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Topic: 8 signs
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Sun 12/09/18 01:16 AM
I don't give a damn if someone has a tendency to be hypocritical.
Over my years my wisdom has given me discernment on people's personalities.

Basically anyone that displays this trait I steer clear from.
I have met plenty of people that have the traits. Experience gives wisdom.

Anyone that acts in such a way as to say "Do as I say not as I do" holds no value to me.
Being Two-Faced is a social norm anymore.
Pretty common to find liars if you know what to look for.
These people shine brightly to me.
I don't need a list or anyone to tell me how to identify them because they are so easy to spot.

This thread might help others that have problems with discernment due to age or experience.
I can understand why you would post this list.
You are very interested in human behavior, probably because you are trying to teach your child. So you look for these lists to help you understand others and you post them in the forums to get feedback on that particular subject.

What gives conflict is the sources you tend to use.
There are websites (lots of them) that specialize in human behavior that give better enlightenment on the subjects.
http://www.psychologytoday.com/us

Personality
Are Some Personality Disorders Polar Opposites of Others?


Parenting
What to Do When She Says #MeToo


Relationships
Active vs. Passive Partners: How to Stop the Power Struggle


Laws of Human Behavior
How evolution has changed the scientific face of psychology.
http://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/darwins-subterranean-world/201806/laws-human-behavior

Law #1: Behavioral adaptations are Darwinian adaptations, and like any Darwinian adaptations, they ultimately serve the function of increasing the probability of survival and/or reproduction.


Law #2: Evolutionary mismatch, which exists when the modern environment of an organism is mismatched from the ancestral environment of that organism, will lead to demonstrable outcomes.


In modern human environments, people are more able to engage in deindividuated behavior than was true during the bulk of human evolution. And when people are deindividuated, they are more likely to engage in anti-social behaviors

References

Buss, D. M. (2003). The evolution of desire: Strategies of human mating (Revised edition). New York: Basic Books.

Ekman, P., & Friesen, W. V. (1986). A new pan-cultural facial expression of emotion. Motivation and Emotion, 10, 159-168.

Figueredo , A. J. , Brumbach , B. H. , Jones , D. N. , Sefcek , J. A. , Vasquez , G. , & Jacobs , W. J. ( 2008 ). Ecological constraints on mating tactics. In G. Geher & G. Miller (Eds.), Mating intelligence: Sex, relationships, and the mind’s reproductive system (pp. 337–365). Mahwah, NJ: Lawrence Erlbaum.

Geher, G. (2014). Evolutionary Psychology 101. New York: Springer.

Giphart, R. & Van Vugt, M. (2018). Mismatch. Robinson.

Gray, P. (2011). Free to Learn. New York: Basic Books.

Kringelbach M. L., et al. (2016). On Cuteness: Unlocking the Parental Brain and Beyond. Trends in Cognitive Science, 7, 335-358.

O'Keefe JH Jr; Cordain L; Jones PG; Abuissa H. ( 2006). "Coronary artery disease prognosis and C-reactive protein levels improve in proportion to percent lowering of low-density lipoprotein". The American Journal of Cardiology 98 (1): 135–39. doi:10.1016/j.amjcard.2006.01.062. PMID 16784936.

Schmitt, D. P., & Pilcher, J. J. (2004). Evaluating evidence of psychological adaptation: How do we know one when we see one? Psychological Science, 15, 643-649.

Williams, G. C. (1966). Adaptation and Natural Selection (link is external). Princeton University Press, Princeton, N.J.


You should always consider your source.

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Fri 08/20/21 05:22 PM

.. that can help you distinguish a sincere person from a hypocrite

1. Hypocritical people only respect those who have power. Sincere people are respectful to everyone.

2. Hypocritical people criticize others to look better than them. Sincere people admire others and praise them.

3. Hypocritical people gossip all the time. Sincere people share their OWN opinions.

4. Hypocritical people help others when it profits them. Sincere people selflessly perform good deeds.

5. Hypocritical people always sing their own praises. Sincere people arent boastful about their success.

6. Hypocritical people try very hard to impress others. Sincere people make it easy for others to like them.

7. Hypocritical people talk alot and do nothing. Sincere people always keep their promises.

8. Hypocritical people try very hard to get attention. Sincere people dont aspire to be the center of the universe.


http://brightside.me/inspiration-psychology/8-signs-that-can-help-you-distinguish-a-sincere-person-from-a-hypocrite-278860/


disclaimer: I dont think this is an all inclusive list, nor does every item by itself HAVE to mean one is a hypocrite. However, its an interesting list and if more than one or two of the boxes tick off, well ....





While I agree with this list I don't agree with giving people who don't deserve respect at all although, you know you have to give it to them because of who they are and or who they represent.

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Fri 08/20/21 08:55 PM
what kinda sign is it when I can't process that much information

motowndowntown's photo
Fri 08/20/21 10:08 PM
What does it mean when somebody digs up three year old threads that nobody gave a horses patooty about when they were new?????

Coldersky's photo
Wed 08/25/21 05:58 PM
I'm not here to judge anyone I SUPPOSE some live in a glass house,

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