Well here I am, once again alone at Christmas. My house is decorated with lights. The Christmas tree is trimmed.

She is gone. Without so much as a warning. After being together for the last 8 months. After pouring my whole heart into this relationship. She has depression, and says she isnt good enough for me. When each and everyday I have shown her that she is special to me. She says she has made up her mind. So there you have it.

Is there anyone out there who still knows what love is ???

love is.......decorating your house with lights and stuff solely for the enjoyment of your neighbors

I know the perfect somebody...

i know its hard to live with someone with depression. and its just as bad being alone. i pray for that god will bring someone in to ur life.

i have a feeling shes gonna come back to you....but thats just my opinion, patience she wants attention, see you sad maybe.

I'm sorry you are hurting...if you need someone to talk to...feel free to message me...am always available to someone who needs to talk if they want an shoulder to lean on...((hugs))

Depression is hard. You gave it your best and probably more.

Sit back and enjoy that tree and lights. Drag a neighbor in or maybe a coworker.

Klugman...don't let it eat you away. There is true love and it will find her. Grab on to your friends and family.
Saying a little Christmas Prayer for you.
To new beginnings and happiness!

I'm begining to think there is no such thing. I too will spend Christmas alone. Oh well.

OOPS meant it WILL find YOU...
wishing both of you better times

My first Christmas alone...and not handling it very well...so know where ya comin from..but wish the best for you..

absolutely...alone doesn't equal lonely...i am sorry you're not enjoying this beautiful time of yr...

Holidays are rough on people. Everything comes full circle. The cold, grey weather brings you down. You look back at the last 12 months and see everything you did...or didnt do. You feel obligated to share your heart, money and time with so many people. I used to love the holidays, now I just want to pretend they don't exist. Hang tight, dont chase her. Maybe call once or twice let her know your there for her and you care. But dont give her any more of a reason to make it your fault. Ive been single for the past...7 Christmases. Well except for one, but he cheated on me very shortly after I brought him home to my mom for Christmas.

Thankyou everybody for your concern, and best wishes, prayers.

God knows I need them right now.

I have bipolar depression. If you love her, don't give up on her. I have seen this before. She is in a deep depression now and wants to spare you from her mood. She is thinking she is saving you from her pain, but in reality, she is causing you pain. Explain this to her, be patient and understanding. She really needs you now and probably wants you to keep trying. Her whole world is crashing down and she needs love and support. Good lucdk to you and I am sorry you are going through this.

Awww, your story makes me sad.. I'm alone this year and though it hurts I'm trying to make the best of waht I do have. I think you all should do the same just enjoy life even if the person you thought you were going to spend it with isn't with you anymore.

I married a manic depressive. It's not pretty no matter how well intended you are.

A Knight can only save a woman in trouble.....not a woman from 'herself'.

Aww I am sorry

I hope it works out for you ...

I sympathize and share your pain. My wife left a month after 7 years. I also am alone this holliday season. It is very hard especially when you loved the other so much. Merry Chrismas guy and may both of us get our wish.

This will be my fourth one alone. I don't let it bother me. I enjoy seeing the kids light up for the holidays and I enjoy seeing and hearing from some friends that I only hear from at Christmas. New Years is my favorite, reflection and a new start, can't get any better than that.

Well don't feel bad I am in the same way.the very last time I had someone to be with at Xmas and for New years eve was 4 years ago,but now back to me being a loner as usual.So don't feel bad dude.