Hello

I hope you are safe and fine.
I would like to find an answer to my question.

How can I recognize that he wrote me a true on a dating site?

What is true what is a lie?

How we can recognize that this a photo of this man?

Have a nice and safe time.

I think photo doesn't matter...the thing matter is ur thoughts

Ok photo doesn't matter you are right.
What about this what he wrote me how can I recognize that it is a true or it isn't?

Copy and paste the text on to one of the plagiarism websites. That will indicate whether he has copied the text or not.

Hello Delightfulillusion,

Thank you for your advice.
Have a beautiful and safety day.

There is many warning signs. But the main rules are, asking you where you live (that is in your profile) or asking you in the first mail to go on Hangouts, alarm bells should ring

He should not be willing to give out his personal information immediately, nor should he ask for yours. He should not ask you for money, gift cards or give you a "poor me" story. He should have at least two pics in his profile to show you (although not 100% proof), it would be tougher for a scammer to get two photos of someone else. He should present an accurate profile (whatever info he has provided)...for example...if he says he lives in Cleveland, Ohio in his profile, but tells you he is currently in Lima, Peru...could be a warning sign.

Hello RockandRoll,

Thank you for your advice. I didn't know that if someone has in the profile that is for example from the States but told me that now is in Europe it can be a warning sign.

Have a nice and safe time.

I see that you are from States, please tell me it is usually used to someone with who you are chatting with some words like "Dear', Hello Beautiful, and similar to this?
I've thought about it, and I don't think it's customary.

Being called fancy names, including 'handsome' is never a good sign. It shows, scammers don't bother to call you by your real name.

"Hello beautiful", "Dear", "Sweetheart"...those are too familiar to use when just meeting someone. A guy that starts out a message with something like that is just a player, and probably has other motives in mind...a regular guy will break the ice by saying "Hi there" or "Hello" and may introduce himself. A gentleman never says anything inappropriate.

Hello
a photo is the first thing to discover sympathy or not, it is decisive .So think I :-). Next is to find an inner inkling between the written stuff.

Hello again Nicole Before you can decide if you trust what he is telling you . You need to decide if you trust he is who he says he is and he is located where he says he is ..

Think of yourself as a detective .. do not take what he tells you as true . If he has given you his email address , name or phone number it is very easy to search the internet . The email address may link to his IP address which could confirm where the email was sent from . Likewise a search of his number may confirm likely area code or if there have been any reports of issues associated with the number . You can google photos and if they appear elsewhere on the net you may find other links . Sometimes a google search may not tell you much ., but it is a good habit to get into .

Trust does take time to establish . Be guided by commonsense and your own intuition . Multi media makes deception easy . Honesty is not a value everyone embraces.

Keep in mind .. Any men you are interacting with also have the same right to check your legitimacy too.,and ask for confirmation ... so do not be offended if that happens .

Hello Blondey111

Thank you so much for your time and advice.
I think that you are right and commonsense and our own intuition can helps make the right choice.
I like to meet new people who have a good aura and are guided by empathy.
I would never mind if the person on the other side wanted to check my credibility.
I understand that it makes that everyone can feel be safety.

Thank you so much for your answer
Thanks to the fact that you wrote and that there are people like you here, I know that I should not immediately give up meeting someone here because people get to know each other this way and I still want to believe that it is possible that I can meet here a sincere man.

Have a lovely day with a sun and stay safe.

Hello Walter19,

Thank you for your answer.

I think that the photo doesn't fully reflect what we can feel when meeting someone in the real world.
You are right that can helps like you wrote " find an inner inkling between the written stuff"

It is not easy but we are learning all our life and new skills are always can bring us good things I think.

Have a wonderful day

It depends on how you filter them. Stay optimistic but skeptic.

nicole fake profiles are every where but the definit anwer is to ask for avideo call even if it so short if the person you are talking to he would cover his face and tell you thatthe camera is broken or something else ive been in this site for a week i guess and i havent met a single real profile

Sometimes what was already said is the best way to say it.
Try not to be so hard on copy/pastes, it saves time and effort.

Nicole, Hope you are well.

Sometimes (if they really want to talk with you and get to know you) you can ask specific details on the subject at hand.

Example:
Do they know things about the subject that they should if their claims are true?
It helps if you have some experience too.

How deep into the subject can they go? Anyone can google but those with actual experience can tell you things you can't find on the web. LiL inconsistencies which happen in real life.

Do they have the "been there / done that" knowledge when talking about where they live? Let them claim how long they have lived there. Then you can do a time search to get maps and photos of the area. If they claim they have lived there all their life you can find reference to a building or store which is no longer there and ask them about it. If they have no clue, they're probably lying about living there all their life. If they lie to you once, what else are they lying about.

You can't build a relationship that lasts when the foundation is based on lies. One lie > okay, next person...

Photos can lie too.
I once dated a woman from another website who had a photo of her in glamour.
When we actually met, she looked terrible. She had meth-head sores on her face and arms and her teeth obviously hadn't been brushed in months. EWW!

You can tell a lot by looking at the background of photos too.
Someone tells you they don't do any drugs or drink and their photo has beer cans and a bong on the table beside them. Someone says they don't smoke and there's a full ashtray next to them.

For interests, someone says they like camping but can't name any campsites or parks in their area. They can't tell you how to build a campfire, where to pitch a tent or how to hoist a food bag.

As a rule of thumb - the truth is in the little things, the details only someone who has experience will know. Specifics you couldn't possibly know unless you have similar experience but they just want to talk about it, in detail. Someone who is lying doesn't have those details. They won't want to talk about it.

All in all, use your inner sense. If it doesn't 'feel' right, it probably isn't right for you...move on to the next candidate.

If it is someone local very close to where you live, and you are interested, then why not arrange to meet them for a coffee and chat in a cafe during the day time? Those with fake photos and profiles will not want to meet you, and if they live very far away try arranging a video call with them after a few email messages. Good luck in your search.