Go ahead and rate me but be nice

Badmouthing a former partner and relationship is horribly off-putting and very disrespectful.
It only makes one wonder what her story is about you.
Also odd that you stayed in a relationship for nearly 3 decades even though it -as you said- made you miserable. You could've left.
Just to illustrate how lame it sounds what you say in your write up.

All in all there's a lot of negativity and bad-mouthing...
You have to take care of others...
You don't have your own place...
You don't have time...
You're barely out of a relationship...
You're still married...
Not one happy photo with a smile...

And you want a perfect fit, a turnkey solution, for a partner. Life and love don't work that way. There's taking time to get to know each other, adjust, compromise, give and take etc. and there's always a risk to get hurt when it doesn't work out.

Seems you're not willing to do any of that, meaning you may better stay single. Certainly if you don't want to get hurt again as staying single is the only way you can guarantee that.

Personally I run for the hills when I see a profile like yours.
It's one big red flag.
Word of advice: wait until you're in a better place in life.

Oh, and considering your name... I assume you also smoke joints...
Could be off-putting too for many.

Overall, your profile is written in such a way,
as to make you out to be a sniveling little
pisshole.

Man up.

All the negativity and then to list that you are a caregiver, too funny...lol

My thoughts as well, although I considered it sad. That kind of negativity has no place in the healthcare industry. Those in need of a caregiver need compassion, understanding, and patience. It doesn't sound like the OP has these characteristics.

OT... I agree with Crystal's and Rock's posts. I too would run the other way, or simply block you.

Consider deleting what you have and rewriting it while focusing on the positive aspects of life. Or like Crystal said, wait until you're in a better place in life because from the things you wrote, you clearly have anger and resentment issues.

Maybe hang out in the forums for a bit. It's a great way to learn and grow, build relationships, or simple to relax and have a little fun... laugh.

Best of luck to you.

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If you don't want to meet a good woman, ever... Probably best if you start all over, but first I suggest stowing your baggage and changing your attitude.

First and last sentences are a huge turn off.

I could say more but my thoughts are already covered by other members,

Finally, not sure why you think half nudie shots are enticing to women


I would suggest a rewrite and strongly advise you to be positive. Good luck.

SC....Totally agree with all you said

from a guys point of view dude...i'd rewrite...change your pics but then wonder if this would change you...3 decades of being together makes me think you'd be back to her...just my POV ok

Rate me but be honest an loyal to me

Please open your own thread. Otherwise you get lost in someone else's Rate Me thread. Thanks.

What a profile, it needs improvement
Good luck to you

you'r profile is great dude

Best profile this site has ever seen.