Topic: Why i am single?
IconicMemory's photo
Sun 12/16/07 11:24 AM

I am single b/c it seems impossible to find a man who treats a woman with respect and isn't either looking for someone to support them or they just think they are too good.


Contrary to your belief. There are some good men out there. That do indeed respect women and are not looking for a woman to support them.

But I have found that most people are looking for someone who must have blue eyes or have long hair or just simple things that can be overlooked and in the end you could really have the person you truly wish to be with. If only one wasn't so picky about small details.

isaac_dede's photo
Sun 12/16/07 11:26 AM


I'm not single...but i'm becoming single. Why? because I guess a woman would rather have a guy with no job and a six pack than one who has been with them and supported them for 7 years. Oh well.
she must have a screw loose hun, well rid i say, know it will be hard tho

Thanx, Oh well i can honestly say her loss. She thinks her beauty will last forever....i've seen her mom! no it wont! lol. Then she'll realize.

Katertots37's photo
Sun 12/16/07 11:28 AM

I thought mine existed until he proved me wrong this morning. sad brokenheart


((((((((((((shutter)))))))))))looks like we can cry together. Mine left friday and took all his stuff. He won't let me help him and he doesn't love me anymoresad brokenheart

DebbieJT's photo
Sun 12/16/07 11:28 AM



I'm not single...but i'm becoming single. Why? because I guess a woman would rather have a guy with no job and a six pack than one who has been with them and supported them for 7 years. Oh well.
she must have a screw loose hun, well rid i say, know it will be hard tho

Thanx, Oh well i can honestly say her loss. She thinks her beauty will last forever....i've seen her mom! no it wont! lol. Then she'll realize.
lol well the great escape has happened then lol

yokoke's photo
Sun 12/16/07 11:30 AM



I am single 'cause I need someone that's almost my clone. laugh laugh glasses




Sweet Jesus I got the shivers on that one LOL
Isn't one of you....enough?????????????laugh laugh laugh


Yeh laugh , but we both know a lady that is as CRAZY as me. laugh laugh laugh laugh glasses


Yeah if it's the same one I am thinking of then by god hang on to her because she is the catch of a lifetime IN ALL AREAS:wink: laugh and they don't come around to often....

:smile: bigsmile laugh laugh

nurjoyce's photo
Sun 12/16/07 11:31 AM
still looking for mine
i know he is around here somewhere:wink:

Popper1977's photo
Sun 12/16/07 11:32 AM

Popper, something TO what you said this morning about what some women don't like.

Now that said, perhaps this approach...spend more time trying to BE the ideal person rather than find the ideal person. I think that'll attract someone more like you than unlike you.


Thank you.

no photo
Sun 12/16/07 11:33 AM
Well, while waiting and looking the that "ideal" person to come into our lives, we should appreciate the single life. How we see ourselves, live our lives and project our personality would attract those of similar qualities to us (unless you are looking for the opposite). The compatibility will allow the relationship to blossom into something deep and beautiful. Pursuit activities that bring you joy, and in that process you might get to meet someone who holds similar interests and values. Work in a career that is meaningful to you, and some kindhearted person will appreciate the character in you. Most of all be happy with yourself and your single life, before sharing your life with that special person.

yokoke's photo
Sun 12/16/07 11:38 AM

((((((((((((shutter)))))))))))looks like we can cry together. Mine left friday and took all his stuff. He won't let me help him and he doesn't love me anymoresad brokenheart


Kater, we can't fix them and we can't help them...sometimes we can only be here as a friend until they work out things out for themselves...and people will come and go through our lifetimes, some leave treadmarks on our hearts... some we exchange pieces to share forever... take this time for YOU.... you are always giving for others, take this time and honor yourself and enjoy things you used too.....and if he doesn't love you anymore...so be it... you have friends and family that DO LOVE YOU.

See this in a different light...maybe this was meant to be, so that something or someone else could enter your life....

Sending heartfelt hugs and coffeeflowerforyou drinker

Katertots37's photo
Sun 12/16/07 11:41 AM


((((((((((((shutter)))))))))))looks like we can cry together. Mine left friday and took all his stuff. He won't let me help him and he doesn't love me anymoresad brokenheart


Kater, we can't fix them and we can't help them...sometimes we can only be here as a friend until they work out things out for themselves...and people will come and go through our lifetimes, some leave treadmarks on our hearts... some we exchange pieces to share forever... take this time for YOU.... you are always giving for others, take this time and honor yourself and enjoy things you used too.....and if he doesn't love you anymore...so be it... you have friends and family that DO LOVE YOU.

See this in a different light...maybe this was meant to be, so that something or someone else could enter your life....

Sending heartfelt hugs and coffeeflowerforyou drinker


Thank you but he doesn't want anything to do with me anymore. I've lost him for goodsad brokenheart

xkseniyanicolex's photo
Sun 12/16/07 11:42 AM
i hav no clue y i am single but im plannin on changin tht lol!

nurjoyce's photo
Sun 12/16/07 11:43 AM
awe--kater, i am sorry

nurjoyce's photo
Sun 12/16/07 11:43 AM
awe--kater, i am sorry

no photo
Sun 12/16/07 11:43 AM
i'm so sorry for you!

May be we shouldn't love anybody so much because love hearts

Katertots37's photo
Sun 12/16/07 11:46 AM

awe--kater, i am sorry


Thank you joyce but he has already told me that i don't love him anymore and the only one who can love him is his cat. Whats sad is i do love him but he won't believe me.

nurjoyce's photo
Sun 12/16/07 11:48 AM
some people put up barriers

the pain is worth finding the right person

seahawks's photo
Sun 12/16/07 11:49 AM
aww sorry to hear taters.!!!!!! HUGGZZ.~!!!!!!!!!!!!

Nickinolosers's photo
Sun 12/16/07 11:50 AM



OMG

HIS CAT???????

no photo
Sun 12/16/07 11:51 AM
Cats are great "people" but you cant have sex with them...noway laugh noway

Katertots37's photo
Sun 12/16/07 11:52 AM

Cats are great "people" but you cant have sex with them...noway laugh noway

He won't go that far. I am not in anyway gonna put him down. He is a wonderful man but has issues he has to deal with.