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Topic: Why are you alone?
Ladywind7's photo
Wed 02/19/20 03:03 AM
Me, because I am not ready.

Why do you think love has not happened for you?
Is it where you live? Is it because you can not trust? Is it because you feel you have nothing to offer, or too much to offer, but finding someone special to share it with seems impossible? Is it an age thing?

Be honest, even guessing why you have not found love.

Larsi666 😽's photo
Wed 02/19/20 03:11 AM
... because it is my choice. It might change some day, but I am not quite ready yet.

My cats keep me company though, which is just perfect :cat:

Ɔʎɹɐx's photo
Wed 02/19/20 03:15 AM
I'm not alone, you're always with me... It doesn't need to be a tangible presence for me to feel it.

Ɔʎɹɐx's photo
Wed 02/19/20 03:15 AM
Edited by Ɔʎɹɐx on Wed 02/19/20 03:16 AM
She's* always with me

Ladywind7's photo
Wed 02/19/20 03:20 AM

She's* always with me


RCB?

Ladywind7's photo
Wed 02/19/20 03:21 AM

... because it is my choice. It might change some day, but I am not quite ready yet.

My cats keep me company though, which is just perfect :cat:


You mean purrrrfect :sunflower:

Ɔʎɹɐx's photo
Wed 02/19/20 03:26 AM


She's* always with me


RCB?

Read Carefully Before
IMY

Ɔʎɹɐx's photo
Wed 02/19/20 03:28 AM
Oops, the wrong thread... Sorry

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 02/19/20 03:29 AM
It has taken me quite the time to heal and get over my last relationship.
It's only been 1-2 months that I feel my heart is ready.
Now it's a matter of finding the right one, or him finding me.

Odrie's photo
Wed 02/19/20 03:32 AM
Hello

delightfulillusion's photo
Wed 02/19/20 03:33 AM
I choose to be alone because I am enjoying my life without a partner.

I was with my ex for such a long time that being on my own is still a novelty and I rather like it.

Dodo_David's photo
Wed 02/19/20 03:41 AM
Topic: Why are you alone?


Answer: Because my wife died.

Ladywind7's photo
Wed 02/19/20 03:59 AM

Topic: Why are you alone?


Answer: Because my wife died.


Well same. Two husband's actually. But if you stop eating cats, you may find them good company perhaps :smile:

oldkid46's photo
Wed 02/19/20 08:18 AM
A combination of age, lifestyle, travel, and scarcity of what I'm looking for.

no photo
Wed 02/19/20 08:31 AM

I choose to be alone because I am enjoying my life without a partner.

I was with my ex for such a long time that being on my own is still a novelty and I rather like it.


Pretty much exactly how it is with me.

I'm kind of, happy as hell. No stresses, no problems, it hasn't been like this for a long long time.

Lori A's photo
Wed 02/19/20 08:45 AM
1. I seem to pick the absolute wrong man every. single. time.

2. The last LTR I was in ended in me being in ICU due to a whole lot of BS on top of and existing medical issue.

3. I tend to be very shy until I warm up, and slightly old fashioned.

I miss the companionship; hand holding, long conversations, someone to spoil and who will spoil me.

Freebird Deluxe's photo
Wed 02/19/20 08:47 AM
Just not found another victim yet

Tom4Uhere's photo
Wed 02/19/20 10:34 AM
I am both alone and not alone.
Most of the time, I'm alone.
When I am with someone I get to express myself more.
Alone I get to think deeper.

Its really nice to be touched.
Sex is great.
Laughter is great.
Being with someone is soothing, exciting and entertaining.
It allows me the opportunity to explore new things I hadn't thought about.
It broadens my horizons.

In the sense that nobody on this planet can see life exactly as I experience it, I have always been alone.
Nobody lives behind my eyes except me.
I don't see being alone as such a bad thing.
I have inner contentment.

Poetrywriter's photo
Wed 02/19/20 11:03 AM
Never thought about it really. But divorce does put a little fear inside of being close enough to feel that emotion again. I'm not actively searching for someone to fill that void because I feel if something is going to happen it will happen whether I want it to or not. Love is not like a faucet that can be turned on and off. If love enters my heart again it will be because it was meant to happen and because God wants it that way. If it doesn't show itself then it just wasn't meant to be.

Tom4Uhere's photo
Wed 02/19/20 11:14 AM
I think there's a difference between being alone and being devoid of love.
I can be alone yet still feel love.
What I can't do is be alone and feel intimacy with another.

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