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Topic: I need your help !!!!
Ann San 's photo
Sat 02/01/20 05:10 AM
I have a question but don’t know who I can talk with.

I was dating a guy, I like him but I think he’s not my mr. Right. But I didn’t tell him that. I still invest time for our relationship. One day we fight , just on messages. It’s not big fight , but that night I thought I will say stop this relationship, maybe I got mad or upset. Then after wake up. I got his message said he wanna stop , he said seriously. I was shock and cried a lot but didn’t beg him .

And after 10 days I’m still miss him and cried sometimes. What’s wrong with me while I was a person who don’t want this relationship, why I’m so sad ???? Please, I need a answer!! :cry:

Sir Dino One Love ☝️💚's photo
Sat 02/01/20 05:19 AM
The consultation room is busy just now, take a seat and the resident relationship expert shall be with you shortly..smokin

soufiehere's photo
Sat 02/01/20 05:22 AM
You are not trusting your instincts, which had
already made their point.

Bastet127's photo
Sat 02/01/20 05:32 AM
Maybe you should look at the bright side - he did what you wanted to do
but, you were not able to. Now you can move on and find Mr. Right.

no photo
Sat 02/01/20 06:57 AM
The BIG question - Do you repeat this behavior? (Don't answer here, just ask yourself.)

Williams's photo
Sat 02/01/20 07:02 AM
This really got me,I think you are right about it,I learned myself from it.thanks

Ann San 's photo
Sat 02/01/20 07:30 AM
How am right ? I’m curious. I was so stupid in this case :astonished:

Toodygirl5's photo
Sat 02/01/20 07:32 AM
That's very unfortunate you so sad! However, a relationship is not really one until you. Meetup and date Inperson! Imo

Ann San 's photo
Sat 02/01/20 07:32 AM

This really got me,I think you are right about it,I learned myself from it.thanks

How am I right ? I’m curious. I was so stupid in this case

Ann San 's photo
Sat 02/01/20 07:34 AM

That's very unfortunate you so sad! However, a relationship is not really one until you. Meetup and date Inperson! Imo



I mean we meet up and had real relationships. Just fight when messaging before go to sleep. Anw thanks for ur comment :heart:

Ann San 's photo
Sat 02/01/20 07:34 AM

That's very unfortunate you so sad! However, a relationship is not really one until you. Meetup and date Inperson! Imo



I mean we meet up and had real relationships. Just fight when messaging before go to sleep. Anw thanks for ur comment :heart:

Ann San 's photo
Sat 02/01/20 07:34 AM

That's very unfortunate you so sad! However, a relationship is not really one until you. Meetup and date Inperson! Imo



I mean we meet up and had real relationships. Just fight when messaging before go to sleep. Anw thanks for ur comment :heart:

Ann San 's photo
Sat 02/01/20 07:36 AM

Maybe you should look at the bright side - he did what you wanted to do
but, you were not able to. Now you can move on and find Mr. Right.


Thanks !! I’m moving on but it’s hurt me sometimes. Thanks for ur advice :two_hearts:

Ann San 's photo
Sat 02/01/20 07:36 AM

Maybe you should look at the bright side - he did what you wanted to do
but, you were not able to. Now you can move on and find Mr. Right.


Thanks !! I’m moving on but it’s hurt me sometimes. Thanks for ur advice :two_hearts:

Up2youandme's photo
Sat 02/01/20 10:32 AM
I think you're sad because he beat you to the punch .. that's normal.

SpaceCodet's photo
Sat 02/01/20 11:28 AM
I can only go by what you've said. This is my thoughts and opinion on it.

A woman needs to be used. Just like having a job we get used by a boss to do work. The payment however is different. In a relationship the woman gets "appreciation" whereas doing a job gets you cash money. being appreciated and respect (which is what a man wants) is earned.

Feminist use the fact that woman need to be used as a bludgeon and confuse it with "abuse". Participation Trophies are hollow praise which destroys a person's self esteem because nothing is earned. Emotion Validation is the standard manipulation tactic this allows feminist propagandist to mess with women to get them to be stupid. It's also how others do it as well.

So, in my opinion deal with the pain and power through it. It's never easy that's why you see hear about lots of people being abused in varying ways. You either dig in your heels and use your resolve or be abused. Only you can make that choice.

Toodygirl5's photo
Sat 02/01/20 11:30 AM


That's very unfortunate you so sad! However, a relationship is not really one until you. Meetup and date Inperson! Imo



I mean we meet up and had real relationships. Just fight when messaging before go to sleep. Anw thanks for ur comment :heart:


Ok sorry !

no photo
Sat 02/01/20 12:40 PM
hi dear hope u feeling better now
in general humans feel when we are rejected by others and feel inferior.
u know best part of the relationship with him
just take a small walk along post having ur favorite food or drink and think 2 things
1.what will be beautiful if he is with u
2.what will be show stopper he is not with u

then what think from heart not from mind and decide
u will feel confident

Rock's photo
Sat 02/01/20 12:43 PM
One possibility could be;

That while you didn't want the relationship,
you did want the dream, that goes with being
in a relationship.

That's probably why you held on for as
long as you did.


Once the relationship ended, so did your dream.



no photo
Sat 02/01/20 03:29 PM

One possibility could be;

That while you didn't want the relationship,
you did want the dream, that goes with being
in a relationship.

That's probably why you held on for as
long as you did.


Once the relationship ended, so did your dream.






Yeah this....

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