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Topic: When choosing a Partner for a Relationship
Toodygirl5's photo
Sat 12/01/18 09:53 AM
What is important to You?


Examples they are :
Kind
Intelligent
Honest
Sense of humor
Good with financial matters


Ansh1186chauhan's photo
Sat 12/01/18 10:04 AM
trust. Becoz u know better then me

actionlynx's photo
Sat 12/01/18 10:17 AM
Okay, I'll bite...

Honesty
Integrity
Common Sense
Creativity
Empathy/Compassion
Active (I don't want a couch potato)
Sense of humor (but not sarcastic - the way most people use sarcasm is actually mean, not funny)

Toodygirl5's photo
Sat 12/01/18 12:57 PM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Sat 12/01/18 01:02 PM
I met a really nice Retired Marine a while back. He said he met a lady Online. Went to a restaurant near by to meet her to his surprise she was very overweight. He said, she only had a head shot in her profile photo.

Anyway he was very nice paid for her meal and made small talk. When it was over , she said to him, you want to meet again. He said, No I don't think so. She told him, good because he is too short and small frame, she likes her men muscular. They went separate directions then.

laugh laugh laugh

I laughed so hard. People should be honest Online Especially if they really plan to Meet In person. You cannot hide Obesity INPERSON.

Also you cannot hide bad character too Long if you have a lot of contact with a person.

Ask Questions! Get all the answers upfront if you're seeking a Relationship.


Rock's photo
Sat 12/01/18 01:31 PM
1. Intelligent
2. Perverted


🍫 KitKat 🍫's photo
Sat 12/01/18 03:11 PM
laugh that your top two rock? Or the only two?


I agree with action's list
Common sense
Sense of humor
And active are my top three



Riverspirit1111's photo
Sat 12/01/18 03:17 PM
A good strong pulse
Sense of Humor
Genuine


Rock's photo
Sat 12/01/18 03:24 PM
Tuh-may-toe / tuh-maw-toe laugh


Top two.

I'm big on honesty, honor, and integrity.

But, i also prefer a partner whose existence
extends beyond "hole-in-the-mattress"....
And one who can count higher than 'potato'.


JustBeHonest's photo
Sat 12/01/18 04:38 PM
Compassion
Sense of humour
Honesty
Intelligent

Those are a must!

Perverted is just a bonus

Duttoneer's photo
Sun 12/02/18 01:28 AM

I look for, honesty, sincerity, loyalty, passionate, serenity, kindness, amongst other things causing attraction.

Tom4Uhere's photo
Sun 12/02/18 01:58 AM
1. Communicate Effectively
2. Values Honesty and Integrity, possessing both
3. Has Healthy Self-Esteem
4. Has the ability to make her own decisions and the intelligence to make the right choices.
5. Emotionally Stable
6. Treats others with respect
7. Has good reflexive personal hygiene
8. Imaginative
9. Proactive Lifestyle
10. Thinks Positively

The woman I am currently seeing has demonstrated 7 of the 10 I listed but we are still in the first stages of a relationship and right now, anything could come to light, both positive and negative.

Dodo_David's photo
Sun 12/02/18 06:07 AM
Topic: When choosing a Partner for a Relationship


What is important to You?


Having a pulse.

Larsi666 😽's photo
Sun 12/02/18 06:18 AM
I don't need a perfect match. Just mutual acceptance of flaws and different opinions. Okay ... my cats are very important to me, so please don't hate them or be scared of them. Thanks :smile:

oldkid46's photo
Sun 12/02/18 09:05 AM

1. Communicate Effectively
2. Values Honesty and Integrity, possessing both
3. Has Healthy Self-Esteem
4. Has the ability to make her own decisions and the intelligence to make the right choices.
5. Emotionally Stable
6. Treats others with respect
7. Has good reflexive personal hygiene
8. Imaginative
9. Proactive Lifestyle
10. Thinks Positively

The woman I am currently seeing has demonstrated 7 of the 10 I listed but we are still in the first stages of a relationship and right now, anything could come to light, both positive and negative.

This along with this:
Honesty
Integrity
Common Sense
Creativity
Empathy/Compassion
Active (I don't want a couch potato)
Sense of humor (but not sarcastic - the way most people use sarcasm is actually mean, not funny)

would be perfect!!!

IgorFrankensteen's photo
Sun 12/02/18 09:40 AM
Hmm. Well, I've had one primary problem in the search for a mate for my whole life.

Finding someone who I am attracted to, who actually wants in a primary way, to BE IN A RELATIONSHIP with me, specifically.

I've found plenty of people who were looking for A MATE, ANY MATE, to check off all their likes and dislikes boxes. Never yet, someone who wanted the apparently old fashioned life of BEING SOMEONE'S MATE.

Toodygirl5's photo
Sun 12/02/18 11:25 AM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Sun 12/02/18 11:26 AM

I don't need a perfect match. Just mutual acceptance of flaws and different opinions. Okay ... my cats are very important to me, so please don't hate them or be scared of them. Thanks :smile:



I heard that! :smile: :

Toodygirl5's photo
Sun 12/02/18 11:30 AM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Sun 12/02/18 11:32 AM


would be perfect!!!


No One is ever Perfect !


Toodygirl5's photo
Sun 12/02/18 11:39 AM

Hmm. Well, I've had one primary problem in the search for a mate for my whole life.

Finding someone who I am attracted to, who actually wants in a primary way, to BE IN A RELATIONSHIP with me, specifically.

I've found plenty of people who were looking for A MATE, ANY MATE, to check off all their likes and dislikes boxes. Never yet, someone who wanted the apparently old fashioned life of BEING SOMEONE'S MATE.


Oftentimes people don't want to work at a Relationship. Many want dating because there Is no work or commitment involved. Imo




no photo
Sun 12/02/18 12:21 PM
just a full set of teeth... I'm easy to please

Toodygirl5's photo
Sun 12/02/18 12:52 PM

just a full set of teeth... I'm easy to please



laugh

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