Topic: What Should I do?
Drew07_2's photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:21 PM
Her ex is a "new" bi-sexual, and they are recently divorced? That is awfully convienient.

I'm not being glib, that just strikes me as a bit odd.

-drew

coquibella's photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:21 PM



CaRisLOVE

i wasnt gunna say this but you sound like such a virgin. i mean, if you are its not necessarily a bad thing...unless you start flinging sh!t at people who know what the hell theyre talking about just because you can't recognize the same sh!t.


wtf?
is someone getting mad now?
now your assuming me?
lol
why dont you stop trying to assume other and stop with your super ego tellin others wat to do
you have no right to even question his sex life or think it was tha girl's fault


goddammit man quit assuming that im doing nothing but assuming

im pointing out commonalities in patterns, such as your behavior having several correlations with that of a desperate virgin. not saying you are one, but you certainly could be.

think it was the girl's fault??? wtf???


I've come to the conclusion and Chief I sure you will agree... some people just shouldn't be responding to topics where they can't handle the conversation. For a moment I thought I was on myspace LOL

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Sat 12/22/07 09:23 PM



CaRisLOVE

i wasnt gunna say this but you sound like such a virgin. i mean, if you are its not necessarily a bad thing...unless you start flinging sh!t at people who know what the hell theyre talking about just because you can't recognize the same sh!t.


wtf?
is someone getting mad now?
now your assuming me?
lol
why dont you stop trying to assume other and stop with your super ego tellin others wat to do
you have no right to even question his sex life or think it was tha girl's fault


goddammit man quit assuming that im doing nothing but assuming

im pointing out commonalities in patterns, such as your behavior having several correlations with that of a desperate virgin. not saying you are one, but you certainly could be.

think it was the girl's fault??? wtf???

um first of all this thread isnt about me
other than dat you just assumed dat im a virgin,
who are you to questions someone's life even
and my behavior, once again you dont even know me an you sure dont know rick,and i like how you tryin to think you know everything, but you came into this thread to give advice, so say your advice but dont assume or question other people's lives

no photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:23 PM

Babe, no one will ever rape me... I find some truth to your post about the threesome it is possible, but it won't happen I don't dig men. I spoke with her ex in a chat room today with her and I kept thinking to myself where in the hell is this going? I just don't think she would ever ask me about a threesome she doesn't seem that way, but she has had them with him so I'm going to pull my hair out now....

Hey hey hey relax man. sex is no big deal.
if u dont want a MMF threesome, u might like a MFF threesome (i dunno if those letters are in the right order lol). it aint likely that she'll invite you into one, so u have to initiate and ask her. i wudnt be surprised at all if she were more than open to the idea.
for some reason this feels like its besides the point of this thread, though. huh

coquibella's photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:25 PM


Well this is certainly an interesting topic. I agree with the person that stated being 'bi' is a transition or experimental phase. I can attest to this personally. About this wonderful female being divorced and still talking to her ex and him finding you cute.... here's what's probably going on... she is talking to him about the new 'bi' thing just as he is going through it too. They are probably wanting to do a threesome with you. Now this is a conspiracy theory so just read it all... LOL... She's deflecting sex at the moment with you until her and the ex have a set game plan to lure you into their 'bi' web. Baby, you are going to get raped.

On a serious note. I read you like her but there are a lot of things you are having and going to have more problems with. I suggest cut it off early and look for someone that can offer you a normal relationship. You have to think about your comfort level. After a divorce you are looking to play not stay. I speak from personal experience here. You will only be a victim.


Babe, no one will ever rape me... I find some truth to your post about the threesome it is possible, but it won't happen I don't dig men. I spoke with her ex in a chat room today with her and I kept thinking to myself where in the hell is this going? I just don't think she would ever ask me about a threesome she doesn't seem that way, but she has had them with him so I'm going to pull my hair out now....


Ok I was just kidding about the rape part. But I think the threesome is possible and keep your hair... You are too young to have missing patches. Look don't crack your brain about this. You don't feel right about it you step away. It's that simple. She calls you tell her she's turned you off and you don't care to continue the relation. The solution is simple. Now if your feelings for this female are greater than you let on... you will have to look within yourself for the right course of action. Good luck, amor.

