
You gotta elaborate and try to make it a bit of a happy write-up.

Larsi666 😽's photo
Thu 03/16/23 02:05 PM
Greetings from a fellow Metalhead :metal:

But yeah, it needs a few wee lines about the guy you like to be linked up with.

Redcarpet's photo
Fri 03/17/23 12:55 AM
would give it 8 because your most of who i am..but im not sarcastic. I dont have much to say but i will always try to keep a conversation going with some smiles and laughing inbetween....

Gia's photo
Mon 03/20/23 02:54 PM
Hello and welcome to Mingle. I think I manifested more widows to the forum. Joking, but it’s nice to see a few more widows here. :slight_smile:

My suggestion is just write a few more positive things about yourself as a friend. (interests, hobbies, What you’re passionate about, pets, etc) It can be anything. As a widow myself I know these things can be hard. People would ask me what my favourite food is and I’d list his favourites without realizing it. Someone wanted to cook for me. He ask what my favourite food was and without thinking I said Cabbage Rolls. Such a bad first date food and it’s not my favourite. Lol Can you imagine what he was thinking, plus the hours to make it. Lol You get my point. If this is all you can write it’s fine. I took my profile down and still get a lot of replies. I think it’s the picture… I don’t know how many times I’m asked if I’m wearing clothes and I am. Lol

As a widow, I have to give a little advice without jading your own experience - I won’t say to much. Just be cautious. some people will pretend to be friends (fake friends and pleasure seekers). Be firm with your boundaries.

With that being said, I’ve met some amazing people here. My suggestion is stick to the forum - there’s a lot of good people here. All the ladies are amazing and the guys aren’t bad either. Lol





Gia's photo
Mon 03/20/23 02:58 PM
Look at everyone else’s post and mines a chapter book. Lol I’m sorry. I always fail the assessments here. Lol

Good Luck and I hope to see you in the forum. :slight_smile:

Laska Paul 's photo
Mon 03/20/23 11:27 PM

I don't know how to Rate and how to comment..!
I will just say , ITS OKAY !!

Slim gym 's photo
Tue 03/21/23 03:20 AM
Ouch !!! You speak sarcasm !!!!
Just like me .... hmmm! Yup life is too short to take anything too seriously ...
Like another poster says .... profile or no profile , pictures do the trick all the time ......
Good luck and welcome to M2 !!

Bigsy8's photo
Wed 03/22/23 07:05 AM

Let me know what you think and any advice would be nice.

7 I like it. Just enough there to grab my attention and make me wanna talk more xx and your photos are non too shabby too x

Jensen albert 's photo
Fri 10/20/23 05:52 PM
Not much to go by.
When looking for a friend I wouldn't go for someone who says to be sarcastic but someone who's kind & happy & joyful. I'd want someone who adds to my life, not takes away from it and 'sarcastic' can be pretty nasty and is also indicative of lack of self-love. Not what I'd want in my life.

Apart from that it doesn't convey what you'd want to do, nor whether 'friendship' means platonic with a man or if it can also be a woman.
Do you want to go shopping, have girl-time, go out etc. Or is it you want a male friend to take out the bin, fix the fence, or what??
Too vague.
You gotta elaborate and try to make it a bit of a happy write-up.

hello beautiful how are you doing today hope you are having a great day :heartpulse:

no photo
Tue 11/14/23 03:45 AM
Go for it! Cheers

Skyjun's photo
Mon 12/11/23 10:33 AM
Let me know what you think and any advice would be nice.

🥹🥹

no photo
Mon 12/11/23 11:11 AM

Let me know what you think and any advice would be nice.



Your KITTY KAT is Well Written, Warm and Fuzzy.

Mr Good Guy's photo
Mon 12/11/23 06:16 PM
Edited by Mr Good Guy on Mon 12/11/23 06:18 PM
I'll tell you what nobody else here will. It matters not one bit what you, as a woman, write in your profile (within reason), your results here will be the same. If there are men near you, they will contact you pretty much regardless.

Gentleman K's photo
Wed 12/13/23 08:57 AM
I recommend you put a full body shot, it can be tasteful, doesn't necessarily have to showing all skin. Guys are visual creatures and we want to see the full package of what we are dealing with.

The word sarcastic is over used with women's profiles. Try to find a different descriptive word for y1our sense of humor.

Try to add a pic with you having a warm smile or at least a little grin. It should be authentic emotion when taken or it will feel forced and faked.

Gentleman K's photo
Wed 12/13/23 09:05 AM
In general you might be right, but i pass by so many profiles that are of attractive women, for many reasons, but one of which the profile and bio is blank! Or the person didn't put any thought into it, any effort. The other thing i pass by is where they say oh im not any good at writing these, just message me and ask questions... my1 immediate response is :x:

Gentleman K's photo
Wed 12/13/23 09:07 AM
Agreed

YukonGentleman's photo
Thu 12/14/23 09:18 PM
I know it is difficult to smile in a selfie, but you could at least try!

The 'no answers' are bad. Fill in the details.

It is not a bad profile, but nor is it a good one.