Topic: How real are you and I?
Zoltan 's photo
Sat 08/29/20 08:52 AM
I rather you tell me the truth and cause pain.. then someone I care about lie to me..

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Sun 08/30/20 07:12 AM
hey hi

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Sun 08/30/20 05:22 PM

What you say in a forum, like Mingle2, is it what you would say to people in day to day, face to face living?
Do you feel you represent yourself accurately, as much as can be, when on the internet?
Would you say what you say on the forums, in real life?



Yes to all.

Md raju Tafakul's photo
Wed 09/02/20 03:23 AM
hii

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Sun 02/21/21 06:20 AM

hii


Hai

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Sun 02/21/21 06:21 AM
Still a good topic....

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Sun 02/21/21 06:36 AM
I'm far more shy in person than on a chat / forum... it's one of the things I like more about chatting

Trixie's photo
Sun 02/21/21 06:43 AM
I’m shy on Mingle2 and in my everyday life, until I get to know the people I’m talking to blushing

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Sun 02/21/21 06:44 AM
all real

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Sun 02/21/21 07:56 AM
Well guys, I am not shy at all. But it is great that people can mingle and chat here and get to be part of the Mingle famdamily. :heart::thinking:

Daniel's photo
Sun 02/21/21 08:28 AM
Yes Yes and Yes. honesty speaking

Toodygirl5's photo
Sun 02/21/21 10:18 AM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Sun 02/21/21 10:18 AM
I'm myself online! However, I have friends I
Talk more personal to, here in town.

Miss NJ's photo
Wed 02/24/21 11:07 PM

What you say in a forum, like Mingle2, is it what you would say to people in day to day, face to face living?
Do you feel you represent yourself accurately, as much as can be, when on the internet?
Would you say what you say on the forums, in real life?


I am as I speak and talk in these forums. I don't like being fake even online.

Drvd19567.'s photo
Thu 02/25/21 08:46 AM
That’s true let me true

Mark's photo
Tue 03/16/21 09:07 PM
real as it gets

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Tue 03/16/21 09:10 PM
I am just a figment of your imagination...

Laska Paul 's photo
Tue 03/16/21 11:28 PM

What you say in a forum, like Mingle2, is it what you would say to people in day to day, face to face living?
Do you feel you represent yourself accurately, as much as can be, when on the internet?
Would you say what you say on the forums, in real life?

I saw this Post Now !
You Know I am a Big Fan of Honesty and Being Real . I can't be someone that I'm Not ,And People can sopt you easily when you are being Fake . when somebody's not being real, when somebody's a Sugar coating stuff , People Don't like that!

Leo's photo
Mon 03/22/21 04:46 PM
Just me, and can only be me online or off

Poetrywriter's photo
Mon 03/22/21 06:44 PM
Edited by Poetrywriter on Mon 03/22/21 07:01 PM
I am not shy but at the same time I am a true gentleman. The only thing I may stretch the truth on in a site like Mingle2 is I may say on a good looking scale I am a notch or two more on the ugly side than what I am portraying myself as. Also those 6 pack abs? Noooooooo they are more like 6 gallon abs! laugh

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Tue 03/23/21 02:17 AM
Its those we live with & love and should know, who elude us.
~ Norman McClain

Almost all absurdity of conduct rises from the imitation
of those whom we cannot resemble.

~ Samuel Johnson

Don't bother just to be better than your contemporaries or predecessors.
Try to be better than yourself.

~ William Faulkner

Three quotes I find important to how I conduct myself.
If I fabricate things about myself, including how I respond to forum threads, I'm lying.
I detest liars.
If I lie about me, I am a liar.
A person who lies to themselves (or others), in my opinion, are deluded.

Delusion ~ the action of deluding or the state of being deluded.
Deluded ~ believing something that is not true.

Truth is specific and conditional to the observer.
Reality is all the stuff that is regardless of belief.
Belief perseverance is maintaining a belief despite new information that firmly contradicts it.
Liars often suffer from belief perseverance to justify their lies.
I call it 'compulsive lying'.