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Sat 12/22/07 09:27 PM

um first of all this thread isnt about me
other than dat you just assumed dat im a virgin,
who are you to questions someone's life even
and my behavior, once again you dont even know me an you sure dont know rick,and i like how you tryin to think you know everything, but you came into this thread to give advice, so say your advice but dont assume or question other people's lives


who am i to question someone's life?
question everything.
there's nothing wrong with reading into a situation, and i dont believe i have offended rick in any way.
but you... need to stay out of the way and keep your closed mind out of the way so that u do not offend others on a different level.

and coquibella - lol yeah. jeez i havent used myspace in forever.

coquibella's photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:29 PM


um first of all this thread isnt about me
other than dat you just assumed dat im a virgin,
who are you to questions someone's life even
and my behavior, once again you dont even know me an you sure dont know rick,and i like how you tryin to think you know everything, but you came into this thread to give advice, so say your advice but dont assume or question other people's lives


who am i to question someone's life?
question everything.
there's nothing wrong with reading into a situation, and i dont believe i have offended rick in any way.
but you... need to stay out of the way and keep your closed mind out of the way so that u do not offend others on a different level.

and coquibella - lol yeah. jeez i havent used myspace in forever.


well I think the AOL chat is probably closer to this example LOL I think this situation would call for ignoring... how about you?

Rick1980's photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:30 PM


um first of all this thread isnt about me
other than dat you just assumed dat im a virgin,
who are you to questions someone's life even
and my behavior, once again you dont even know me an you sure dont know rick,and i like how you tryin to think you know everything, but you came into this thread to give advice, so say your advice but dont assume or question other people's lives


who am i to question someone's life?
question everything.
there's nothing wrong with reading into a situation, and i dont believe i have offended rick in any way.
but you... need to stay out of the way and keep your closed mind out of the way so that u do not offend others on a different level.

and coquibella - lol yeah. jeez i havent used myspace in forever.


No, I like your posts so I'm cool with everyone here.

CaRisLOVE's photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:30 PM
Edited by CaRisLOVE on Sat 12/22/07 09:31 PM


um first of all this thread isnt about me
other than dat you just assumed dat im a virgin,
who are you to questions someone's life even
and my behavior, once again you dont even know me an you sure dont know rick,and i like how you tryin to think you know everything, but you came into this thread to give advice, so say your advice but dont assume or question other people's lives


who am i to question someone's life?
question everything.
there's nothing wrong with reading into a situation, and i dont believe i have offended rick in any way.
but you... need to stay out of the way and keep your closed mind out of the way so that u do not offend others on a different level.

and coquibella - lol yeah. jeez i havent used myspace in forever.


if you already know it would offend someone you wouldnt of said it lmao
you assumed it was tha girl and her lack of sex
you asusme rick gave her bad sex
but he clearly said he didnt even have sex with her
so you say false accusations? because
you have too much pride and think you know it all
unless you know tha whole story
you know nothing at all

Rick1980's photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:32 PM
I hate to say this, but I think apart of me just doesn't want to be alone...So, I'm kinda putting up with this nonsense.

CaRisLOVE's photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:33 PM


um first of all this thread isnt about me
other than dat you just assumed dat im a virgin,
who are you to questions someone's life even
and my behavior, once again you dont even know me an you sure dont know rick,and i like how you tryin to think you know everything, but you came into this thread to give advice, so say your advice but dont assume or question other people's lives


who am i to question someone's life?
question everything.
there's nothing wrong with reading into a situation, and i dont believe i have offended rick in any way.
but you... need to stay out of the way and keep your closed mind out of the way so that u do not offend others on a different level.

and coquibella - lol yeah. jeez i havent used myspace in forever.


and i can say wateva i want
who tha hell are you to tell me wat i cant say or do?
your tha one who was wrong and thinkin you know someone's life

no photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:34 PM

well I think the AOL chat is probably closer to this example LOL I think this situation would call for ignoring... how about you?

that would kinda feel as if i were backing away from a challenge, even if it "isn't worth it." i guess i just really like debate and communication lol

or maybe im just against the idea of ignoring people in general... not a very smart thing to do. it decreases communication and increases misunderstandings which lead to crazy things like war. if more people learned to communicate their viewpoints effectively while understanding where others were coming from, a lot of problems would be solved in the world.

i personally think that i know where CaRisLOVE is coming from because it seems as though I used to think like he did when I was in... middle school sick ...and now I feel like it's my responsibility to communicate my platform so that he can understand me... and then give him more opportunities to fill in any potential holes which may have hindered my understanding of him.

coquibella's photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:35 PM



um first of all this thread isnt about me
other than dat you just assumed dat im a virgin,
who are you to questions someone's life even
and my behavior, once again you dont even know me an you sure dont know rick,and i like how you tryin to think you know everything, but you came into this thread to give advice, so say your advice but dont assume or question other people's lives


who am i to question someone's life?
question everything.
there's nothing wrong with reading into a situation, and i dont believe i have offended rick in any way.
but you... need to stay out of the way and keep your closed mind out of the way so that u do not offend others on a different level.

