Community > Coffee Houses, Bars & Chit Chat

Previous 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 Next

Topic: Apple & Blondey …….
Gia Joined Fri 08/05/22 Posts: 7915	Mon 10/17/22 08:24 PM
Apple and Blondey I love your responses. I'm going to make peanut butter squares before I get pregnant. Cobin I love your new name, it's a keeper. 🥰 River - There 2L jugs of chocolate sauce. You could cover his and your entire bodies in it. I'm giggling picturing you (not in that way Mike, mind out of the gutter). Sounds like a good Sundae! Mike is always stirring the pot!

Blondey111 Joined Sun 01/27/13 Posts: 9013	Mon 10/17/22 11:09 PM
Yes you made me look. gia jump right in if you want to help the mingle men with feminine insight Omg yes. Where do I start? My picker is off. You're going to regret offering help. I attract the most narcissist, manipulative, controlling men I've ever seen in my life on mingle and in person. The egos are large on these ones. I need a good friend/family to say close your legs and stop being a ____. Geez! What's attractive to me? F if I know. A heart beat and dominance it seems. They can smell the vulnerability and submissive on me it seems. lol Gia .. I was asking if you wanted to help give the men advice .. but if there are any bad boys on mingle perhaps they can post why they are drawn to you . You don’t seem submissive to me but I don’t know you that well. There are so many theories about why women fall for the wrong men from self esteem issues to misplaced priorities . I tend to favour the neuro-scientific explanation .. involving the reward centre in our brain ( the limbic centre ) and other areas that regulate emotions , decision making and logical thinking . I read a simple analogy that said “When you see a delicious slice of cake .. you immediately salivate .. Your brain sees food, while your limbic centre imagines how delicious it would be to bite into the cake ( emotional/reward ) At the same time your rational neocortex sees the calorie-dense cake and says, "Hold on a second. I'm supposed to be watching my weight. So which part of the brain wins in the end? It depends if the emotional part of the brain triumphs over the logical part” . Men are not to different from cake or chocolate The great news is you have already identified a pattern in your choice of men .. perhaps you can try putting up a photo of a bad boy ( maybe in your toilet room) and write comments over his body why he is bad for you Or you could wait and see if the mingle men have any better ideas .

Blondey111 Joined Sun 01/27/13 Posts: 9013	Mon 10/17/22 11:11 PM
Gia .. I didn’t know peanut butter squares were a contraceptive . How does that work .. laughing

Blondey111 Joined Sun 01/27/13 Posts: 9013	Mon 10/17/22 11:32 PM
Apple .. i heard this through the grapevine ..” it has been 412 days since someone has been with a woman … And that he had to go jogging in flip flops to remind him of the sound” Do you know any minglers who wear flip flops lol ?

Unknow Joined Sat 07/10/21 Posts: 54502	Tue 10/18/22 12:26 AM
lol Gia .. I was asking if you wanted to help give the men advice .. but if there are any bad boys on mingle perhaps they can post why they are drawn to you . You don’t seem submissive to me but I don’t know you that well. There are so many theories about why women fall for the wrong men from self esteem issues to misplaced priorities . I tend to favour the neuro-scientific explanation .. involving the reward centre in our brain ( the limbic centre ) and other areas that regulate emotions , decision making and logical thinking . I read a simple analogy that said “When you see a delicious slice of cake .. you immediately salivate .. Your brain sees food, while your limbic centre imagines how delicious it would be to bite into the cake ( emotional/reward ) At the same time your rational neocortex sees the calorie-dense cake and says, "Hold on a second. I'm supposed to be watching my weight. So which part of the brain wins in the end? It depends if the emotional part of the brain triumphs over the logical part” . Men are not to different from cake or chocolate The great news is you have already identified a pattern in your choice of men .. perhaps you can try putting up a photo of a bad boy ( maybe in your toilet room) and write comments over his body why he is bad for you Or you could wait and see if the mingle men have any better ideas . Guys is these a appreciation for us or simply an insoolte Cake an Cakes any occasionn, we are looking it

Gia Joined Fri 08/05/22 Posts: 7915	Tue 10/18/22 09:10 AM Edited by Gia on Tue 10/18/22 09:19 AM
Blondey You're a smart woman. I always loved the chaser/runner scenario. Growing up with 3 older sisters that were my role models towards relationships. I seen the way men are. I do love the bad boys. Include a dungeon and I'm there.. The peanut butter squares were a destraction if I wasn't to lazy to make them. LoL

Gia Joined Fri 08/05/22 Posts: 7915	Tue 10/18/22 09:22 AM Edited by Gia on Tue 10/18/22 09:23 AM
lol Gia .. I was asking if you wanted to help give the men advice .. but if there are any bad boys on mingle perhaps they can post why they are drawn to you . You don’t seem submissive to me but I don’t know you that well. There are so many theories about why women fall for the wrong men from self esteem issues to misplaced priorities . I tend to favour the neuro-scientific explanation .. involving the reward centre in our brain ( the limbic centre ) and other areas that regulate emotions , decision making and logical thinking . I read a simple analogy that said “When you see a delicious slice of cake .. you immediately salivate .. Your brain sees food, while your limbic centre imagines how delicious it would be to bite into the cake ( emotional/reward ) At the same time your rational neocortex sees the calorie-dense cake and says, "Hold on a second. I'm supposed to be watching my weight. So which part of the brain wins in the end? It depends if the emotional part of the brain triumphs over the logical part” . Men are not to different from cake or chocolate The great news is you have already identified a pattern in your choice of men .. perhaps you can try putting up a photo of a bad boy ( maybe in your toilet room) and write comments over his body why he is bad for you Or you could wait and see if the mingle men have any better ideas . Guys is these a appreciation for us or simply an insoolte Cake an Cakes any occasionn, we are looking it What in the Cobin is this about? I like your new name btw. Good one Apple.

