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Topic: Internet sex
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Thu 12/09/21 03:25 AM
Edited by Unknow on Thu 12/09/21 03:30 AM
Pics, videos, messaging, phonecalls etc. Internet sex is very available for lonely people. Would you do it or does it seem too weird for you?

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Ava Adore's photo
Thu 12/09/21 03:38 AM
It's actually a huge turn off for me. I'm fine with sexy talk without exchanging nudes or videos, but I need to have a mutual connection with them first. The sexy talk has to be tastefully done, without all the trashy language.

I would much rather avoid online sex stuff though. I've blocked too many guys because of that.

JulieABush's photo
Thu 12/09/21 03:40 AM
Beware if you do the video one since they might be hacked and the hacker will demand a ransom from you both to not go public with them.

Rock's photo
Thu 12/09/21 03:40 AM
Edited by Rock on Thu 12/09/21 03:51 AM
There is a vast difference twixt lonely
and desperate.


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Thu 12/09/21 03:51 AM

It's actually a huge turn off for me. I'm fine with sexy talk without exchanging nudes or videos, but I need to have a mutual connection with them first. The sexy talk has to be tastefully done, without all the trashy language.

I would much rather avoid online sex stuff though. I've blocked too many guys because of that.



I agree. The connection is of most importance. A gentleman or gentlewoman, (someone with class), will be very patient. Lust is not attractive, but love is.

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Thu 12/09/21 03:53 AM

Beware if you do the video one since they might be hacked and the hacker will demand a ransom from you both to not go public with them.


Ewww, not ever doing it myself, so no worries there. But, friends tell me it happens.

JulieABush's photo
Thu 12/09/21 03:56 AM
Yeah I knowoops .

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Thu 12/09/21 04:02 AM

Yeah I knowoops .


โค๐Ÿงก:yellow_heart::green_heart::blue_heart::purple_heart:

SparklingCrystal ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’Ž's photo
Thu 12/09/21 04:05 AM
Even if you have a click with someone so you'd go there... how can it be fulfilling?
Sure, you can have a great peak moment, but you're still alone, not touched, not touching, not kissing, not feeling. And most of all: not merging together.

It could be a short term thrill, but in the end you still got nothing.

SparklingCrystal ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’Ž's photo
Thu 12/09/21 04:08 AM

Beware if you do the video one since they might be hacked and the hacker will demand a ransom from you both to not go public with them.

Then they gotta be pretty stupid. No need to show your face. If then someone wishes to post it somewhere without you knowing, or is hacked, there's nothing to worry about.

Larsi666 ๐Ÿ˜ฝ's photo
Thu 12/09/21 04:09 AM
Yeah there is people, who like that stuff. But I am not one of them. I shall give it a pass oops

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Thu 12/09/21 04:12 AM

Even if you have a click with someone so you'd go there... how can it be fulfilling?
Sure, you can have a great peak moment, but you're still alone, not touched, not touching, not kissing, not feeling. And most of all: not merging together.

It could be a short term thrill, but in the end you still got nothing.


IKR. Hence why I refuse to have a long distant relationship again. Been there, done that. It is lonely and you need to meet asap if it happens.

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Thu 12/09/21 04:14 AM

Yeah there is people, who like that stuff. But I am not one of them. I shall give it a pass oops


Sex addicts? No judgement, each to their own. Just not my thing.

SparklingCrystal ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’Ž's photo
Thu 12/09/21 04:23 AM
Edited by SparklingCrystal ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’Ž on Thu 12/09/21 04:24 AM


Even if you have a click with someone so you'd go there... how can it be fulfilling?
Sure, you can have a great peak moment, but you're still alone, not touched, not touching, not kissing, not feeling. And most of all: not merging together.

It could be a short term thrill, but in the end you still got nothing.


IKR. Hence why I refuse to have a long distant relationship again. Been there, done that. It is lonely and you need to meet asap if it happens.


I agree. Long distance is only an option for me if it is possible to meet regardless and at least one is able and willing to move. A permanent long distance is not an option for me either. I'm too cuddly. I need touch, feeling, kissing, really being together to talk, laugh, interact. And sleep together!
And when physically together he can also put the rolling bin out for me rofl rofl rofl

Giggling as I type that last bit, hihi. I'm beginning to feel so so ready for a relationship! I kinda lost that feeling for a while.
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Larsi666 ๐Ÿ˜ฝ's photo
Thu 12/09/21 04:26 AM


Yeah there is people, who like that stuff. But I am not one of them. I shall give it a pass oops


Sex addicts? No judgement, each to their own. Just not my thing.


