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Topic: Love at first chat?
Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Tue 02/16/21 04:43 AM
I fell in love three more times this morning and I haven't even eaten breakfast. That Lauren Bacall voice eh? OT: blinkblink

Laska Paul Joined Sun 11/08/20 Posts: 22879	Tue 02/16/21 05:24 AM
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SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33354	Tue 02/16/21 05:29 AM
Well, not love as you need to see someone for that. But as close as you can get to that at first chat, sure as hell. I know, cos I've been there, the feelings mutual, and upon meeting proving to be real as well. And nothing to do with lust btw. I knew from the word go, from reading his message to his profile. It could've been MY profile. It was the most amazing thing. In any case, that deep click, closest to love as you can get, can be there at first chat.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 15022	Tue 02/16/21 05:41 AM Edited by Toodygirl5 on Tue 02/16/21 05:41 AM
No not love! You maybe a bit infatuated by him!

Syed Shahanawaz Karim Joined Tue 02/16/21 Posts: 2	Tue 02/16/21 05:43 AM
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Jenny blaze Joined Thu 02/11/21 Posts: 5	Tue 02/16/21 05:48 AM
Well, not love as you need to see someone for that. But as close as you can get to that at first chat, sure as hell. I know, cos I've been there, the feelings mutual, and upon meeting proving to be real as well. And nothing to do with lust btw. I knew from the word go, from reading his message to his profile. It could've been MY profile. It was the most amazing thing. In any case, that deep click, closest to love as you can get, can be there at first chat. nice one

Luca Joined Sat 01/23/21 Posts: 241	Tue 02/16/21 06:00 AM
I think there are two answers really: 1) what happens to you and that is your own businesse 2) what happens to others and that is NOT for you to say... if other people do fall in love at first chat, it means it is possible that people fall in love at first chat, regardless if that happens to other people or not General point, let's not extend our view to others who can be completely different from us!

artykay Joined Sat 11/18/17 Posts: 170	Tue 02/16/21 06:13 AM
I think there are two answers really: 1) what happens to you and that is your own businesse 2) what happens to others and that is NOT for you to say... if other people do fall in love at first chat, it means it is possible that people fall in love at first chat, regardless if that happens to other people or not General point, let's not extend our view to others who can be completely different from us! Well said. Unfortunately some just need to poke.

Luca Joined Sat 01/23/21 Posts: 241	Tue 02/16/21 06:23 AM
I think there are two answers really: 1) what happens to you and that is your own businesse 2) what happens to others and that is NOT for you to say... if other people do fall in love at first chat, it means it is possible that people fall in love at first chat, regardless if that happens to other people or not General point, let's not extend our view to others who can be completely different from us! Well said. Unfortunately some just need to poke. hey, I've been right twice in a day! long time it did not happen! thank you!

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33354	Tue 02/16/21 06:34 AM
Well, not love as you need to see someone for that. But as close as you can get to that at first chat, sure as hell. I know, cos I've been there, the feelings mutual, and upon meeting proving to be real as well. And nothing to do with lust btw. I knew from the word go, from reading his message to his profile. It could've been MY profile. It was the most amazing thing. In any case, that deep click, closest to love as you can get, can be there at first chat. nice one It sure was the most amazing connection and relationship I've had in life. And it didn't pan out in the end, but now I do know how it can and should feel when it's right.

Jenaej Joined Tue 02/16/21 Posts: 1	Tue 02/16/21 06:52 AM
no

Acquired Taste Joined Thu 01/02/20 Posts: 421	Tue 02/16/21 06:58 AM
like, lust, infatuation, craving, love? i suppose anything is possible especially for the young....you can't help but notice older people say no....do they wish it is so? probably...

catinidaho Joined Fri 10/24/14 Posts: 10866	Tue 02/16/21 07:19 AM
It's never love or lust at first chat.

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21258	Tue 02/16/21 08:17 AM
Nobody loves me. No worries.

Luca Joined Sat 01/23/21 Posts: 241	Tue 02/16/21 08:19 AM
Nobody loves me. No worries. try at second chat

saqlin sweet partner Joined Mon 02/15/21 Posts: 1	Tue 02/16/21 09:55 AM
Yup!

artykay Joined Sat 11/18/17 Posts: 170	Tue 02/16/21 05:26 PM
It's never love or lust at first chat. Most are clearly debunking the 'love' aspect of this post, but not overwhelmingly, so agree with you, in part, in that respect. Believe me, 'guys' can lust after a single glance at a profile Pic. Chatting with that person in the picture, may heighten and release other emotions, but the lust remains. If it's 'never love or lust', what is it?

Bastet127 Joined Wed 06/12/19 Posts: 967	Tue 02/16/21 06:16 PM
People lust after and love people they’ve never even talked too, so probably, yes. Is it a realistic, forever and ever thing, maybe, probably. not. Love is fleeting sometimes.

Shubham gupta Joined Tue 02/16/21 Posts: 1	Tue 02/16/21 10:55 PM
Yeah Hell No hiii