Hi all in curious how many men would find an issue dating a woman with a facial disfigurment just a question I wonder about

I have no problem with being with a woman that has a scar or suck kn her face. But a full on mike tyson tribal tatt would make me look the other way.

I will tell you later

it would depend greatly on what the rest of the person was like. no one ticks all the boxes.

There are inside scars, and outside scars.
I prefer being able to see them.

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There are many types of "disabilities".

I'd much rather deal with a person who has
a disfigured face, etc...

Than have to deal with someone who has a
disfigured personality.

I don't care about disfigurement as long as your mind is sane

Well said!

I believe what's inside a person is much more important than their outward appearance.

Facial or other disfigurement is not something you can't get past although it may take a couple meetings to become comfortable and accepting of the situation. There are so many other "disfigurements" that are totally unacceptable that some facial issues soon become irrelevant.

Depends on the degree of the facial disfigurement.

Also depends on how I "met" her.

If I'm sitting here scrolling through profiles and of the 3,000 profile thumbnail pictures I see one has this horrible disfigurement, I'm just going to move past that one and try the other 2,999 (unless their profile or whatever makes me want to focus on the other 2,998, 2,997, etc.)

If I am at the grocery store and some random lady with a slight facial disfigurement starts flirting with me, and I'm attracted to her, then I will flirt back.

If I'm already dating her (which is implied in the OP), then it wouldn't really be an issue...as we've already gotten over the hurdle.
Unless we're talking about a disfigurement where I discover that before sex she has to get into this convoluted protection system, or I have to spend 3 hours rubbing lotion and changing sutures and gauze out, or half her cheek and nose are removable and fall off when I try to kiss her.
Then it will become a bigger issue.

^^^ omg ciretom that is gross

Good thing I am not a man so I don't have to answer this.

The most importance is the character, not the facial feature. If her character matches mine, the disfiturement doesn' t matter.

we are not living in someone's beauty rather we live in someone's characters.......

I used to know a girl in Alabama that had about a 5 or 6" scar on her right cheek. It looked like a knife cut (this was 25+ years ago) but wasn't, I can't remember what she told me had happened. I felt bad for her because she was absolutely gorgeous in every way but was self conscious about it, she was a librarian and told me one night of all the stupid and rude things people said to her and asked her. She was a real sweetheart and has probably had it fixed long ago. Anyway, sorry some times I get long winded when I'm having a flashback.
The answer for me is..........NO!
Didn't wouldn't hasn't ever bothered me.

I don't think scars are problems. When I was a kid, I had a lot of operations on my legs and scars which I don't like to talk about.

I know it sounds shallow but

scar not at issues at all its attitudes to deal with...

(continue) but if it's a nasty disfigurement and I don't know the person it's going to take full power Not to stare and Almost all of us no matter what u might say now is gonna have a hard time getting past that. But if it's someone I knew before said disfigurement then it's no problem because I already knew the personality. Of Course getting ur face totally disfigured (and I have seen it), will most likely change that person's personality.