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Topic: True or False
T.Roy 's photo
Tue 02/19/19 12:12 PM
Edited by T.Roy on Tue 02/19/19 12:14 PM

Men who flirt alot shy away from a monogamous relationship with any woman.

A Flirt is a lady's man.



Completely untrue.

While I might shy away from committing to a monogomous relationship in the beginning, it's not because I don't want one. It has more to do with NOT putting a lot of emotional pressure on a woman. Until we've taken the time to know each other, it's really stupid to say "I love you" even if it's true. I think any guy who does that before 2 months is asking for rejection.

Don't know how many women you've tried to date, but today's dating is nothing like it was only 10 years ago. The advent of cell phones with dating apps has everyone turning into spectators. So many want the thrill of being desired (on a dating app) but are never going to take the next step of meeting someone....especially if that person doesn't know how to flirt with them.

I've had to learn how to flirt after being married 37 years. I'm a great guy...faithful, dedicated, hard-working, and fun.

But until I can flirt properly, women will never give me a chance...I'm as boring as the other few hundred guys who write to say "you're so pretty"

And the biggest BS I've had to overcome is learning that women will never admit to this...but they get very bored quickly with a nice guy.


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Tue 02/19/19 01:01 PM


A ladies man is someone who pursues women, not just flirts but pursues

a flirt can absolutely be monogamous, don't be so insecure about flirts




I would like answer from a woman !



spock


Your OP doesn't specify that and like I care whoa

msharmony's photo
Tue 02/19/19 01:11 PM
I think it matters what one considers 'flirting'. I think if it is simple stuff like complimenting others or joking about, that is not necessarily a sign of interest in monogamy.

If it is alot of touching on or oogling other women, it may be a flag of their unlikeliness to be able to stick with just one.

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Tue 02/19/19 02:41 PM
Sounds like a load of crap to me.

FeelYoung's photo
Tue 02/19/19 02:53 PM
Men who flirt a lot shy away from a monogamous relationship with any woman.
A Flirt is a lady's man.

I agree. There is a big difference in talking to other women - vs flirting. I think that becomes part of a man's personality and eventually leads to lies. It's really embarrassing to be on a date and have the man you are with flirting with other women. If its a serious boyfriend or husband, that is simply looking for trouble. and yes, he's a lady's man.

WEBSTER:
noun: lady's man
a man who enjoys spending time and flirting with women.

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