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Topic: What do men really, really want?
SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33259	Tue 02/19/19 02:12 AM
I have seen you change and grow a lot for sure! Also, not certain when you got here? When I first got here in 2013 there was a horrible clique that was ruling the place. A lot of backlash, lots of digs in the forums, and lot of chit going on 'backstage' via PMs. I was victim of that, for being rather outspoken I guess, and for not conforming to that clique that was run by some old cow. No one dared go against her or her clique. Someone who liked me at some point warned me about the chit she was spreading about me via PM. Hearing what it was was quite shocking! Not sure if you were here then as well, but that setting was very intimidating. If it hadn't been for a couple of others that I liked and liked me, I would've left. Thank you! I joined as piscesmoon02 in November of 2016 right before the US president election. I didn't join the forums until after Valentine's Day in 2017. Some of the strongly spoken members were intimidating for sure, haha. And yes, I did see some getting picked on for speaking their minds... which made me want to keep quiet all the more. I too got picked on, figured it was just part of the initiation period that most newbies go through. Kind of like when you join a sorority group, they want to see what you're made of and if you'll stick around. It's sad when other's feel the need to do that... maybe they have nothing better to do? It doesn't bother me so much anymore. I just consider the source and if it saves someone else from being picked on then so be it. So long as I remember to remind myself not to take things personally, others attacks don't effect me adversely... although it does still hurt a little. I'm glad you stuck around, you're a wonderful woman and bring a lot of good stuff to the forums. Oowww... that's sweet, thank you, does me good! I know you got here as Pisces, couldn't remember when. By 2017 these ppl had long gone. Be glad you never fell into that mob, haha. Unfortunately there were a number of really great ppl back then too who also have gone. But yeah, that's how it goes I suppose. In any case, I'm also glad you stuck around! I can really enjoy our exchanges.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33259	Tue 02/19/19 02:18 AM
The serious long winded know-it-all speculative posts by happy old hens ... cluck.. Thank you for once again showing your levels of intelligence and development.

Riverspirit1111 Joined Wed 06/27/18 Posts: 100738	Tue 02/19/19 02:18 AM
Oowww... that's sweet, thank you, does me good! I know you got here as Pisces, couldn't remember when. By 2017 these ppl had long gone. Be glad you never fell into that mob, haha. Unfortunately there were a number of really great ppl back then too who also have gone. But yeah, that's how it goes I suppose. In any case, I'm also glad you stuck around! I can really enjoy our exchanges.

JustBeHonest Joined Sat 10/06/18 Posts: 2691	Tue 02/19/19 04:47 AM
The serious long winded know-it-all speculative posts by happy old hens ... cluck.. Thank you for once again showing your levels of intelligence and development.

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21250	Tue 02/19/19 05:29 PM
I could probably use new grips and touring pegs for the Indian, and maybe a new fuel filter. And, definitely a new rattlesnake skin jacket.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14513	Tue 02/19/19 06:23 PM
That's not all men. A real. Man with a beautiful mind would treat a woman like. A queen.

oldkid46 Joined Fri 02/09/18 Posts: 1713	Tue 02/19/19 07:38 PM
There sure seem to be a lot of woman that think they know what all of us men want. So do they NOT know what we want or are they just unwilling to give us what we really want? I'm thinking they have just been watching too many Hollywood movies and don't know reality from fiction!!

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21250	Tue 02/19/19 08:53 PM
IF, I were looking... First and foremost, I'd want an intelligent woman, with an IQ of at least 110. But, preferably, 120 or above. And, with more common sense, than God gave an ice cube. Goofy, I can live with. Derp, I cannot. I'd want a woman with a good work ethic. And, good ethics, for life in general. Hygienic: This shouldn't need explaining. Emotionally secure, and emotionally stable. ..... Yes, I realize my list, may have butthurted somebody, somewhere. And, amazingly enough, I'm okay with that.

mzrosie Joined Wed 08/14/13 Posts: 33997	Tue 02/19/19 09:16 PM
IF, I were looking... First and foremost, I'd want an intelligent woman, with an IQ of at least 110. But, preferably, 120 or above. And, with more common sense, than God gave an ice cube. Goofy, I can live with. Derp, I cannot. I'd want a woman with a good work ethic. And, good ethics, for life in general. Hygienic: This shouldn't need explaining. Emotionally secure, and emotionally stable. ..... Yes, I realize my list, may have butthurted somebody, somewhere. And, amazingly enough, I'm okay with that. Now Rock, that wasn't too hard, was it? If someone got butthurted well then, they were not what you were looking for anyways (that is, if you were looking of course).

