Gotta agree with you. I thought if there were chubby-chasers and hairy-chasers and ugly-chasers and whatever else there might be some oldie-chasers out there. But I guess I was wrong.

these posts are getting really and i mean REALLY old. here is the plan simple truth of it. we're all single because we chose to be. it's not that we can't find that "one" person. we have this ideal of what we want and we all struggle to stay right with in those parameters. with the sheer number of people in the world do any of you think that there is "one" person for us to be happy with? probably not! if people would look beyond what they consider to be their perfect match and take each person as they come they would probably find that "one " long before they ever thought they would. so he doesn't have the hair style you want, maybe he's not in perfect physical shape, maybe she's not blonde or a red head, maybe she likes a different kind of music so what? people need to seriously reevaluate what "qualities" their looking for in a person. and look for what really matters in a person. are they kind? decent? treat others with respect? a healthy self respect? a lot of people do. and i know alot of people are gonna say well thats all i look for but thats not entirely true. that might be some of what they want but the list goes on and on into stuff that really doesn't matter. oh but what about physical attraction?? you ask..... what about it? if a person met 90% of what you were looking for could you live with them if they were slightly overweight? or perhaps slightly shorter then you want? yeah you could but you don't want to, you want that one person that meets 100% of your expectations and thats just not going to happen.

lets take me for example (granted i'm not here to date and it would take alot to get me to date anybody right now) yeah i have long hair, i play in a death metal band, i'm extremely sarcastic, i like horror movies, i don't dress like i'm fresh out of gq magazine and that probably rules me out of 3/4 of the womens play books right there and thats all they will ever see. what they don't see and probably never will is that i own my own company, i'm very successful , i own my home and my cars (not making payments on) i'm very kind and generous, the people close to me never want for anything if it's in my power, i'm pretty intelligent, i hold more degrees then most people on this site , i treat women like they were queens and i'm very respectful. all in all i'm a pretty well rounded guy but just because a few things don't match their general criteria i'm out of the running and thats pretty unfortunate and thats the biggest reason right there as to why i don't date anymore.

lets just cut to the chase and sum all this up with.....
if your not willing to look beyond the few things you don't like to see the many things that you do in each person and give each person a chance then it's going to make for a very very long search and a very lonely existence.

to be honest, i donnt why i am single, prob because im a nice guy and most "not all so dont kill me lol" girls want the kinda guy that treats her like sh1t and cheats on her, dont ask me why but thats how it seems



along with what he said ^

why am I single? i have no clue......

the same reason as the rest of us.............

i am not single but i have had a lot of experience being single - 40 years worth.

there are many many beautiful and wonderful people out there - so there are many many matches for everyone. great matches. really. soulmates. find one and be with them. really be with them. and be prepared to have a lot of amazing friends. and do it now because life is short and an opportunity is a terrible thing to waste.

Well said S1ow!! Well said......

CLose, very close, but no cigar..

Its hard NOT to think negatively if you have been rejected zillions of times. Now tell me you wouldnt be feeling down if you have been shot down alot?

Thinking that way is a choice Khaki..... so what if you have been shot down a zillion times, who hasn't????? Yet the world keeps a spinning.....

Make a list of characteristics or qualities that interest you..... go over past relationships and see what qualities you were attracted to, 9xs out of 10 there is a pattern.... stop there......

Now make a list of qualities that you honestly bring to the table and also a list of qualities that maybe are not the best....maybe lack of communication is a bad thing for you...... take some of those negative attributes and start working towards a positive goal of changing things within yourself.... self growth is an amazing thing...once you truly Love yourself then you are able to love others......

Thinking negative throws out that negative vibe to others around you and they sense it.... so we can either continue the poopah boohoo pity party or take steps towards a more postive path.... and it won't happen overnight.... for you to make changes and make those changes into a daily habit takes a min of at least 6 weeks for the brain to acknowledge changes....

Don't give up Khaki....maybe this is your chance and opportunity to finding the girl of your dreams.........

People amaze me when they say they are looking for a sign to happen..... The Source give us so many signs, it is what we choose to do when appear that matters.....and if we walk around those signs and stay on the same path, we will stay disapointed and in that same ole cycle of being rejected....

So Khaki, I am by no means calling myself a Source, but obviously what you have been doing is not working..... so with that in mind..... Here's a sign....

You choose what you do with it.....

because every girl I seem to attract gets unattracted for no reason. Plus I have no time in real life to find a girlfriend and every girl I find on here screws me over.

<~~~~~~chooses to be single...
I found out that being single for me is so much better than being with someone....I feel free...happier...and most importantly, have sole possesion of the remote control..

I'm not single. I'm relationship challenged!

I'm single 3 days a week. The other four are my days off!

LMAO, that is a good one

Why am I single humm most likely cause there is not a man that can handle me lol either that or I did not tie him up tight enough

But you only use string, it breaks too easy.
Besides you said you like it when they break loose & TAKE CONTROL.

Im single because I intimidate men.....

Hell Gypsy you intimidate the Northern Hemisphere men and women LOL

I'm single 'cause I can't find a women to give me the same respect I give them

I attract cats.....

I attract stalkers.