Community > Dating & Relationships

Topic: True or False
Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14586	Sat 01/26/19 04:10 PM
There is Always a Purpose for a Flirt, just not for Fun. With a Man, that is. I disagree. I flirt just for fun, no other reason. This thread is about MEN flirting !

Larsi666 😽 Joined Wed 01/31/18 Posts: 17133	Sat 01/26/19 05:07 PM
Some flirt, just for the sake of flirting. Looking for attention ...

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14586	Sat 01/26/19 06:09 PM
Some flirt, just for the sake of flirting. Looking for attention ... Looking for attention is. A purpose!

Stu Joined Sun 07/23/17 Posts: 22537	Sat 01/26/19 08:45 PM
There is Always a Purpose for a Flirt, just not for Fun. With a Man, that is. I disagree. I flirt just for fun, no other reason. Is your bf ok with that?

Tom4Uhere Joined Sat 12/17/16 Posts: 16240	Sat 01/26/19 11:38 PM
Flirting can be misunderstood. Sometimes just taking notice/commenting on a woman's appearance or mannerisms will be taken as flirting. Sometimes inner joy can 'look' like a man flirts with everyone. When I was married, I was 'happily' married but the X accused me of flirting constantly. I wasn't flirting with an intent to jeopardize our marriage, I was just happy and wanted to make the people around me happy. In 25 years, I never cheated on my X. Never even wanted to. Being single, I found contentment and I still give compliments to women but they don't seem to create a desire for her to enter into a relationship with me. The relationships I have had, were not instigated by flirting but they were caused by honest communication.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33264	Sun 01/27/19 02:39 AM
not only man flirt woman too, base on Flirting(numbers)shows how unhappy one is !! if you flirt 10 people you are unhappy 10 times. That's not true. I know many happy people who flirt. It could just be their way of making someone feel good or maybe themselves feeling still sexy. Your explanation is indicative of such person not being all that confident. If they were, they wouldn't need it to make themselves feel sexy still, and they'd have plenty of other means to make someone else feel good. If you need to use sexual innuendo and dynamic in order to communicate with other people or to feel good yourself you've got something to work on. Would make me wonder how loyal they are to their partner, ifever they had one.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33264	Sun 01/27/19 02:43 AM
Men who flirt alot shy away from a monogamous relationship with any woman. A Flirt is a lady's man. I agree with this. I don't feel they're always 'lady's men' though. I think many if not most do it because they need validation, likely the confirmation that they're still attractive. To me a lady's man is something different.

Daisy Joined Sat 12/15/18 Posts: 365	Sun 01/27/19 02:50 AM
not only man flirt woman too, base on Flirting(numbers)shows how unhappy one is !! if you flirt 10 people you are unhappy 10 times. That's not true. I know many happy people who flirt. It could just be their way of making someone feel good or maybe themselves feeling still sexy. I guess you may be right. i feel flirting is only rights for singles. married couple should not indulge in to this.

Riverspirit1111 Joined Wed 06/27/18 Posts: 100738	Sun 01/27/19 03:06 AM Edited by Riverspirit1111 on Sun 01/27/19 03:21 AM
Men who flirt alot shy away from a monogamous relationship with any woman. A Flirt is a lady's man. Most of the men I've seen who flirt a lot do seem to shy away from a monogamous relationship. Getting attention from a lot of women boosts their egos and getting in a relationship generally means having to give that up... Not many women are okay with their man flirting with other women... I'm not! If I'm in a relationship, I flirt with the one I'm with... I don't flirt with other men. It doesn't feel right and I don't want them doing the same. If I'm not in a relationship I flirt with men I would go on a date with. Flirting to me is a sign of affection or interest and I don't want to give someone the wrong idea or false hopes if I am not interested. The only exception to this is in the game threads where I have flirted for fun due to the nature of the game. Most would agree it's just a game. For those of us who are a little more shy and are learning to be more flirtatious, it's a fun and safe place to do so without anyone taking it serious. But even there, I tend to only flirt with those who I would consider dating if it were possible.

Larsi666 😽 Joined Wed 01/31/18 Posts: 17133	Sun 01/27/19 04:23 AM
Some flirt, just for the sake of flirting. Looking for attention ... Looking for attention is. A purpose! Well, some need it like them likes on Facebook. There is limits though

JustBeHonest Joined Sat 10/06/18 Posts: 2691	Sun 01/27/19 06:51 AM
There is Always a Purpose for a Flirt, just not for Fun. With a Man, that is. I disagree. I flirt just for fun, no other reason. Is your bf ok with that? Well, like River, I am only flirting online. To be honest, I Don’t think I would do it in person. Bf claims that he is not ever jealous but I haven’t tested that yet.

Stu Joined Sun 07/23/17 Posts: 22537	Sun 01/27/19 07:30 AM Edited by Stu on Sun 01/27/19 07:31 AM
There is Always a Purpose for a Flirt, just not for Fun. With a Man, that is. I disagree. I flirt just for fun, no other reason. Is your bf ok with that? Well, like River, I am only flirting online. To be honest, I Don’t think I would do it in person. Bf claims that he is not ever jealous but I haven’t tested that yet. That's good, I know in the past if I did it, I got in deep doodoo.. I should also add, I haven't been in that many relationships, period. :Mic drop: .

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14586	Sun 01/27/19 07:31 AM
Men who flirt alot shy away from a monogamous relationship with any woman. A Flirt is a lady's man. I agree with this. I don't feel they're always 'lady's men' though. I think many if not most do it because they need validation, likely the confirmation that they're still attractive. To me a lady's man is something different. What do you think a lady's man is ?

JOHNN111 Joined Wed 05/13/09 Posts: 9273	Sun 01/27/19 07:43 AM Edited by JOHNN111 on Sun 01/27/19 07:51 AM
A ladies man is someone who pursues women, not just flirts but pursues a flirt can absolutely be monogamous, don't be so insecure about flirts

JustBeHonest Joined Sat 10/06/18 Posts: 2691	Sun 01/27/19 08:11 AM
A ladies man is someone who pursues women, not just flirts but pursues a flirt can absolutely be monogamous, don't be so insecure about flirts I agree with this.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14586	Sun 01/27/19 02:26 PM
A ladies man is someone who pursues women, not just flirts but pursues a flirt can absolutely be monogamous, don't be so insecure about flirts I would like answer from a woman !

Tom4Uhere Joined Sat 12/17/16 Posts: 16240	Sun 01/27/19 10:43 PM
I would like answer from a woman ! So my feminine side is insignificant to you? I'm hurt that you feel that way. I feel so small now. LOL, nah. Thing is, you posted this on an open forum on a dating site and you will get comments from both genders (whether you like it or not). As far as I know, there is no forum that has ONLY feminine views and comments? Even if the forum requires a gender specific membership, people will lie and comment anyway. Then you have the fatal realization that the feminine view you might 'think' you want, don't align with the comments you expect. This being said, perhaps you might rethink your previous comment/request?

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14586	Mon 01/28/19 07:02 AM
I would like answer from a woman ! So my feminine side is insignificant to you? I'm hurt that you feel that way. I feel so small now. LOL, nah. I definitely know that!

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21251	Mon 01/28/19 11:43 AM
Not everyone who flirts, can be lumped into one category.

terry d Joined Sat 02/02/19 Posts: 7	Sun 02/17/19 08:49 PM
it's just teasing not very nice thou