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Strangely enough, not many women of my own age.want to date a short, half blind and eccentric Irishman. Can't understand why that would be
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Strangely enough, not many women of my own age.want to date a short, half blind and eccentric Irishman. Can't understand why that would be .
You are the bestest. If I had a libido, I would choose you!!!  
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Edited by
Seamus
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Mon 01/27/20 03:20 AM
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Strangely enough, not many women of my own age.want to date a short, half blind and eccentric Irishman. Can't understand why that would be .
You are the bestest. If I had a libido, I would choose you!!!
Thanks Ladywind  . I have a healthy disregard d for my own vanity as you can see . It is slightly true though. Most of the single women of my own age are divorced and I'm not quite what they have in mind as a potential boyfriend.
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Strangely enough, not many women of my own age.want to date a short, half blind and eccentric Irishman. Can't understand why that would be .
You are the bestest. If I had a libido, I would choose you!!!
Thanks Ladywind . I have a healthy disregard d for my own vanity as you can see. It is slightly true though. Most of the single women of my own age are divorced and I'm not quite what they have in mind as a potential boyfriend.
Checking your profile... for me the biggest issue would be the brother. It isn't clear to me if he lives with you or not but I'm looking for a man who's free in every sense. The height... most English women are short too so that won't be an issue. Eccentric is interesting. Glaucoma... depends on how you yourself deal with it and what you can still do. It might be more in how you see and present yourself. And I know it's difficult when you got physical chit, I got that too (neck injury). Much comes down to still being able to see yourself as a good party, as someone who has a lot to offer. I'd say keep an open mind. You never know and you seem like a great guy. |
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Edited by
Seamus
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Mon 01/27/20 05:22 AM
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Thank you crystal, yes I live with my brother, it's convenient and I enjoy the company although it is a complication. There are a lot of people with these kind of responsibilities and I'm always open to possibilities and you're right, I am a great guy although I can still be an *** at times
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Lack of communication
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Edited by
Sandra
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Mon 01/27/20 02:10 PM
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So I am interested to know what difficulties you face the most with dating and relationships? With dating: Is it distance? Having the courage to ask someone on a date? Knowing what to do on a date? Knowing what to say on a date? Age difference? Not much in common? Worried about scammers? You just want sex, not a relationship? Or is it something else? With relationships is it? Lack of communication? Not knowing how to effectively communicate? Lack of sex? Not knowing how to have good sex? Sexual incompatibility? Lack of intimacy? Not knowing how to communicate effectively with your partner? Or is it something else? Something else. What something else would that be? Socks. In all seriousness, none of the above is a problem. I swing in two directions, not wanting a relationship and then wanting one. So I am double minded, which means I am obviously not "there yet". I may be like you.... Asexual  
Sorry I tried to reply to this but too soon, so replied in another post. Feel free to message me if you want to know more about asexuality xx |
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So I am interested to know what difficulties you face the most with dating and relationships? With dating: Is it distance? Having the courage to ask someone on a date? Knowing what to do on a date? Knowing what to say on a date? Age difference? Not much in common? Worried about scammers? You just want sex, not a relationship? Or is it something else? With relationships is it? Lack of communication? Not knowing how to effectively communicate? Lack of sex? Not knowing how to have good sex? Sexual incompatibility? Lack of intimacy? Not knowing how to communicate effectively with your partner? Or is it something else? Something else. What something else would that be? Socks. In all seriousness, none of the above is a problem. I swing in two directions, not wanting a relationship and then wanting one. So I am double minded, which means I am obviously not "there yet". I may be like you.... Asexual
That's interesting, yes I personally hate sex, quite happy if others enjoy it together consensual, just it's not interesting for me, as I am asexual, I never get the need, urge, or want for sex. But I adore French kissing and am super passionate like that with my clothes on. It's far more exciting and nice than sex, and a great rigorous activity to do in and of itself. Not interested in a guy from the waist down. I have mostly highly sexual gus wanting sex with me all the time! Ha! Which is no good for me. These are very hot looking guys aesthetically but I hate sex, so they are out! I do love my independent single life, so yeah, sometimes I am like 50/50 on a relationship, but I believe I have a younger foreign soulmate who is Indian and either asexual, or has a low libido, or genuinely not interested in sex, but who loves to kiss like me, so here I am. |
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Strangely enough, not many women of my own age.want to date a short, half blind and eccentric Irishman. Can't understand why that would be .