and coquibella - lol yeah. jeez i havent used myspace in forever.


if you already know it would offend someone you wouldnt of said it lmao
you assumed it was tha girl and her lack of sex
you asusme rick gave her bad sex
but he clearly said he didnt even have sex with her
so you say false accusations? because
you have too much pride and think you know it all
unless you know tha whole story
you know nothing at all



Caris you are off topic... please let it go. Anyone responding is just writing to Rick. If he misunderstood it was already clarified and you are beating a dead horse. These forums are to help each other not to bite at each other's ankles.

Rick1980's photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:35 PM



um first of all this thread isnt about me
other than dat you just assumed dat im a virgin,
who are you to questions someone's life even
and my behavior, once again you dont even know me an you sure dont know rick,and i like how you tryin to think you know everything, but you came into this thread to give advice, so say your advice but dont assume or question other people's lives


who am i to question someone's life?
question everything.
there's nothing wrong with reading into a situation, and i dont believe i have offended rick in any way.
but you... need to stay out of the way and keep your closed mind out of the way so that u do not offend others on a different level.

and coquibella - lol yeah. jeez i havent used myspace in forever.


and i can say wateva i want
who tha hell are you to tell me wat i cant say or do?
your tha one who was wrong and thinkin you know someone's life




Can we just quit the arguing it's kinda killing my thread here. lol

AaronZ's photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:35 PM
Hear is what you gots to do ,

First make him fall in love with you, then cheat on him with her, get caught in the act with the dog from the last string I was in, then tell all of them you are going to become a priest, then …

Ok seriously… run away… fast!

CaRisLOVE's photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:38 PM




um first of all this thread isnt about me
other than dat you just assumed dat im a virgin,
who are you to questions someone's life even
and my behavior, once again you dont even know me an you sure dont know rick,and i like how you tryin to think you know everything, but you came into this thread to give advice, so say your advice but dont assume or question other people's lives


who am i to question someone's life?
question everything.
there's nothing wrong with reading into a situation, and i dont believe i have offended rick in any way.
but you... need to stay out of the way and keep your closed mind out of the way so that u do not offend others on a different level.

and coquibella - lol yeah. jeez i havent used myspace in forever.


if you already know it would offend someone you wouldnt of said it lmao
you assumed it was tha girl and her lack of sex
you asusme rick gave her bad sex
but he clearly said he didnt even have sex with her
so you say false accusations? because
you have too much pride and think you know it all
unless you know tha whole story
you know nothing at all



Caris you are off topic... please let it go. Anyone responding is just writing to Rick. If he misunderstood it was already clarified and you are beating a dead horse. These forums are to help each other not to bite at each other's ankles.


then tell super ego man dat lmao
since he tha one who kept goin on about it
i hurt his pride
so he got all mad
laugh laugh laugh

UWannaBSpontaneous's photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:38 PM
Edited by UWannaBSpontaneous on Sat 12/22/07 09:39 PM
Dude! You asked for advice. Is that so you can use it or just so you can see others opinions.

Go help an orphanage and not worry about being alone. Do you know there is a way to invest your life in such a way that being alone gives you the opportunity to challenge yourself and make yourself better without distractions?

Everyone here says Run. I say don't waste your time and.... Go running.

I know a lot of people with those behaviors. We are freinds for a reason. I would never get into a relationship as they are messes.

On out. AaronZ nice humor there!

no photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:38 PM

and i can say wateva i want
who tha hell are you to tell me wat i cant say or do?
your tha one who was wrong and thinkin you know someone's life

correction - i was reading into someone's life and shining light upon some options they could take if they thought what i said was applicable, which i was betting it was.

i don't think i'm wrong because i believe i know what i'm talking about when it comes to these kind of situations. have u even been sexually involved with bisexual women?

coquibella's photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:38 PM

I hate to say this, but I think apart of me just doesn't want to be alone...So, I'm kinda putting up with this nonsense.


You know if you are having those thoughts then they may be accurate. We like to avoid lonliness like the plauge, especially if we have been alone for a while. I get you for trying to make it work and holding on but I think you already know what your next move is going to be.

coquibella's photo
Sat 12/22/07 09:39 PM

Hear is what you gots to do ,

First make him fall in love with you, then cheat on him with her, get caught in the act with the dog from the last string I was in, then tell all of them you are going to become a priest, then …

Ok seriously… run away… fast!



LMAO!