IS IT FINE IF I JUST MENTION WOMAN RATHER THAN A TRANSWOMAN ON MY DATING SITE PROFILE?
Do straight men really hate us?

transwomen is more attractive
more will contact

It is not that men hate Transwoman it is the fact they are being deceived on how someone was born then changed by surgery..

It is more of for safety issues for yourself.. For there are many men that if you was not honest with them and they found out later. They could become violent and take it out on you for not being honest..

Enjoy your journey but honesty is always the best policy~~~

Thank you so much

It is a tough one to deal with, but it is what the situation is. I don't think I would mention it on my profile. No need to expose yourself to unwanted BS messages. Lord knows what people will throw at you.
You made a conscious decision I assume based on not feeling you are a man but a woman and longing to be that in all ways, including physically.
You went through a helluva lot to get there with surgery.
If you feel you are a woman, start presenting yourself that way. Yes, it will be a big moment when you have to tell someone, but that comes with the choice you made. What it requires is you believing in yourself, in you being worthy, you being a woman, you being a valuable person, you being a wonderful potential partner to the right man, which is the man who loves & appreciates you for who you are.
Know you will have to deal with rejection and reactions that are not going to be pleasant. That part you cannot avoid.
Don't wait too long to tell a guy. Not like after a month, that's not fair. But I think you should give yourself the advantage of them seeing you and getting to know you a bit so they base their judgement of you not solely on the information of "Transwoman" but you as a great person and attractive woman.

And seriously stop with the BS photos. Get some really nice NORMAL photos. Be real. Believe in you, meaning you don't have to hide behind fake flowers and beauty filters.

Excellent advice Alina, which I would take if I were you.

Thank you

Hi there

I can understand that it may be wise not to say you are transgender in your profile, but in reply to someone contacting you, and where there is mutual interest in each other, I think you need to tell them at that time, so as not to be "leading them on" so to speak. Maybe some men want Children in seeking a marital relationship.

hey

It's not a matter if hate more than a matter of being deceived. And being from the south it can be a whole matter of being how we was raised plus the whole pressure of carrying the family name.

I think it's awesome, that you're brave enough to
have mentioned it in your profile.

However, even if you choose not to be so open
about who you are... You should at least be open
about it, to any man you're getting ready to meet
or date.


As a straight man, I don' t hate anybody.
There are, however, things I'm adamantly into,
and things I'm adamantly not into.

Thanks everyone for your views! It was much needed at this point of time