Topic: What Should I do?
madamx7316's photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:04 PM
exit...stage left!

Rick1980's photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:05 PM


...she told me today about her not liking sex

that is the biggest piece of bullsh!t i have ever heard.

the only reason a woman would say anything like that is if the man she is telling that to isn't satisfying her in bed. sorry, but that's the truth.

women enjoy sex a million times more than men do. can you even wrap your mind around how pleasurable sex can be for a woman? i sure can't: the clitoris has more nerve endings than any section of the male body, with more than double the amount found in the penis. women can have multiple orgasms. they can't even control their own body movements when they actually experiece a mind-blowing orgasm. there are several KINDS of orgasms a woman can experience. they can feel the orgasm in their MINDS. yeah i will NEVER know the feeling of sex for a woman in that great degree of pleasure. this is why it is so much better for them.

if you think you need some brushing up on your skills in bed, check out this thread:

http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/55077


Dude, I haven't had sex with her yet.... I'm not chasing her she is the one that calls me alll the time and won't let me hangup. I'm not trying to force her to have sex with me I'm not like that. I have trouble just kissing a woman I'm so shy, but this is the stuff she tells me and I don't know what to make of it.

no photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:05 PM



...she told me today about her not liking sex

that is the biggest piece of bullsh!t i have ever heard.

the only reason a woman would say anything like that is if the man she is telling that to isn't satisfying her in bed. sorry, but that's the truth.

women enjoy sex a million times more than men do. can you even wrap your mind around how pleasurable sex can be for a woman? i sure can't: the clitoris has more nerve endings than any section of the male body, with more than double the amount found in the penis. women can have multiple orgasms. they can't even control their own body movements when they actually experiece a mind-blowing orgasm. there are several KINDS of orgasms a woman can experience. they can feel the orgasm in their MINDS. yeah i will NEVER know the feeling of sex for a woman in that great degree of pleasure. this is why it is so much better for them.

if you think you need some brushing up on your skills in bed, check out this thread:

http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/55077


but there are females who really dont like sex
so how can we really know?

EVERY woman dislikes BAD sex but there is no woman out there that dislikes good sex.

Reenie's photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:08 PM
I know some girls who have had several partners and legitimately dislike sex. It's not that uncommon...some women just aren't into it. It could be a result of them not being emotionally ready or a traumatic experience in their past. Sometimes it has nothing to do with their partners.

CaRisLOVE's photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:09 PM




...she told me today about her not liking sex

that is the biggest piece of bullsh!t i have ever heard.

the only reason a woman would say anything like that is if the man she is telling that to isn't satisfying her in bed. sorry, but that's the truth.

women enjoy sex a million times more than men do. can you even wrap your mind around how pleasurable sex can be for a woman? i sure can't: the clitoris has more nerve endings than any section of the male body, with more than double the amount found in the penis. women can have multiple orgasms. they can't even control their own body movements when they actually experiece a mind-blowing orgasm. there are several KINDS of orgasms a woman can experience. they can feel the orgasm in their MINDS. yeah i will NEVER know the feeling of sex for a woman in that great degree of pleasure. this is why it is so much better for them.

if you think you need some brushing up on your skills in bed, check out this thread:

http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/55077


but there are females who really dont like sex
so how can we really know?

EVERY woman dislikes BAD sex but there is no woman out there that dislikes good sex.


and who said its bad sex??
dude you dont even know their sex life
why are you assuming how rick is to her?
we dont even know their lives man
stop this blasphemy

wat you said on how some girls dont like bad sex is true
or how most who are experienced of sex wants it better
but also there are girls who dont want sex at all
and we really dont know tha situation on this girl
so dont assume man

Rick1980's photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:10 PM
Edited by Rick1980 on Sat 12/22/07 09:11 PM

I know some girls who have had several partners and legitimately dislike sex. It's not that uncommon...some women just aren't into it. It could be a result of them not being emotionally ready or a traumatic experience in their past. Sometimes it has nothing to do with their partners.


