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Topic: WHY?
Enya's photo
Mon 12/10/07 08:33 PM
TELL ME MEN...WHEN YOU HEAR 'I LOVE YOU'
OR 'COMMITMENT'
WHY DO YALL LEAVE?

JaceKnows's photo
Mon 12/10/07 08:34 PM
Cause the last girl said it three weeks after we first met....

no photo
Mon 12/10/07 08:35 PM
Some just do not have the level of maturity required in a long-term relationship.

jvc534's photo
Mon 12/10/07 08:37 PM
Well I just heard it from a girl a week after we met on JSH and never actually met her. On top of that she liked to play the "manipulation through emotions" game. I am not afraid of commitment but I know when it won't go anywhere.

Enya's photo
Mon 12/10/07 08:38 PM

Cause the last girl said it three weeks after we first met....

DID IT AGURE TO YOU THAT MAYBE SHE MEANT IT?

Enya's photo
Mon 12/10/07 08:39 PM

Well I just heard it from a girl a week after we met on JSH and never actually met her. On top of that she liked to play the "manipulation through emotions" game. I am not afraid of commitment but I know when it won't go anywhere.

SO?SAYING IT SHOULD'NT BE SO SOON?

jvc534's photo
Mon 12/10/07 08:41 PM
Well that isn't what got me. I was flattered by it because it made me think, "hey, I am a good guybigsmile ". But what did get me was her manipulations. I broke up a four year relationship because of that so right now there is nothing I hate more.

fortsmithman's photo
Mon 12/10/07 08:42 PM
Since I'm looking for a wife if any lady I was with told me I love you I would tell her that right back. It's hard to find sopmeone to share one's life with. I love you and committment don't scare me these are the words I want to hear my future lady say to me.

HJFinAZ's photo
Mon 12/10/07 08:59 PM
Do they?????????????brokenheart

azrae1l's photo
Mon 12/10/07 09:01 PM
not all of us leave. hell i've BEEN left every single time. so why do you women walk out if things get serious?

dreamerofheaven's photo
Mon 12/10/07 11:15 PM
Well alot of guy are not ready for a commitment yet they still wan t to party.

dmx_wyrw's photo
Mon 12/10/07 11:16 PM

not all of us leave. hell i've BEEN left every single time. so why do you women walk out if things get serious?

HELLS yes to that. man, last girl brought up marriage and then was like nah lets just be friends. man wtf?!?

no photo
Mon 12/10/07 11:20 PM


Cause the last girl said it three weeks after we first met....

DID IT AGURE TO YOU THAT MAYBE SHE MEANT IT?


Um, what does "AGURE" mean? Did you mean "occur"?

And please, don't yell. Quiet time starts at 10 p.m. around here.

Yes, saying I love you after three weeks is waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy too soon ESPECIALLY if you have never met in person. To me, that is freakin' creepy.



no photo
Mon 12/10/07 11:23 PM
That's why you should wait til the guy says it first...

suppaswinga's photo
Mon 12/10/07 11:28 PM
That's because us men..don't like to commit...So Sorry... :(

AnglKisz's photo
Mon 12/10/07 11:34 PM
Don't worry, you guys do the exact same thing! And ok, yes, three weeks and never met is a little on the scary side, but u gotta give the girl credit for throwin it out there. You don't know if you don't say something!

no photo
Tue 12/11/07 01:07 AM
Its the classic "elusive" male syndrome.......actually some women have it too.......they are unable to get close to any one person.......I think it has to do with their childhood.

CaptainSpaz's photo
Tue 12/11/07 01:29 AM
Every time the issues of "love" or "commitment" are brought up I'm the one that gets dumped, doesn't matter if I'm the one that brought it up or not.

no photo
Tue 12/11/07 01:39 AM
Well.. no doubt! All we see of you is a picture in a "I love myself" Jacket.

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 12/11/07 02:20 AM
Because she said "I love you" all the way out the door into the arms of another man.

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