Topic: Does anyone else find this weird?
Reenie's photo
Thu 12/20/07 10:04 PM

Now I see why you never responded to me when I tried to IM you once like a week ago haha. I don't blame you for not responding now, but I assure you I'm not one of those "creepy" guys... or am I? DUN DUN DUN! laugh


Haha, sorry about that! That was probably one of those nights where I was bombarded with creepy ims and just decided to ignore them all for the night. Is there a way to turn off ims? I'd much rather have someone just message me

katrina_4888's photo
Thu 12/20/07 10:05 PM


I'm very annoyed, I haven't gotten solicited for 20K from a 50 year old man yet. Am I so unlovable? HUMPH, 50 year old men suck.


laugh laugh laugh laugh honey, I'm with you...what am I doing so wrong that strange and disturbing men dont want to pay for meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeesad sad sad
want one of mine? i had a doctor from somewhere in africa...

fortsmithman's photo
Thu 12/20/07 10:07 PM


Now I see why you never responded to me when I tried to IM you once like a week ago haha. I don't blame you for not responding now, but I assure you I'm not one of those "creepy" guys... or am I? DUN DUN DUN! laugh


Haha, sorry about that! That was probably one of those nights where I was bombarded with creepy ims and just decided to ignore them all for the night. Is there a way to turn off ims? I'd much rather have someone just message me

Click on account then click settings you can deactivate instant messages from there.

geektothetenth's photo
Thu 12/20/07 10:11 PM



I'm very annoyed, I haven't gotten solicited for 20K from a 50 year old man yet. Am I so unlovable? HUMPH, 50 year old men suck.


laugh laugh laugh laugh honey, I'm with you...what am I doing so wrong that strange and disturbing men dont want to pay for meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeesad sad sad
want one of mine? i had a doctor from somewhere in africa...


You should tell him that he needs to pay you upfront...you know cause you lost all your family members when they got raided by rebels and once they send you the money you can get to your diamond mine and collect from your dad's mine. Then, and only then can you buy the ticket to make the trip.

trustingfate's photo
Thu 12/20/07 10:11 PM



I'm very annoyed, I haven't gotten solicited for 20K from a 50 year old man yet. Am I so unlovable? HUMPH, 50 year old men suck.


laugh laugh laugh laugh honey, I'm with you...what am I doing so wrong that strange and disturbing men dont want to pay for meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeesad sad sad
want one of mine? i had a doctor from somewhere in africa...


<--pouts and stomps foot...NO! I want my OWN! laugh laugh laugh

okdude's photo
Thu 12/20/07 10:12 PM
There are some decent normal people out there...like me. Theres probably no real good way of knowing which is which though. Decent conversation I guess is all that would work.

(in my case, I think my pic doesnt help matters though)laugh

geektothetenth's photo
Thu 12/20/07 10:12 PM




I'm very annoyed, I haven't gotten solicited for 20K from a 50 year old man yet. Am I so unlovable? HUMPH, 50 year old men suck.


laugh laugh laugh laugh honey, I'm with you...what am I doing so wrong that strange and disturbing men dont want to pay for meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeesad sad sad
want one of mine? i had a doctor from somewhere in africa...


<--pouts and stomps foot...NO! I want my OWN! laugh laugh laugh


Oh you are just so greedy aren't you?

katrina_4888's photo
Thu 12/20/07 10:13 PM
hahaha. can't say i didn't offer...

Jtevans's photo
Thu 12/20/07 10:15 PM


I'm very annoyed, I haven't gotten solicited for 20K from a 50 year old man yet. Am I so unlovable? HUMPH, 50 year old men suck.


laugh laugh laugh laugh honey, I'm with you...what am I doing so wrong that strange and disturbing men dont want to pay for meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeesad sad sad



does fate want a cookie?

Reenie's photo
Thu 12/20/07 10:16 PM
whatever happened to that one girl...i think it was savagirl or something that was posting about how she wants an affluent man to take care of her? I'm sure she'll take up some of these guys on their offers

Totage's photo
Thu 12/20/07 10:16 PM

Ok, I know this is a dating website and I have complete respect for people who are seeking to get to know people and find their better half. But are any of you getting random ims from people for the first time...talking to them for about 5 minutues and then having them try and pressure you to get involved in a long distance relationship with them or fly out to wherever they live so they can "take care" of you? I'm relatively new to this site and I've been getting a lot of those ims, which I find weird because my profile states that I'm looking for friendship. However, even if I were looking for a relationship, I'd at least want to get to talking with someone for a good amount of time and then meeting them before commiting to anything. So I find it weird that these people are wanting to "settle down" right away with me, after talking for 5 minutes. Is that how this online dating stuff works? What are your thoughts?


That just sounds creepy.

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 12/20/07 10:27 PM
Did someone say creepy old man with sporks? I resemble that remark! Nyuk! Nyuk!

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 12/20/07 10:28 PM
I like my money! You can't have none. Nyeh!

no photo
Thu 12/20/07 10:29 PM
I'm 44 and got 5 bucks in my pocket. What will that get me?

okdude's photo
Thu 12/20/07 10:29 PM
yelled at

geektothetenth's photo
Thu 12/20/07 11:09 PM

yelled at


Jistme can do a lot better than that. Man, I get yelled at for free. I offer them money to stop yelling at me and they'd still rather yell at me.

Desi1's photo
Fri 12/21/07 03:44 AM
okdude your pic is kewl you have that badboy look, but me tink you be a goodboy......

thunderbear1967's photo
Fri 12/21/07 04:00 AM
My rule is always email first ask to message later, I never offer money and If I wanted to meet someone from somewhere else I'd would fly there get a hotel and have them meet me somewhere other then the hotel.

Now I know what I have been doing wrong, Message first promise money I dont have. And the woman will come to me. LOL

Desi1's photo
Fri 12/21/07 04:10 AM

My rule is always email first ask to message later, I never offer money and If I wanted to meet someone from somewhere else I'd would fly there get a hotel and have them meet me somewhere other then the hotel.

Now I know what I have been doing wrong, Message first promise money I dont have. And the woman will come to me. LOL
lol lol lol lol

Snugglesbyfire's photo
Fri 12/21/07 04:10 AM
Oh I know now what I am missing when I say no to any ims. Maybe I need to start seeing what they have to say........I might have passed up winning the lottery scam by saying nofrown

laugh laugh laugh