Well, that makes more sense then it being my fault as I haven't even touched her. I'm good to her so I believe it has nothing to do with me.

no photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:11 PM



...she told me today about her not liking sex

that is the biggest piece of bullsh!t i have ever heard.

the only reason a woman would say anything like that is if the man she is telling that to isn't satisfying her in bed. sorry, but that's the truth.

women enjoy sex a million times more than men do. can you even wrap your mind around how pleasurable sex can be for a woman? i sure can't: the clitoris has more nerve endings than any section of the male body, with more than double the amount found in the penis. women can have multiple orgasms. they can't even control their own body movements when they actually experiece a mind-blowing orgasm. there are several KINDS of orgasms a woman can experience. they can feel the orgasm in their MINDS. yeah i will NEVER know the feeling of sex for a woman in that great degree of pleasure. this is why it is so much better for them.

if you think you need some brushing up on your skills in bed, check out this thread:

http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/55077


Dude, I haven't had sex with her yet.... I'm not chasing her she is the one that calls me alll the time and won't let me hangup. I'm not trying to force her to have sex with me I'm not like that. I have trouble just kissing a woman I'm so shy, but this is the stuff she tells me and I don't know what to make of it.

well damn! sounds like shes never had a decent lover...ever. not a surprise, though. many women have never even experienced a real orgasm, even after having been married for decades.
she's probably experimenting with the whole bisexuality indulgence because she's never really found satisfaction in making love with men.

so uhh... what is it that YOU want?

Drew07_2's photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:12 PM
Her ex-husband is newly bi, thinks you are cute, and they are still talking? This has all the makings of a train wreck, my friend. I mean, it could go the opposite way (god, bad pun) but really, be sure you don't lose yourself trying to impress or be there for someone not in to you.

Good luck man.

Drew

jenleah32's photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:12 PM
How is it that topics like this always get missread and missunderstood?? Are people out there that brain dead that they can't read in between the lines and see the real issue??
Carl you are always looking for a phsicological explanation for everything...STOP IT!!!!
As my Grandmother use to say if you don't have anything nice to say then don't say it at all!! You know me and you know how I get, this man wants our advice not a phsycological evaluation!

CaRisLOVE's photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:12 PM


I know some girls who have had several partners and legitimately dislike sex. It's not that uncommon...some women just aren't into it. It could be a result of them not being emotionally ready or a traumatic experience in their past. Sometimes it has nothing to do with their partners.


Well, that makes more sense then it being my fault as I haven't even touched her. I'm good to hear so I believe it has nothing to do with me.


see people suppose to give you advice
i dunno wat made chief start to assume your sex life
or even judge other females on how they are
we really dont know her side of tha story
even if you tell us how she is to you
we cannot judge someone

coquibella's photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:13 PM
Well this is certainly an interesting topic. I agree with the person that stated being 'bi' is a transition or experimental phase. I can attest to this personally. About this wonderful female being divorced and still talking to her ex and him finding you cute.... here's what's probably going on... she is talking to him about the new 'bi' thing just as he is going through it too. They are probably wanting to do a threesome with you. Now this is a conspiracy theory so just read it all... LOL... She's deflecting sex at the moment with you until her and the ex have a set game plan to lure you into their 'bi' web. Baby, you are going to get raped.

On a serious note. I read you like her but there are a lot of things you are having and going to have more problems with. I suggest cut it off early and look for someone that can offer you a normal relationship. You have to think about your comfort level. After a divorce you are looking to play not stay. I speak from personal experience here. You will only be a victim.

Rick1980's photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:13 PM




...she told me today about her not liking sex

that is the biggest piece of bullsh!t i have ever heard.

the only reason a woman would say anything like that is if the man she is telling that to isn't satisfying her in bed. sorry, but that's the truth.

women enjoy sex a million times more than men do. can you even wrap your mind around how pleasurable sex can be for a woman? i sure can't: the clitoris has more nerve endings than any section of the male body, with more than double the amount found in the penis. women can have multiple orgasms. they can't even control their own body movements when they actually experiece a mind-blowing orgasm. there are several KINDS of orgasms a woman can experience. they can feel the orgasm in their MINDS. yeah i will NEVER know the feeling of sex for a woman in that great degree of pleasure. this is why it is so much better for them.

if you think you need some brushing up on your skills in bed, check out this thread:

http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/55077


Dude, I haven't had sex with her yet.... I'm not chasing her she is the one that calls me alll the time and won't let me hangup. I'm not trying to force her to have sex with me I'm not like that. I have trouble just kissing a woman I'm so shy, but this is the stuff she tells me and I don't know what to make of it.

well damn! sounds like shes never had a decent lover...ever. not a surprise, though. many women have never even experienced a real orgasm, even after having been married for decades.
she's probably experimenting with the whole bisexuality indulgence because she's never really found satisfaction in making love with men.

so uhh... what is it that YOU want?


I'm just trying to make sense of the bs that she tells me. If she wants me gone why keep coming around me? I think maybe this girl just doesn't know what she wants.....

