I think you have some very serous issues... in terms of relationships. Personally, I like younger guys, but they have to be emotionally centered. At ease with who they are.. I don't think you're there yet..... good luck....

you know i feel real sorry for you man, i knew a ton of people just like you, over weight, kinda geeky, not the most sociable. but there was always a guy like me who would befriend them just cause nobody else would. i can't tell you how many fights i got in defending somebody who couldn't fight or was scared.

maybe thats what you need to find, go look around for the few outsiders and make a few friends before you try this dating thing. a girl ain't gonna make anything better for you, but a 6'5 300 pound stoner that just loves to fight probably would.

Honestly I find this whole thing hard to believe...

i think there's more to it then what he's saying maybe a bit of exageration as well. but i've seen it happen to people so i don;t doubt all of it, maybe 50%.

Well sure it happens but there aren't 10k people involved. Everytime you turn around someone is throwing something at you or trying to run you over for absolutly NO reason at all. Doesn't make any sense.
If something like that is really going on, you need to call the police and file charges.

lol great idea! It appears to me that there are many problems that need to be dealt with before you even attempt to date someone.

DITTO

it's probably more like 10 people,maybe drove past him real close to plash a puddle on him or something like that. and yeah he probably did something to start it rather it's justifoed for them to act that way or not. who knows maybe he's a peeping tom and the "very popular" guy was some girls boyfriend or something....

umm call beauty and the geek show im sure they will help out it will get u to talk to some women and get some confedence. but for right now take some time out and go to the gym and work out. buy some nice clothes, change your aspect on life. and when you do go out on a date, and it fails look at what you did and dont do it again. and get some friends, you might wanna stay away from the computers and join a club that has females in it.

just my thoughts

I dunno I think he's strokin us. Either way I'm going to see if I can dig up another two cents to throw into another thread. lol. Later guys.

true, true, tru!

ohh and on your profile take out all that fallin hair and that crap your tryin to attract women not scare them away. they dont need to no anything negitive about you...right away

agree...

excuse me you might not have honnor but i would never be a peeping tom, & there are @ least 50 pepole, there even used to be a hate club set up against me on bebo. i had it shut down then it got worse in RL, it started out of nothing, but i think that is what got it to this lvl.

isn't it better to be honest & hide nothing, my ideology makes me very unconfitbal when i lie, so i try my best not to.

Remember you asked for my Two Cents... Diggs for a penny

Have confidence. Going over how this will never work in your mind, or wondering if you did something wrong is self defeating, Having confidence in your self says you’re a man, and don’t be afraid to make a decision. A lot of guys I know do this and it screams wuss, If she asks what you want to do don’t be afraid to make a choice.
If confidence is a issue you might get a couple self help cd’s and learn to look at things a little differently.
Be yourself, This is a big issue with both men and women, they look to impress someone so they act the way they think this person would like them to act. Problem is, it’s not you, and the other person will wonder what happened to the person they met when you get comfortable and return to being you.
As for looks, to woman this is not as important as it is to men. Not says it’s not important … Pay attention to detail, nails are cut and clean, Teeth don’t have things stuck in them. Most important SHOWER before you go out, nothing is a bigger turn off than BO And dress nice (this doesn’t mean spend all your cash on new cloths) dressing nice means having a clue to style, not sure pick up GQ or any other men’s mag and browse through it. Most of the styles they show in these are high priced but you can put something together relatively cheep.

Ahhh, I'm confused.

Okay, please do a spellcheck. Paste from word or any other such software. Girls dig good spelling and punctuation. Make your profile more upbeat. As said, you don't need to share why you don't smile (which you should smile no matter what) and that you are losing your hair.

As for the people who you say have a hate club thing going against you, have you contacted the authorities?

It's all about the law of averages. You will meet the right one someday. You are too young to be worried about dying a virgin.

M

firstly, i do use a spell checker, it just doesn't help much, secondly, i sead HAD not HAVE i got the admins to shut down the online one.

uh try a blind girl just joking

first of all, girls always flake out on dates and stuff. don't worry about it. that ain't new. it's not your fault.

second of all, i believe i already sent u a message some time ago... you should be well on your way.