Topic: starting relationships
gigm's photo
Sun 12/16/07 08:25 AM
maybe it might have helped an American, but it didn't help me.

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Sun 12/16/07 10:23 AM

pleas i beg you for help & advise, i can never make it past the first date without the person i'm with saying that it's not going to work out, in fact 66% of my dates stand me up, i need help & advise or i will die a virgin. pleas message me with advise as i'm sure this topic will get closed.


well the best advice would have came from the women that told you that "it's not going to work out"
and surely you said ..why?
and surely they responded ..so what the heck did they said?

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Sun 12/16/07 01:24 PM

maybe it might have helped an American, but it didn't help me.

ugh... release yourself from the prison of your closed mind.
to help you out, i'll send you some EUROPEAN stuff.

goddamn man quit trying to categorize success as something exclusive to things outside of yourself.

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Sun 12/16/07 01:46 PM

well the best advice would have came from the women that told you that "it's not going to work out"

*buzzer goes off*
wrong
lol

gigm's photo
Sun 12/16/07 01:54 PM
i read it all with an open mind & by then end i had reached the dessision that 'it's all a crock of ****'

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Sun 12/16/07 02:10 PM

i read it all with an open mind & by then end i had reached the dessision that 'it's all a crock of ****'

that's because you've never tried it

simply because you refuse to change

so you don't think it's worth the effort

so youve never seen the awesome power

...basically youve never opened your mind in your entire life

IntelligentLady's photo
Sun 12/16/07 02:17 PM


Well my thoughts are that either this is a put on, or a resolution to the issues at hand would require more than advice from an online forum.

Please don't take that the wrong way.

If you're just pulling chains, then: haha good one.

If you're serious, then I'd suggest working on the larger issues before worrying about seeking a relationship. You can only make something work when both people are living happy, stable, and well balanced lives. When there are severe problems as you discribe, this would greatly impede the ability to do normal things like begin a romantic relationship.

Best of luck...


ok so how can i deal with the situation? i can't move (can't afoird it), ignoring it doesn't work (last time i didn't dodge i ended up in hospital for a week, admittedly they also found out i have diabetes so that kept me in for longer than nessisary). so what can i do to resolve the issue?


I find this all interesting and somewhat odd but for serious answer, I'd start with filing police reports if you're being stalked and attacked, then seeing a counselor through your local community services or through your school. If this is serious, then you need help and sex is not going to improve the situation. Everyone needs to work on themselves first before trying to find a relationship and it sounds like you have some issues that need to be addressed before worrying about dating, sex and relationships.

gigm's photo
Sun 12/16/07 08:29 PM
Edited by gigm on Sun 12/16/07 08:30 PM
unfortunately there is too little evidence (little not non). i HAVE seen a COUNSELOR. i have no problems with my self.

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Mon 12/17/07 12:55 AM
also when there's more people willing to lie in a court house than there are telling the truth, the lairs would always win.

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Mon 12/17/07 01:08 AM
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Mon 12/17/07 01:08 AM
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Mon 12/17/07 01:09 AM
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Mon 12/17/07 01:09 AM
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Fri 12/21/07 07:28 PM
thats a lot of hiccups blue!

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Tue 12/25/07 12:19 AM
What a trip!!!! Congratulations gigm! You win! You have the most screwed up disfunctional life I've ever heard of. Quentin Tarantino couldn't have even dreamed this pulp fiction up in his wildest peyote induced hallucinations. Here's your academy award, your ribbon, and your tiara. Have a cuban cigar for your left hand and an absinthe martini for your right hand. You earned it.

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Tue 12/25/07 12:53 AM
Bows to gigm.

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Wed 12/26/07 05:56 AM
Well, you have a sweet bike. And you're really good at hooking up with chicks. Plus you're like the only guy at school who has a mustache.

gigm's photo
Wed 12/26/07 06:03 AM
I'm not @ school & haven't been for 2 years. i was in collage until November but then i quite the course due to my diabetes,
even when i was in school i wasn`t the only guy that had a mustache in my year. & even if i had of been it is no reason to pick on me.

as for your comment biker, i wish it was all made up. i hope it all goes away in the new year.

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Wed 12/26/07 08:03 AM
You dropped out of college because of diabetes?

Oh my...that's new one for me that I haven't heard before...drinker

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Wed 12/26/07 08:14 AM

I'm not @ school & haven't been for 2 years. i was in collage until November but then i quite the course due to my diabetes,
even when i was in school i wasn`t the only guy that had a mustache in my year. & even if i had of been it is no reason to pick on me.

as for your comment biker, i wish it was all made up. i hope it all goes away in the new year.


Just tell them that their wildest dreams will come true if they vote for you.