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Topic: For the gals 😁
TxsGal3333's photo
Thu 01/30/20 04:11 PM

But sticking to "nothing, they have to accept me as I am and my life as it is I consider to be BS.
If you're not willing to compromise here and there and don't want to make any adaptations you shouldn't be looking for a partner.

It is about blending two lives together, and one would assume that if you click and work well this doesn't take effort, but is fun and the start of a new adventure instead. You all make it sound like a high price to pay instead of moving forward into happiness and love.


Hummm... since it is my response you seem to be responding too here..

First of all, I'll just making this clear I did say unless I wanted to change it would not happen. Does not mean that the other person could not give me a reason to change.. But now when it comes to given up my trike .. I can promise you that would not happen.. Hell I turned down a guy I went to high school with for date, due to he was against women that rode any kind of bikes. Reality was I was looking for a bike at the time, when he said that I shut him down..

Ohh and I have never said I was looking for a man.. My theory on that is... if it is meant to happen it will. But if it does not, it will not keep me from living~~~~

I would rather have a man that enhances my life~~as well as his..

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Thu 01/30/20 05:04 PM
What part of your lifestyle would you give up for a relationship?

Any?
None?
Depends on how you're defining "lifestyle?"
This question isn't going to answer anything, especially from people you don't have a direct face to face/interactive relationship with already.

It can be a complex question. I might not give up certain beliefs that define my "lifestyle" whereas I can adapt my expression or behavior of those beliefs with no issue whatsoever.
From a third person perspective, they could easily say "Oh! You gave up your values/beliefs/whatever!" because I stop/start doing something, when really, not much has changed at all.



Or are you asking from like a Faustian perspective? "What lifestyle things are you willing to sacrifice in payment for your ideal relationship fantasy to be fulfilled?"
Then..hmmm...half my income. But I want the contract written in blood, notarized, recognized and enforceable by U.S. law.







Tom4Uhere's photo
Thu 01/30/20 06:05 PM
[[[peeks in]]]

What part of your lifestyle would you give up for a relationship?

Any?
None?
Depends on how you're defining "lifestyle?"
This question isn't going to answer anything, especially from people you don't have a direct face to face/interactive relationship with already.

It can be a complex question. I might not give up certain beliefs that define my "lifestyle" whereas I can adapt my expression or behavior of those beliefs with no issue whatsoever.
From a third person perspective, they could easily say "Oh! You gave up your values/beliefs/whatever!" because I stop/start doing something, when really, not much has changed at all.



Or are you asking from like a Faustian perspective? "What lifestyle things are you willing to sacrifice in payment for your ideal relationship fantasy to be fulfilled?"
Then..hmmm...half my income. But I want the contract written in blood, notarized, recognized and enforceable by U.S. law.

See ladies, that's the problem with our resident AI.
It's not sure if its a guy or a gal.
[[[ducks back out again]]]

Bastet127's photo
Thu 01/30/20 07:17 PM
I would give up one side of the bed, and maaayyybbbeee
1/2 the closet, 1/4 of the closet, how about a few hangers? :)

Slim gym 's photo
Thu 01/30/20 07:30 PM
I would give up clubbing with friends if she wants me to.... I am easy like that ... ha ha!!!

Poetrywriter's photo
Thu 01/30/20 07:43 PM
I'm not staying. I am only here taking orders for pizza. :pizza:

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Fri 01/31/20 01:46 AM


But sticking to "nothing, they have to accept me as I am and my life as it is I consider to be BS.
If you're not willing to compromise here and there and don't want to make any adaptations you shouldn't be looking for a partner.

It is about blending two lives together, and one would assume that if you click and work well this doesn't take effort, but is fun and the start of a new adventure instead. You all make it sound like a high price to pay instead of moving forward into happiness and love.


Hummm... since it is my response you seem to be responding too here..

First of all, I'll just making this clear I did say unless I wanted to change it would not happen. Does not mean that the other person could not give me a reason to change.. But now when it comes to given up my trike .. I can promise you that would not happen.. Hell I turned down a guy I went to high school with for date, due to he was against women that rode any kind of bikes. Reality was I was looking for a bike at the time, when he said that I shut him down..

Ohh and I have never said I was looking for a man.. My theory on that is... if it is meant to happen it will. But if it does not, it will not keep me from living~~~~

I would rather have a man that enhances my life~~as well as his..

Owww... I was not responding to you at all flowerforyou It was general, since no one seems willing to make room for a partner in their life and make some changes to accommodate that. To me that seems logical.
When single you fill up your life, which is also logical. But if you want a partner, you got to allow them in and make some space in your life too.

Ladywind7's photo
Fri 01/31/20 11:03 PM
My answer to this is...I would give up all my male friends, if he asked me too. Because I would want him to feel like he is the most important man in my life.

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Fri 01/31/20 11:34 PM
hajur

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Fri 01/31/20 11:42 PM
frnd

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 02/03/20 05:27 AM

I would give up one side of the bed, and maaayyybbbeee
1/2 the closet, 1/4 of the closet, how about a few hangers? :)

I've thought about that before. I think we'd best get a new closet in, hihi. I'm lacking space as it is. And then find a place to put that closet, which is tricky as I have slanted roof through all bedrooms.

I also thought about it when with my ex. He had an entire bedroom filled with his clothes only. I've never seen a man with so many clothes! Had I moved in with him I wouldn't know where I could've put my stuff.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 02/03/20 05:28 AM

My answer to this is...I would give up all my male friends, if he asked me too. Because I would want him to feel like he is the most important man in my life.

Nice!

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