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Everyone appears to be "looking" for a partner. We have all had them before, what changed? I told my last "higher power" she needed to change, she did. She changed addresses.
Maybe it it is not the people we meet, our surrondings, etc. that needs to change, maybe it is "US" that needs to change.. |
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maybe that the prob you looking to chang them. myself. i wont chang for anyone i am how i am. take me or leav me but dont change me
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It's not about changing one of the other, accept people for who they are (good or bad) and things will all fall into place.
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Shouldn't we accept the good and the bad about the one we choose to be with. That is unless the bad is abuse, than we should just run.
If you go into a relationship, wishing to change a person, than why did you get into the relationship to begin with? |
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I agree Snuggles...if it's abusive then run for the hills. Nobody needs to put up with that.
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I am about to make a BIG change.
I am moving out of my house in the country, and going back into the service. It is gonna be an adventure training and serving with men 20 years my juniour, but I love a good adventure. I have been living my life for women that used my love to serve their purposes, and now its time for me. So, away I go. |
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Good Luck to you Klugman. That is mostly definatly a BIG change for you.
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you're absolutely right hjfin, it is me that needs changing...but i like me and i'm not changing anything
 and you cannot change someone else, but why would you want to??? that has never made any sense to me, but it does seem that 8/10 times the thing that attracted you to the other person in the first place ends up being the thing you most dislike about them when the relationship goes downhill 
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Klugman...thank you for keeping me and my family safe...watch yourself and i won't forget you in my prayers
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Good luck and stay safe Klugman
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hope you have a grat adventur and thank you for your courge
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Everyone appears to be "looking" for a partner. We have all had them before, what changed? I told my last "higher power" she needed to change, she did. She changed addresses. Maybe it it is not the people we meet, our surrondings, etc. that needs to change, maybe it is "US" that needs to change..  you made a her your higher power?
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Safe journey Klugman.. 
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Everyone appears to be "looking" for a partner. We have all had them before, what changed? I told my last "higher power" she needed to change, she did. She changed addresses. Maybe it it is not the people we meet, our surrondings, etc. that needs to change, maybe it is "US" that needs to change.. you made a her your higher power? |
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Everyone appears to be "looking" for a partner. We have all had them before, what changed? I told my last "higher power" she needed to change, she did. She changed addresses. Maybe it it is not the people we meet, our surrondings, etc. that needs to change, maybe it is "US" that needs to change.. Wow ya mean we are suppose to be looking for a partner shshshhssh someone forgot to tell me that Hummmm change naw I'm too old to change my ways and dont expect anyone to change either if it is there at the beginning then you take the good and the bad and and enjoy what you have. Everyone has to be able to be themselves. If that is what they were when you fell in love with them why would you want to change what attracted you in the first place? 
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So true...
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I am in a relationship and have been for 3 years, I always find myself trying to change him, I have to learn to accept him for who he is, although there is alot of good about him there are definitely a few bad things as well. guess if down the road those "bad things" dont change then I should just leave.
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I have this feeling..I am who I am..You are who you are..And if its meant to be..Love will find a way to work..God will see to that.So I no longer try and force anything or change to please..And I'm a much happier person for it....And just let things happen as they will..
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you're absolutely right hjfin, it is me that needs changing...but i like me and i'm not changing anything and you cannot change someone else, but why would you want to??? that has never made any sense to me, but it does seem that 8/10 times the thing that attracted you to the other person in the first place ends up being the thing you most dislike about them when the relationship goes downhill We always see in others, what it is we dislike in ourselves.. 
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Everyone appears to be "looking" for a partner. We have all had them before, what changed? I told my last "higher power" she needed to change, she did. She changed addresses. Maybe it it is not the people we meet, our surrondings, etc. that needs to change, maybe it is "US" that needs to change.. you made a her your higher power? SIGH!!!!!!!!!!! Yes, I "NEVER" said I was well or tightly wrapped.. (((hugs))) |
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