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Sat 12/22/07 09:14 PM
CaRisLOVE

i wasnt gunna say this but you sound like such a virgin. i mean, if you are its not necessarily a bad thing...unless you start flinging sh!t at people who know what the hell theyre talking about just because you can't recognize the same sh!t.

CaRisLOVE's photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:14 PM

How is it that topics like this always get missread and missunderstood?? Are people out there that brain dead that they can't read in between the lines and see the real issue??
Carl you are always looking for a phsicological explanation for everything...STOP IT!!!!
As my Grandmother use to say if you don't have anything nice to say then don't say it at all!! You know me and you know how I get, this man wants our advice not a phsycological evaluation!



then you should take her advice
i wasnt starting anything
and dont try to even start with me

CaRisLOVE's photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:16 PM

CaRisLOVE

i wasnt gunna say this but you sound like such a virgin. i mean, if you are its not necessarily a bad thing...unless you start flinging sh!t at people who know what the hell theyre talking about just because you can't recognize the same sh!t.


wtf?
is someone getting mad now?
now your assuming me?
lol
why dont you stop trying to assume other and stop with your super ego tellin others wat to do
you have no right to even question his sex life or think it was tha girl's fault

no photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:16 PM


so uhh... what is it that YOU want?


I'm just trying to make sense of the bs that she tells me. If she wants me gone why keep coming around me? I think maybe this girl just doesn't know what she wants.....

well it sounds like you answered your own question then.

how u feelin about the situation now? any different? better? if not, what do u think is lacking?

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Sat 12/22/07 09:18 PM


CaRisLOVE

i wasnt gunna say this but you sound like such a virgin. i mean, if you are its not necessarily a bad thing...unless you start flinging sh!t at people who know what the hell theyre talking about just because you can't recognize the same sh!t.


wtf?
is someone getting mad now?
now your assuming me?
lol
why dont you stop trying to assume other and stop with your super ego tellin others wat to do
you have no right to even question his sex life or think it was tha girl's fault


goddammit man quit assuming that im doing nothing but assuming

im pointing out commonalities in patterns, such as your behavior having several correlations with that of a desperate virgin. not saying you are one, but you certainly could be.

think it was the girl's fault??? wtf???

jenleah32's photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:19 PM


How is it that topics like this always get missread and missunderstood?? Are people out there that brain dead that they can't read in between the lines and see the real issue??
Carl you are always looking for a phsicological explanation for everything...STOP IT!!!!
As my Grandmother use to say if you don't have anything nice to say then don't say it at all!! You know me and you know how I get, this man wants our advice not a phsycological evaluation!



then you should take her advice
i wasnt starting anything
and dont try to even start with me

I'm not starting anything but you know as well as I do that I can finish it!!!!
I'm not scared so "Don't threaten me CARL"

CaRisLOVE's photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:20 PM



How is it that topics like this always get missread and missunderstood?? Are people out there that brain dead that they can't read in between the lines and see the real issue??
Carl you are always looking for a phsicological explanation for everything...STOP IT!!!!
As my Grandmother use to say if you don't have anything nice to say then don't say it at all!! You know me and you know how I get, this man wants our advice not a phsycological evaluation!



then you should take her advice
i wasnt starting anything
and dont try to even start with me

I'm not starting anything but you know as well as I do that I can finish it!!!!
I'm not scared so "Don't threaten me CARL"


finish wat?
you tryin to start with me lol
if not then ok?

Rick1980's photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:20 PM
Edited by Rick1980 on Sat 12/22/07 09:24 PM

Well this is certainly an interesting topic. I agree with the person that stated being 'bi' is a transition or experimental phase. I can attest to this personally. About this wonderful female being divorced and still talking to her ex and him finding you cute.... here's what's probably going on... she is talking to him about the new 'bi' thing just as he is going through it too. They are probably wanting to do a threesome with you. Now this is a conspiracy theory so just read it all... LOL... She's deflecting sex at the moment with you until her and the ex have a set game plan to lure you into their 'bi' web. Baby, you are going to get raped.

On a serious note. I read you like her but there are a lot of things you are having and going to have more problems with. I suggest cut it off early and look for someone that can offer you a normal relationship. You have to think about your comfort level. After a divorce you are looking to play not stay. I speak from personal experience here. You will only be a victim.


Babe, no one will ever rape me... I find some truth to your post about the threesome it is possible, but it won't happen I don't dig men. I spoke with her ex in a chat room today with her to help settle an argument between me and her I kept thinking to myself where in the hell is this going? I just don't think she would ever ask me about a threesome she doesn't seem that way, but she has had them with him so I'm going to pull my hair out now....