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Topic: Hmm, 10 turn offs in a relationship
Ladywind7's photo
Sun 02/16/20 04:38 AM
1 Disheveled or unclean appearance
2 Lazy
3 Too needy
4 Lacks a sense of humor
5 Lives more than three hours away
6 Bad sex
7 Lacks self-confidence
8 Too much TV/video games
9 Low sex drive
10 Stubborn

What is your opinion?

Ɔʎɹɐx's photo
Sun 02/16/20 04:46 AM

5 Lives more than three hours away

Driving or flying radius?

Ɔʎɹɐx's photo
Sun 02/16/20 04:47 AM
Or riding the bike? Please be more specific to make my calculations

NotPay4Play's photo
Sun 02/16/20 04:49 AM

1 Disheveled or unclean appearance
2 Lazy
3 Too needy
4 Lacks a sense of humor
5 Lives more than three hours away
6 Bad sex
7 Lacks self-confidence
8 Too much TV/video games
9 Low sex drive
10 Stubborn

What is your opinion?


scared have we met before?

Rock's photo
Sun 02/16/20 04:55 AM
1. Lacks wit, humor, and/or common sense.
2. Won't partake of daily hygiene.
3. Unmedicated/undermedicated mental health
issues.
4. Won't STFU periodically.
5. Bad sex.
6. Drug/alcohol addiction.
7. Lazy/stupid.

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Sun 02/16/20 05:06 AM
only 10? :smile:
11 willful misunderstanding (when it suits)
12 The embellishment of trivia.
13 Self obsession, selfishness.
14 Lying, cheating (obvs)
15 Dont like onions. :-)
16 Controlling
17 Habitual depression
18 Exessive drinking or drugs.
19 Moodyness
20 Blame.

notbeold's photo
Sun 02/16/20 05:30 AM
Funny:
6 Bad sex
9 Low sex drive
69 he he !

1 But I always look messy, that's my style.
2 Occasionally lazy, why not.
3 I'm here 'cause of my need.
4 No I don't.
5 3 hrs by scramjet - no probs.
6 free samples available.
7 don't tell anyone.
8 too much mingle
9 many free samples available often.
10 I'll reply when I'm ready.

Riverspirit1111's photo
Sun 02/16/20 05:31 AM
Topic: Hmm, 10 turn offs in a relationship

Relationship? I wouldn't be in a relationship with someone who did things that turned me off.

notbeold's photo
Sun 02/16/20 05:39 AM
You have to refer to the turn off / turn on ratio.
If the turnons are worth putting up with a bit of crap, why not compromise.

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Sun 02/16/20 05:51 AM
Not far seeing
Too picky
Less respectful
Too self conscious
Snobbish
Low libido

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sun 02/16/20 06:03 AM
Most things like bad sex, low sex-drive, poor hygiene etc. you'd know before getting in a relationship.

Now if these things changed once in the relationship, problem for sure!
I'm actually not sure what would be turn-offs once involved. Most things you can know when you have dated him a few times, it's just that we often choose to ignore to acknowledge them because "it's not that bad" or "it'll get better" and "he's so great" and other blabla.
A lot also hinges on your own behaviour and how you communicate how a potentially good relationship evolves.
So I don't know an answer to the question. And most of the turn-offs we could've seen in the beginning.


Rock's photo
Sun 02/16/20 06:37 AM
Wait! I thought turn offs were relationship preventers.
Because, there's no way in Hell, that
I'd even consider dating someone who
makes it onto the turn off list.

soufiehere's photo
Sun 02/16/20 07:14 AM

only 10? :smile:
11 willful misunderstanding (when it suits)
12 The embellishment of trivia.
13 Self obsession, selfishness.
14 Lying, cheating (obvs)
15 Dont like onions. :-)
16 Controlling
17 Habitual depression
18 Exessive drinking or drugs.
19 Moodyness
20 Blame.


THAT is SICK!!!!!!!!!
Not liking onions..

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Sun 02/16/20 08:29 PM

1. Lacks wit, humor, and/or common sense.
2. Won't partake of daily hygiene.
3. Unmedicated/undermedicated mental health
issues.
4. Won't STFU periodically.
5. Bad sex.
6. Drug/alcohol addiction.
7. Lazy/stupid.

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#3 so you don't"t mind if they are overmedicated on their psych meds, kinda like Jack Nicholson in One Flew over the Cuckoo's Nest, ( you know the scene where he staggers zombie like into the activity room....lol....

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Sun 02/16/20 08:53 PM
Okay okay I can't resist this post
1 He can't have bigger boobs than me (moobs)
2 Can't wear knee high socks with sandals.
3 He can't own more shoes than me
4 No fur ring with the long stringy ponytail thing going on, and wearing a hat because that don't hide anything
5 No living with your parents, unless you are their caretaker
6 bragging about how you date younger women, then slip up and mention the escort service you use

Ladywind7's photo
Mon 02/17/20 12:27 AM
Lol Minglers. Thank you for the laughs :rose::heart:

Serious's photo
Mon 02/17/20 01:02 AM
Edited by Serious on Mon 02/17/20 01:03 AM

Okay okay I can't resist this post
1 He can't have bigger boobs than me (moobs)
2 Can't wear knee high socks with sandals.
3 He can't own more shoes than me
4 No fur ring with the long stringy ponytail thing going on, and wearing a hat because that don't hide anything
5 No living with your parents, unless you are their caretaker
6 bragging about how you date younger women, then slip up and mention the escort service you use



1. But what if I have bigger pecs from just working out?
2. Can I just roll them down to where they sit just over the ankles?
3 - Calls Salvation Army for a pick-up -
4 hmm thinking - cut hair or get bigger hat?
5 But they cook for me and wash my clothes and pay for my cable - don't know if I could cope without!?
6 Note to self: "- cancel escort service"

Couldn't resist either bigsmile

notbeold's photo
Mon 02/17/20 04:19 AM
But I was serious !

Hacked's photo
Mon 02/17/20 05:08 AM
:smile: :smile: :smile: That reply made me smile.:thumbsup:

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Mon 02/17/20 09:29 AM


Okay okay I can't resist this post
1 He can't have bigger boobs than me (moobs)
2 Can't wear knee high socks with sandals.
3 He can't own more shoes than me
4 No fur ring with the long stringy ponytail thing going on, and wearing a hat because that don't hide anything
5 No living with your parents, unless you are their caretaker
6 bragging about how you date younger women, then slip up and mention the escort service you use



1. But what if I have bigger pecs from just working out?
2. Can I just roll them down to where they sit just over the ankles?
3 - Calls Salvation Army for a pick-up -
4 hmm thinking - cut hair or get bigger hat?
5 But they cook for me and wash my clothes and pay for my cable - don't know if I could cope without!?
6 Note to self: "- cancel escort service"

Couldn't resist either bigsmile


Hahaha
1 only if they can bench press more weight than me, if not they gonna have to step it up
2 That might work but not if they wear baggy tan shorts hiked up under their armpits
3 That is acceptable but they can't borrow my shoes
4 have you considered a hair hat? (Wig)
6 As long as you don't make your mom now the lawn
7 That might work.
:smile:

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