Riverspirit1111 Joined Wed 06/27/18 Posts: 100738	Wed 02/20/19 01:37 AM
IF, I were looking... First and foremost, I'd want an intelligent woman, with an IQ of at least 110. But, preferably, 120 or above. And, with more common sense, than God gave an ice cube. Goofy, I can live with. Derp, I cannot. I'd want a woman with a good work ethic. And, good ethics, for life in general. Hygienic: This shouldn't need explaining. Emotionally secure, and emotionally stable. ..... Yes, I realize my list, may have butthurted somebody, somewhere. And, amazingly enough, I'm okay with that. Hey that's me! Too bad you're not looking

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48916	Wed 02/20/19 04:53 AM
What do men really, really want? Chantilly lace and a pretty face . . . along with a beer and a sammich.

oldkid46 Joined Fri 02/09/18 Posts: 1713	Wed 02/20/19 06:35 AM
IF, I were looking... First and foremost, I'd want an intelligent woman, with an IQ of at least 110. But, preferably, 120 or above. And, with more common sense, than God gave an ice cube. Goofy, I can live with. Derp, I cannot. I'd want a woman with a good work ethic. And, good ethics, for life in general. Hygienic: This shouldn't need explaining. Emotionally secure, and emotionally stable. ..... Yes, I realize my list, may have butthurted somebody, somewhere. And, amazingly enough, I'm okay with that. Realistic expectations but very difficult to find! Most with those qualities are happily married to a man who appreciates them.

prenva Joined Mon 05/30/16 Posts: 33	Wed 02/20/19 07:12 AM
i would love consistancy dont need a maid or a cook i can do that for myself

prenva Joined Mon 05/30/16 Posts: 33	Sun 02/24/19 06:30 AM
1.a woman that speaks her mind does not play stupid to attract a man 2.dont need a maid or a cook (can do that on my own got 2 hands washer and a oven) 3.someone thats not self centered (you know the me me type)the world revolves around attitude. 4.a woman that can have a conversation about disagreement without trowing a tantrum like a 2 year old 5.someone that does not pretend can be herself and knows herself (me likes a stong confident woman and if you have red or brown hair thats kryptonite right there) 6.as far as the tv remote you can have it 95% the time i only watch 6 channels and no they are not sports channels(history,discovery,science,cartoon network<--better to be honest upfront,scifi-some woman may not like this but first and foremost one must be true to themselves and i like my scifi,hallmark--yes have a romantic side especially with the right person,and cooking shows-love to cook especially italian make a killer penne alla vodka and chicken franchez) 7.i know alot of woman have put up with alot of crap but not every man as not every woman is the same im not looking for the perfect woman just perfect for me someone to chat with go out with be goofy with(if your into tech,cooking,gardening-you get brownie points)someone i can basically be me always no judgement pure simple friendship with a touch of love and companionship someone that will help me built a home

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14513	Sun 02/24/19 10:13 AM Edited by Toodygirl5 on Sun 02/24/19 10:15 AM
Your thoughts would be appreciated. Men just want ATTENTION any way they can get it!!

joshhassin Joined Sun 02/24/19 Posts: 3	Sun 02/24/19 05:36 PM
i dont have bread for my breakfast, i have cooked food as breakfast and most of 'US' cook our breakfast.

joshhassin Joined Sun 02/24/19 Posts: 3	Sun 02/24/19 05:39 PM
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joshhassin Joined Sun 02/24/19 Posts: 3	Sun 02/24/19 05:42 PM
Disclaimer: I will speak base on my personal experiences to a rare few i have once with. They want.... Shock absorber Mother figure Sugar mommy Psychoanalyst Punching bag Rebound girl Nanny Maid Stoic Moron Etc.etc.etc. That's rather negative... Based on what I've experienced with an empowered man, and heard from other empowered males... A woman who's positive, confident, playful, intelligent (+/-same level), standing on her own two feet, able to receive his love, able to give love, able to receive his support & help (= feminine), a little mysterious, sexual & sensual, fun to be with, able to talk about her feelings & issues. Bear in mind this comes from empowered men... for some it will likely remain 'boobs & beer' for a few more lives, haha. ️

Michael69619 Joined Fri 07/13/18 Posts: 136	Mon 02/25/19 05:17 AM
The war of the sexes continues unabated!

Blondey111 Joined Sun 01/27/13 Posts: 8980	Tue 02/26/19 04:34 PM
What do men really want .... Someone who appreciates their masculinity and makes them feel desired like Adonis .. Someone who does not need to talk after sex