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Topic: Are you Available?
Zakariyawu Abdulrazaq Joined Sun 01/12/20 Posts: 2	Sun 01/12/20 02:03 PM
Like seriously?...slow please

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Mon 01/13/20 01:58 AM
No, silly. I mean, are you emotionally available? I'd suspect, many on the site are single. Some, are even looking. But, are you emotionally available, and ready, for all the changes a new relationship will bring into your life? How does one know? Is there an online test somewhere? I personally feel I should not get into another relationship for one year after my husband passed. That will be on March 3. Is that strange? I might go read up about what is normal? Good question RockGnome.

Essentially Joined Sat 07/13/19 Posts: 1115	Mon 01/13/20 02:09 AM
Look while walking

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Mon 01/13/20 02:47 AM
Look while walking What on Earth does that mean precious lady? 🧡

Essentially Joined Sat 07/13/19 Posts: 1115	Mon 01/13/20 03:44 AM
Look while walking What on Earth does that mean precious lady? 李 I don’t know who would come into my sight sis

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21258	Mon 01/13/20 04:15 AM
No, silly. I mean, are you emotionally available? I'd suspect, many on the site are single. Some, are even looking. But, are you emotionally available, and ready, for all the changes a new relationship will bring into your life? How does one know? Is there an online test somewhere? I personally feel I should not get into another relationship for one year after my husband passed. That will be on March 3. Is that strange? I might go read up about what is normal? Good question RockGnome. There might be an online test. Who knows? There's an online test, for everything else under the sun. But, I think the answers come from within. Introspection, soul searching.

notbeold Joined Sat 06/01/13 Posts: 2406	Mon 01/13/20 05:34 AM
One of those women's magazines would have made a test for that for sure; "Is your husband emotionally available, make him do this quiz and find out". Next to "Do you eat enough fibre, here's ten cardboard recipes". And "How to fill your acne pock holes". I'm a man, I don't have emotions to make "available", my eyes just leak sometimes, it's a medical thing.

John675 Joined Sun 01/12/20 Posts: 9	Mon 01/13/20 09:07 PM
Yes. I am available as long as the relationship provides what I desire. Moreover any relationship has to benefit both the players, else the bond dies even before you realise it.

Luvlypetz Joined Tue 01/14/20 Posts: 1	Tue 01/14/20 05:03 AM
Yeah

Sir Dino One Love ☝️💚 Joined Tue 04/02/19 Posts: 5312	Thu 01/16/20 09:35 AM
Available at discount rates from Monday to Friday, must have all her own teeth to avail of this offer.. ..

Unknow Joined Wed 06/27/18 Posts: 101536	Sun 01/19/20 12:06 PM
A lot of good responses... How about you Rock?

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21258	Sun 01/19/20 12:27 PM
i'd love to clench my fists, beat on my chest, give the Tarzan jungle yell, and shout for the world to hear, ' Hell yeah! I'm ready'. But, I can't. And, maybe never will be . Someday, maybe. Just not today. .....

Unknow Joined Wed 06/27/18 Posts: 101536	Sun 01/19/20 12:29 PM
i'd love to clench my fists, beat on my chest, give the Tarzan jungle yell, and shout for the world to hear, ' Hell yeah! I'm ready'. But, I can't. And, maybe never will be . Someday, maybe. Just not today. ..... Good honest answer!

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 15048	Sun 01/19/20 12:29 PM
No, silly. I mean, are you emotionally available? I'd suspect, many on the site are single. Some, are even looking. But, are you emotionally available, and ready, for all the changes a new relationship will bring into your life? Only if he's my knight in shining armor ! Oh and drives a white Lexus..

Tom4Uhere Joined Sat 12/17/16 Posts: 16240	Thu 01/23/20 11:00 AM
<<<< TAKEN

ciretom Joined Wed 06/18/14 Posts: 4953	Thu 01/23/20 02:23 PM
I mean, are you emotionally available? To some, yes, to others, no. I don't believe it's either available or unavailable. are you emotionally available, and ready, for all the changes a new relationship will bring into your life? Relationships aren't one size fits all, or all follow the same path. Just depends on the change. Not only that, but a relationship means there are two people working together to handle the changes that "relationship" brings. It's not just you doing it by yourself for them or "the relationship." There's a reason and purpose for communication in a relationship.

Jonnyb Joined Thu 11/28/19 Posts: 3	Thu 01/23/20 02:24 PM
I am

Essentially Joined Sat 07/13/19 Posts: 1115	Thu 01/23/20 10:20 PM
Depends on who they are and how they make me feel

Karen Joined Mon 12/23/19 Posts: 3	Fri 01/24/20 12:04 AM
Hi

oldkid46 Joined Fri 02/09/18 Posts: 1719	Fri 01/24/20 06:03 AM
Who the other person is has some part in being available to them but the required conditions of the "relationship" are the biggest factor.