Apple of Your EYES Joined Mon 03/15/21 Posts: 5477	Tue 10/18/22 04:34 PM
Blondey You're a smart woman. ❤I always loved the chaser/runner scenario. Growing up with 3 older sisters that were my role models towards relationships. I seen the way men are. I do love the bad boys. Include a dungeon and I'm there.. The peanut butter squares were a destraction if I wasn't to lazy to make them. LoL Gia ,the Girl in Action is a good match with Slim too haha..Slim needs someone whos near him with that kind of qualities u have.🥰

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24709	Tue 10/18/22 04:40 PM
Gia .. I didn’t know peanut butter squares were a contraceptive . How does that work .. laughing If I asked the same from my ex.... the answer: 1 step. Apply squares to that radio star face. Instant Birth Control So in this reversal I don't mind being called Pixie or Echo but would I still be the gas lighting guy if I said that she had better recognize herself in the tidepool before she drowns? Nevermind Darnit! I am the dumb dude looking lovingly into the pond. Answering when not asked and asking out of turn. I think I need to go reflect on this. Sorry Gia! Your question.

Apple of Your EYES Joined Mon 03/15/21 Posts: 5477	Tue 10/18/22 09:11 PM
Apple .. i heard this through the grapevine ..” it has been 412 days since someone has been with a woman … And that he had to go jogging in flip flops to remind him of the sound” Do you know any minglers who wear flip flops lol ? oh did he now...flip flops hahahaha

Unknow Joined Sat 07/10/21 Posts: 54502	Tue 10/18/22 10:49 PM
No Questions MilLard I - J (couti..) Including - Jokes by Appu

Blondey111 Joined Sun 01/27/13 Posts: 9013	Wed 10/19/22 01:54 AM
Gia .. I didn’t know peanut butter squares were a contraceptive . How does that work .. laughing If I asked the same from my ex.... the answer: 1 step. Apply squares to that radio star face. Instant Birth Control So in this reversal I don't mind being called Pixie or Echo but would I still be the gas lighting guy if I said that she had better recognize herself in the tidepool before she drowns? Nevermind Darnit! I am the dumb dude looking lovingly into the pond. Answering when not asked and asking out of turn. I think I need to go reflect on this. Sorry Gia! Your question. you don’t need permission to answer Beach and who says that needs to follow rules . What an ex tells you cannot always be trusted as reality

Blondey111 Joined Sun 01/27/13 Posts: 9013	Wed 10/19/22 02:01 AM
@Robin .. your comment about sleeping in coffins reminded me of a funny kiwi movie .. “what we do in the shadows “..., it is a comedy about a group of vampires flatting together in Wellington . If you haven’t seen it check it out .

Unknow Joined Sat 07/10/21 Posts: 54502	Wed 10/19/22 02:13 AM
@Robin .. your comment about sleeping in coffins reminded me of a funny kiwi movie .. “what we do in the shadows “..., it is a comedy about a group of vampires flatting together in Wellington . If you haven’t seen it check it out . 🤪 We don't have facilities like electricity an secondary lifestyle in Coffin.... Still i will check with my boss Munglu Skeletor if he permit me to go to human café

Unknow Joined Sat 07/10/21 Posts: 54502	Wed 10/19/22 02:16 AM
Questions to both the Dual Directors A B What's your favorite sweet dishes & Food in vegetables.. ??

Blondey111 Joined Sun 01/27/13 Posts: 9013	Wed 10/19/22 02:17 AM
@Robin .. your comment about sleeping in coffins reminded me of a funny kiwi movie .. “what we do in the shadows “..., it is a comedy about a group of vampires flatting together in Wellington . If you haven’t seen it check it out . 🤪 We don't have facilities like electricity an secondary lifestyle in Coffin.... Still i will check with my boss Munglu Skeletor if he permit me to go to human café Pinocchio.. if that were true you would not be on mingle

Unknow Joined Sat 07/10/21 Posts: 54502	Wed 10/19/22 02:20 AM
Pinocchio.. if that were true you would not be on mingle I'm not on Mingle at all.. it's only humour's from mingle2

Blondey111 Joined Sun 01/27/13 Posts: 9013	Wed 10/19/22 02:28 AM
Questions to both the Dual Directors A B What's your favorite sweet dishes & Food in vegetables.. ?? why are you going to surprise us with dinner It is hard to choose just one favourite .. I grew up eating apple pie lots of happy memories and reminds me of home . I always eat plenty of raw and cooked organic veges . . Would never say no to roasted pumpkin cooked with garlic rosemary and red onions .. delicious . Your turn ….

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24709	Wed 10/19/22 02:48 AM
OM Goodness laughing at the sound flip flops make when jogging Come to think of it...it HAS be a year and few months of not being with a woman in flip flops. I always wear mine though. Vampires sharing a flat? A cacoffiney of vampires, or is that just they make?

Blondey111 Joined Sun 01/27/13 Posts: 9013	Wed 10/19/22 03:05 AM
OM Goodness laughing at the sound flip flops make when jogging Come to think of it...it HAS be a year and few months of not being with a woman in flip flops. I always wear mine though. Vampires sharing a flat? A cacoffiney of vampires, or is that just they make? I wasn’t sure if flip flops are worn globally or just in kiwi land . It made me laugh when I was typing it . If I can find a good clip I will post one later :-)