You are the bestest. If I had a libido, I would choose you!!!
lol. besides seamus you look a little it like Clint Eastwood in that pic.I recon with a hat and a cigar, and that sneer that he does, and you'd be a hit
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So I am interested to know what difficulties you face the most with dating and relationships? With dating: Is it distance? Having the courage to ask someone on a date? Knowing what to do on a date? Knowing what to say on a date? Age difference? Not much in common? Worried about scammers? You just want sex, not a relationship? Or is it something else? With relationships is it? Lack of communication? Not knowing how to effectively communicate? Lack of sex? Not knowing how to have good sex? Sexual incompatibility? Lack of intimacy? Not knowing how to communicate effectively with your partner? Or is it something else? na none of that. OT. I don't know what all the fuss is about. You're only meeting people. I mean flippin heck! People make such a fuss. You meet loads of people in ordinary life. Without making a fuss. Get over it.. must be this, must be that, must like this that or the third thing. Geez. get over yourselvs girls. |
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Edited by
Freebird Deluxe
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Mon 01/27/20 02:44 PM
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House Training a new one
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House Training a new one
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Edited by
Unknow
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Mon 01/27/20 03:11 PM
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OT. I don't know what all the fuss is about. You're only meeting people. I mean flippin heck! People make such a fuss. You meet loads of people in ordinary life. Without making a fuss. Get over it.. must be this, must be that, must like this that or the third thing. Geez. get over yourselvs girls. Considering that over half of the responses are from guys, perhaps you ought to include guys in that statement as well??? 
Personally as far as I'm concerned, the only thing they must be... is smitten enough with me to ask me out.  
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OT. I don't know what all the fuss is about. You're only meeting people. I mean flippin heck! People make such a fuss. You meet loads of people in ordinary life. Without making a fuss. Get over it.. must be this, must be that, must like this that or the third thing. Geez. get over yourselvs girls. Considering that over half of the responses are from guys, perhaps you ought to include guys in that statement as well???
Personally as far as I'm concerned, the only thing they must be... is smitten enough with me to ask me out.
Yea fair comment. 
Get over yourselves people, relax, it's no big thing, it's a small thing. Better? |
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OT. I don't know what all the fuss is about. You're only meeting people. I mean flippin heck! People make such a fuss. You meet loads of people in ordinary life. Without making a fuss. Get over it.. must be this, must be that, must like this that or the third thing. Geez. get over yourselvs girls. Considering that over half of the responses are from guys, perhaps you ought to include guys in that statement as well???
Personally as far as I'm concerned, the only thing they must be... is smitten enough with me to ask me out.
Yea fair comment.
Get over yourselves people, relax, it's no big thing, it's a small thing. Better? Much better! 
Question though... if it's no big thing, how come you're single?
Just messing with ya! Kind of! Times have changed and as we get older we come with scars and old wounds, I think it is a big deal for some just to get that first date and then have it turn into a second date. Twenty and even ten years ago it was much easier than it is now.
But I do agree with your thought process of just relaxing. I definitely could benefit from that when it comes to meeting potential dates.
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OT. I don't know what all the fuss is about. You're only meeting people. I mean flippin heck! People make such a fuss. You meet loads of people in ordinary life. Without making a fuss. Get over it.. must be this, must be that, must like this that or the third thing. Geez. get over yourselvs girls. Considering that over half of the responses are from guys, perhaps you ought to include guys in that statement as well???
Personally as far as I'm concerned, the only thing they must be... is smitten enough with me to ask me out.
Yea fair comment.
Get over yourselves people, relax, it's no big thing, it's a small thing. Better? Much better!
Question though... if it's no big thing, how come you're single?
Just messing with ya! Kind of! Times have changed and as we get older we come with scars and old wounds, I think it is a big deal for some just to get that first date and then have it turn into a second date. Twenty and even ten years ago it was much easier than it is now.
But I do agree with your thought process of just relaxing. I definitely could benefit from that when it comes to meeting potential dates.