Might be an addiction, might be an act of despair. But there is always an alarm bell ringing, with 'blackmail' written on it mad

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Thu 12/09/21 04:30 AM



Even if you have a click with someone so you'd go there... how can it be fulfilling?
Sure, you can have a great peak moment, but you're still alone, not touched, not touching, not kissing, not feeling. And most of all: not merging together.

It could be a short term thrill, but in the end you still got nothing.


IKR. Hence why I refuse to have a long distant relationship again. Been there, done that. It is lonely and you need to meet asap if it happens.


I agree. Long distance is only an option for me if it is possible to meet regardless and at least one is able and willing to move. A permanent long distance is not an option for me either. I'm too cuddly. I need touch, feeling, kissing, really being together to talk, laugh, interact. And sleep together!
And when physically together he can also put the rolling bin out for me rofl rofl rofl

Giggling as I type that last bit, hihi. I'm beginning to feel so so ready for a relationship! I kinda lost that feeling for a while.
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Naww โคโคโค Me too. I have been lost in grief for ages. Mingle has taught me good men exist and I am getting close to ready. Sometimes when I get overwhelmed with yucky messages from men, I think I can only find happiness with a female. But some great Mingle guys restore my faith in men.
I only want the best for you my lovely lady. Hang in there xxx

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Thu 12/09/21 04:32 AM



Yeah there is people, who like that stuff. But I am not one of them. I shall give it a pass oops


Sex addicts? No judgement, each to their own. Just not my thing.


Might be an addiction, might be an act of despair. But there is always an alarm bell ringing, with 'blackmail' written on it mad


Eek. Monsters online. Who would of thought? :wink::wink:

Larsi666 ๐Ÿ˜ฝ's photo
Thu 12/09/21 04:48 AM




Yeah there is people, who like that stuff. But I am not one of them. I shall give it a pass oops


Sex addicts? No judgement, each to their own. Just not my thing.


Might be an addiction, might be an act of despair. But there is always an alarm bell ringing, with 'blackmail' written on it mad


Eek. Monsters online. Who would of thought? :wink::wink:


I am completely shellshocked :wink:

But you will always find people, begging for trouble noway

Tom4Uhere's photo
Thu 12/09/21 04:55 AM
Internet Sex = Masturbation
Unless there is some new technology I am unaware of recently.

It is masturbation using audio/visual stimuli over a tcp/ip connection...nothing more.

Phone Sex = Masturbation

It is masturbation using voice stimuli.

The only form of true sex is actual physical sex between two or more people.

The use of toys by yourself is masturbation.
The use of magazines by yourself is masturbation.
The use of imagination by yourself is masturbation.

Any sex by yourself is masturbation no matter the stimuli.

Masturbation can be mentally healthy or addictive.
Most human beings masturbate from time to time.
Some people develop a masturbation addiction to porn. Porn is readily available on the internet.

If you think you are having sex, look around you.
If there is not another person there with you, its masturbation.

Internet Sex is a misnomer much like Internet Dating. In actual real life, both require the presence of another person with whom you can reach out and actually touch.
Lack of such means you are alone, physically.

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Thu 12/09/21 05:02 AM

Internet Sex = Masturbation
Unless there is some new technology I am unaware of recently.

It is masturbation using audio/visual stimuli over a tcp/ip connection...nothing more.

Phone Sex = Masturbation

It is masturbation using voice stimuli.

The only form of true sex is actual physical sex between two or more people.

The use of toys by yourself is masturbation.
The use of magazines by yourself is masturbation.
The use of imagination by yourself is masturbation.

Any sex by yourself is masturbation no matter the stimuli.

Masturbation can be mentally healthy or addictive.
Most human beings masturbate from time to time.
Some people develop a masturbation addiction to porn. Porn is readily available on the internet.

If you think you are having sex, look around you.
If there is not another person there with you, its masturbation.

Internet Sex is a misnomer much like Internet Dating. In actual real life, both require the presence of another person with whom you can reach out and actually touch.
Lack of such means you are alone, physically.


100% agree. Merry Christmas to you and your loved ones Tom xxx

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