is there anything wrong in been truthful and saying hey i'm on here just for sex and for us both to have some enjoyment

Other than this site is not one of those kind of sites. so you probably wouldn't have much luck here.

Too many men like that out there as it is. Most women want a great relationship.
But you can still find some women that are also interested in sex.
But indeed not so much here but on a sex dating / chat site.

Yet, some might get the impression, it is such a site. As in believing, all profiles in 'Who viewed me' are by real people.

I do not think it is wrong ... just keep looking ... but don't believe those in the forums want that kind of relationship ... might just stay in the search area ... those that don't even do the forums ... good luck ...

It's always better to be honest about what you're looking for rather than misleading people.

I sign this

Yeppers, most women will appreciate you being upfront about what you want out of a "relationship".

Not wrong at all be who you are, and do what you want with your life as long as your honest with the other person.. Then it is up to them to decide if that is all they want..

Myself honestly I prefer that they would tell me so I could wish them well on their journey..

Women ***** about honesty but when they get it they *****. LOL Don't expect much on these sights. Occasional make a bud but that's it. If I had gone along with one some years back I would be a Nigerian prince now, Oh Well. LOL

Depends on your expectations.

If you expect:
- everyone to simply accept it, possibly celebrate it, and not have a nasty comment or unsolicited opinion about it
- it to be any easier to find someone you're actually attracted to
- people to be truthful in return
- to receive any meaningful brownie points or reward for being "truthful"
- you'll be well received or accepted by women you are attracted to, but aren't attracted to you
- don't understand the two rules of internet dating (be attractive, don't be unattractive)

Then, yeah, there's something "wrong" in being truthful and saying hey i'm on here just for sex and for us both to have some enjoyment.

Especially if it's one of those "oh crap, posting a forum thread where I just say 'hey horny ladies, email me for sex so we can just have some enjoyment' will probably violate the tos or something and will be taken down. I know! I'll write it out as a question to get around them so I can billboard rather than go through all those yucky profiles and maybe miss someone that is on now. Can't deal with FOMO, so let's put some bait on the forums!"

Then, yeah, there's something "wrong" in being truthful and saying hey i'm on here just for sex and for us both to have some enjoyment.


Otherwise, no, not really.

Nothing wrong with being honest.

However, most people aren't willing
to play V.D. Roulette.

At least you are honest at the start.

There's nothing wrong with being truthful, but there's a whole lot wrong with your truth.

No, honesty is the best policy. You should never change the truth just to get what you want. You never know the woman/ potential partner may be cool with just that.

Yes, that's how I got here; I didn't believe the scammers but I did think it was just a hookup site and had gotten started registering on my laptop and as I've told the story before one of my FWB thought it would be funny to give me the user name I have.
I discovered the forums and 4000+ posts later here I am.