I agree with you :) I'm not sure though it was easier 10 - 20 yrs ago? You mean in age, being younger, or the times? In case of age I think it could be seemingly easier because of not knowing exactly what works for you and what doesn't. Not being empowered and confident enough yet and thus lacking boundaries, attracting unavailable partners etc etc. Yes, we may get 'damaged' by failed relationships but normally you heal and move on, having learnt from it and making wiser choices next time. Isn't that what it's all about: learning, evolving and growing as an individual. And from that making better choices. Like some 16 years ago I had no real clue what kind of man or relationship would suit me because I didn't really know myself well enough for that. Even though I was 36. Now I DO know, because I know myself and have more experience. Some call that fussy because they don't understand. I call it knowing and understanding yourself and what you need to be happy in life. |
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OT. I don't know what all the fuss is about. You're only meeting people. I mean flippin heck! People make such a fuss. You meet loads of people in ordinary life. Without making a fuss. Get over it.. must be this, must be that, must like this that or the third thing. Geez. get over yourselvs girls. Considering that over half of the responses are from guys, perhaps you ought to include guys in that statement as well???
Personally as far as I'm concerned, the only thing they must be... is smitten enough with me to ask me out.
Yea fair comment.
Get over yourselves people, relax, it's no big thing, it's a small thing. Better? Much better!
Question though... if it's no big thing, how come you're single?
Just messing with ya! Kind of! Times have changed and as we get older we come with scars and old wounds, I think it is a big deal for some just to get that first date and then have it turn into a second date. Twenty and even ten years ago it was much easier than it is now.
But I do agree with your thought process of just relaxing. I definitely could benefit from that when it comes to meeting potential dates.
Well! Because they have to be , this thing, that thing, and the third thing, mustn't do this thing that thing etc I guess i'm in no rush. I'm not selling myself. first year in 26 years that I've had my own life. My life is pretty good. If it doesn't feel right. I'm just not interested. You know? A "relationship" is not a prepackaged thing that people "have". I t is more the interplay between 2 people that connect. Believe it or not, I'm not short of attention. Just not any that I could see myself with. And sex is not that good, not good enough to justify putting up with a lot of vain nonsence. I aren't looking, it'll just have to wait. Bit of a rant eh? |
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OT. I don't know what all the fuss is about. You're only meeting people. I mean flippin heck! People make such a fuss. You meet loads of people in ordinary life. Without making a fuss. Get over it.. must be this, must be that, must like this that or the third thing. Geez. get over yourselvs girls. Considering that over half of the responses are from guys, perhaps you ought to include guys in that statement as well???
Personally as far as I'm concerned, the only thing they must be... is smitten enough with me to ask me out.
Yea fair comment.
Get over yourselves people, relax, it's no big thing, it's a small thing. Better? Much better!
Question though... if it's no big thing, how come you're single?
Just messing with ya! Kind of! Times have changed and as we get older we come with scars and old wounds, I think it is a big deal for some just to get that first date and then have it turn into a second date. Twenty and even ten years ago it was much easier than it is now.
But I do agree with your thought process of just relaxing. I definitely could benefit from that when it comes to meeting potential dates.
Well! Because they have to be , this thing, that thing, and the third thing, mustn't do this thing that thing etc I guess i'm in no rush. I'm not selling myself. first year in 26 years that I've had my own life. My life is pretty good. If it doesn't feel right. I'm just not interested. You know? A "relationship" is not a prepackaged thing that people "have". I t is more the interplay between 2 people that connect. Believe it or not, I'm not short of attention. Just not any that I could see myself with. And sex is not that good, not good enough to justify putting up with a lot of vain nonsence. I aren't looking, it'll just have to wait. Bit of a rant eh? Totally agree with you Cosmic. I have no list other than be attracted to each other. I don’t mean just physically, but mentally as well. I don’t want to know what kind of person is ideal for me because I may miss an opportunity I didn’t even ever contemplate. A relationship should be new and exploring, learning about yourself and your partner. It evolves and comforts and excites. I just can’t put that into a list, but I will know it when it comes along. |
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Edited by
Sandra
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Mon 01/27/20 06:02 PM
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Well lots of people want sex on here, so it’s not like just meeting someone in every day life, not everyone you meet up with randomly wants to date you or jump your bones. I had a guy who wanted to drive to date me from this site, clearly in my profile it’s states I don’t like sex, which he saw, and then the conversation turned to have you ever had a young dick inside you. This is not about getting over ourselves, this is about having standards, boundaries and looking after our own safety, even more so if you are female. I always insist on video chatting with a guy first, before I would go on a date, if he answers no, no date, simple.
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