Well, where should I begin.. I been seeing this nice girl and we almost broke up today over something really stupid, but she changed her mind, but now I find out she is bisexual that doesn't really bother me as I like watching women kiss... Oh yeah!!! I just don't know if I want to invest to much into what could be a train wreck as she is newly divorced and she still talks to her EX husband which is a new bisexual and thinks I'm cute.. I don't make this stuff up folks... I also have a problem with what she told me today about her not liking sex now how is this going to work when I love sex and I sure as hell ain't going to get any from her? I'm really shy so I haven't made that move yet, but when I do she probably ain't going to go pass kissing. I don't see how a chick with a tongue ring doesn't like sex. I'm lost here...

huh?

exactly..

LOL...am I the only one a little lost after reading this post...

all I can say is

run forrest ruuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuun

ayo dude not to sound wrong and all
but dont you think you should ask advice only about certain topics than just mini problems of your life, cause much as a you want a advice , really its your life, you should know wat to do
or well you can always go to a psychiatrist?

If it made sense I wouldn't have asked for advice lol

so whats the main thing that you're concerned about?

a. that she is bisexual
b. that she's newly divorced and she has baggage that goes along with it
c. that her ex husband finds you attractive
d. that you're not gonna get laid
e. that she's just too eccentric for you with all these issues

My question is should I even bother with someone like this? It's not like it's someone I want to bring home to mom.

bi's are fun but i wouldn't suggest getting involved with one. guess i should clarify. bi-curious is alright, and bi is ok as long as they have a 90% interest in just guys. anything else i've seen just go really bad really quick, just not worth it.

Run away. I once made the mistake of not wanting to let go of something that was an inevitable train wreck, and it ended up being one of the worst things ever. If your gut tells you to run away, then run away. It's not worth the heartache and stress.

I think you should go with your first instinct cause it sounds to me like she is more leaning twords being fully lesbian v's just being Bi. You deserve someone who will be there for you and give you the attention that you need without all the excess baggage that is coming with this one. Plus it sounds like she is eventually going to try and talk you into becoming Bi or at least experiment and then the moment you don't she will dump you! I hope I helped a little to clarify this situation so you can see a little more clearer as to what it is that you need to do. Good luck!!

Wow, dude your something else. I know who not to talk to. You talk like this board is for serious problems only. maybe I would of had better luck asking if the perosn above me is worth phucking.... Jerk!

yeah...no offense to anyone who is bi, but i've known a lot of "bi" people...male and female. And none of them have stayed bi. It's usually either a transition to being gay or just an experimental phase. I'm sure there could be some people who stay bi forever, but I've never heard of one. If you were to get involved with this girl, I'd hope for your sake that she's just being experimental. Cuz if you fell in love with her and she decided to be a full fledged lesbian, that could be very painful.

No man can rise so high as a good woman can lift him. No man can go so low as a bad woman can take him. It's not worth it. If you stay in it to use her, then you are sinning against yourself. You are better than that, end it quick and look for someone who wants you and nobody else.

Well, when we first met and went out she was with a woman a couple days after and we were still talking. I know this sounds foolish of me, but I think nothing good can come out of this, but I like her that is why I even bother.

I would never use anyone for sex... I like her and want to be with her that simple.

that is the biggest piece of bullsh!t i have ever heard.

the only reason a woman would say anything like that is if the man she is telling that to isn't satisfying her in bed. sorry, but that's the truth.

women enjoy sex a million times more than men do. can you even wrap your mind around how pleasurable sex can be for a woman? i sure can't: the clitoris has more nerve endings than any section of the male body, with more than double the amount found in the penis. women can have multiple orgasms. they can't even control their own body movements when they actually experiece a mind-blowing orgasm. there are several KINDS of orgasms a woman can experience. they can feel the orgasm in their MINDS. yeah i will NEVER know the feeling of sex for a woman in that great degree of pleasure. this is why it is so much better for them.

if you think you need some brushing up on your skills in bed, check out this thread:

http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/55077

im just being honest, you can get mad
your asking for advice but then again you know dat you have to make this decision on your own
dont cry over spilled milk dat isnt even opened

but there are females who really dont like sex
so how can we really know?