Topic: Why i am so naive?
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Mon 12/17/07 07:33 AM
When i meet a girl or a boy i can only be naive, and people always finish by deceive me !

I feel bad in this moment cause i don't understand why because i'm nice or naive people need to make me suffer...

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Mon 12/17/07 07:40 AM
I am that way too... I believe anything anyone says. I end up getting hurt and taken for granted.Dont change who you are just because other people hurt you. I know its hard. I deal with it daily in work and personal life. If you give in and turn bitter than it will only hurt the ones you love and cuse you to doubt yourself and your self worth.

Just be a strong woman. Good things will come!

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Mon 12/17/07 07:41 AM
maybe they are not decieving you, but you are putting too much trust in them...I've met alot of people who I think are one way, and end up being another.

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Mon 12/17/07 07:42 AM
it is sad if you are nice how some pepole use that .i will never understand it.in lifeyou have to pick you friend wisely.flowerforyou

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Mon 12/17/07 07:44 AM
Unfortunately, it happens to the best of us. :( The best thing to do is to avoid the people who deceived you, and move on. Life's lessons are most often painful. To me, it's understandable why some people prefer pets over humans, since they are more loyal and don't backstab.

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Mon 12/17/07 08:01 AM
I will enter the meeting of any person naive, hopeful, and indeed faithful that most people are (by nature) "good".


If I enter prepared to play a game, I run the risk of disappointing the naive, hopeful, and faithful.

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Mon 12/17/07 08:11 AM
I start everyone at 100 and then work down from there. Unfortunately most people start others at 0 and work up. If you live life thinking negative then thats what you will find. I feel sorry for those people. If being positive and trusting is also being naive, then thats a good thing. You may get hurt sometimes but in the end I believe we come out on top and those others are sucking fumes.

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Mon 12/17/07 08:20 AM
Pick and choose your freinds wisely! You will find out you don't have too many freinds but the freinds you do have will be good freinds. Lifelong freinds. Golden freinds.