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I'm up for moving all this ice and snow is too much for this lost California girl
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This is a serious opinion poll, I'm looking for honest answers from the ladies. Maybe you can tell me why it seems so dammm difficult to find a woman who would want to at least start a good friendship in person and see where things lead. I have, what I think to be some great qualities in a man. I am.. Honest, genuine, sincere, loyal, good sense of humor, a man of my word, depndable, romantic, caring, spontanious, adventurous, financially secure, not a flake, etc, etc. My idea of a romantic evening would be one like talking an evening stroll on the beach, after having a nice dinner out. Sitting, watching the sunset, letting her lean back on my chest while we sit and I just hold her, we talk, laugh, be playful, I might sneak some little kisses in on her neck and cheek from time to time. Maybe give her a little something to remember the evening, like a special flower or token of some kind. So with this information..can you tell me why it seems to be so tough for me to meet a woman who would enjoy this? Am I going in a wrong direction? Is it my physical appearence? I know I';m no Bradd Pitt type and I'm not real tall, but I am in decent shape and have lots of energy. I think I am able to communicate well and hold a good conversation. So whats my deal?? I have been told by all my friends, who have known me some 20+ years, I'm a very "nice" guy and a great friend. So whats missing for me!!?? This is an honest sincere question and would appreciate some feedback. 
I wonder the same thing about men.......guess I have the same problem...Good luck to you |
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This is a serious opinion poll, I'm looking for honest answers from the ladies. Maybe you can tell me why it seems so dammm difficult to find a woman who would want to at least start a good friendship in person and see where things lead. I have, what I think to be some great qualities in a man. I am.. Honest, genuine, sincere, loyal, good sense of humor, a man of my word, depndable, romantic, caring, spontanious, adventurous, financially secure, not a flake, etc, etc. My idea of a romantic evening would be one like talking an evening stroll on the beach, after having a nice dinner out. Sitting, watching the sunset, letting her lean back on my chest while we sit and I just hold her, we talk, laugh, be playful, I might sneak some little kisses in on her neck and cheek from time to time. Maybe give her a little something to remember the evening, like a special flower or token of some kind. So with this information..can you tell me why it seems to be so tough for me to meet a woman who would enjoy this? Am I going in a wrong direction? Is it my physical appearence? I know I';m no Bradd Pitt type and I'm not real tall, but I am in decent shape and have lots of energy. I think I am able to communicate well and hold a good conversation. So whats my deal?? I have been told by all my friends, who have known me some 20+ years, I'm a very "nice" guy and a great friend. So whats missing for me!!?? This is an honest sincere question and would appreciate some feedback.
I wonder the same thing about men.......guess I have the same problem...Good luck to you I was thinking the same thing Katt! It's not just nice guys who finish last, ya know. But, good luck, eventually, you will find someone who will appreciate all you have to offer and will give you the same in return. I truly believe all of us will 
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move to new york.
my mother would be PERFECT FOR YOU, lol |
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move to new york. my mother would be PERFECT FOR YOU, lol hahaaaaaaaaaaaa |
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Hummm I guess you just have meet the wrong woman so far my self would love to have the friendhip first get to know them with out sex popping up ever other word shshshsh get to know my mind before ya think I will hit the sack with them
 sex is great but there is much more to a person then just the bedroom. If one can not capture the mind how do they think that anything else will follow.
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move to new york. my mother would be PERFECT FOR YOU, lol LOL..I was born in Catskill, NY. 
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Hmmmm, as yummy as you come across, your profile says you are currently crushing on someone, so I would have to say that yes you are yummy, but I have no desire being in the back ground. Good luck.
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Don't take this wrong...but maybe you try too hard...I do sometimes...pushes people away for some reason...
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Or not...I think he's going about it the right way.
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I have talked to women who say they dont have time to be just friends first as well. I figure if you cant be friend first how is anything else going to last.
I think you can make friends over the internet, but loves gotta be in person. Anyboyd can be whomever the want to be 1000 miles away, it isnt right, but I gaurantee you its happening tonight somewhere on this site. |
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Hmmmmmm.... nothing wrong with a man who loves dogs.
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this isn't a negative comment. but you sound blah. boring. and I'm sure you're not! do you have any unique hobbies or interests? you might want to consider sharing those instead of the cookie cutter perfect evening we all wished we had.
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Try making sure you give them a little bit of the BADBOY because all women like a bit of the badboy. They swoon all about dinners and romance etc., but they like to be spanked. 
HEY..I am just keeeeeeding...... Damn!! I thought you were serious!! |
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Which is why it's GREAT to em people and find out more about them...what you see on the surface isn't necessarily all that is there....sumthingdifferent is definately multidimensional and interesting - if you read some of his posts, etc, you'd see.
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Wow! I had no idea this thread would still be kicking up dust!
I had written it as an offshoot from another post..more of a "pointing out" topic more than anything. Since I had written it, I have found a very special interest in a very unique woman. Most all of us are here to find "someone" that we can connect with. And several have found that special someone in thier lives. Now I have found a woman who has qualities and some very rare things that I long ago resigned myself to knowing "I'm different in that way...nobody was meant to understand that part of me".....until now. And even more amazing is when she woud share that information with me and she had no clue we shared such "qwirks" as she calls it. I had changed my profile, because I'm going to find out who this special woman is and see what may hold for the two of us. We are both scared, but excited as well. Things have happened amazingly fast, but incredibly "naturally"..no "working" at it..its amazing smooth so far. So I will be keeping my friends here posted. For now..I'm just going to enjoy the journey..because no matter what the outscome..its going to be nice. 
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Most men - and you are no exception - have great attractive qualities that would make them an excellent partner for any woman. However, most of these men - and you seem to be no exception - have trouble finding dates or girlfriends or friends with benefits or whatever they're looking for. Now, why is that? You have all of these positive responses from women on this discussion thread that confirm your value as a good potential suitor...but you still seem to have some trouble finding a date? The truth is, most men just don't know how to sell themselves. There are many great products out there, but only the ones with effective advertising get purchased. People in the PUA (pickup artist) community acknowledge the fact that every man has something great and attractive within them that he can offer to women, and have developed the best methods to convey these attractive qualities, to basically become the best "dating salesmen" out there, or however you want to see it. I think you'll benefit from checking out my thread, "Pickup Artist Secrets Revealed!" in this forum. Is that you, Mystery? |
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I think a lot of people are just in the wrong location. The milage is a big thing!! I think when you meet someone great, it always comes down to something like distance. You think you can overcome being far apart, but I have done the LDR...it is very hard.
I think you are doing all the right things, just hang in there. I am sure there is someone for everyone!! You are a handsome guy and you have a lot to offer that special lady. Just when you least expect it...thats when it will happen!! I wish you luck
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Maybe other women would disagree with me but when a guy starts talking about what he can do with his tongue and other parts to people he hasn't even met yet..sorry, but that is just creepy. Mabye that is your problem. Tone it down, I think.
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Is that you, Mystery? LOL Like teacher like student
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