So I scored a free two night stay at one of several places but I'm like *sigh* 'cause it's for two people.

Now there's this girl whom I've never wanted to be just a friend with, she wants me to take her to Vegas but I feel that she wants to go because she wants to visit family there and not so much because she wants to take a little vacation with me.

Now I've confessed my feelings for her before and of course it landed me no where, but being the idiot I am I can't help but to ponder the "Maybe something could happen."

Then bro you are setting yourself up for a fall.

If you have already laid your cards on the table and she is not interested, then that's just life. It sucks, but it happens to all of us I think at times.

So its your call..do what you want, but would be foolish to have any types of "expectations" or even hopes, since you have already told her how you felt and got no response in kind.

Just my opinion.

no hun if you mentioned your feelings before and nothing happened then i think the trip is to see her family hun, but hey keep smiling and hope that special someone is out there for you

Pfffft. Take her if you want to take a friend.

But don't have any expectations. That way, you won't be hurt if nothing happens. And you can have a fun vacation with a friend, which is *always* good! I've never had a bad vacation.

sorry thats i know there is someone special outhere hun my typing skills ....duh

Hi! Well I'm sort of torn on this one.. on one hand I see you don't want to be used for a free trip .. but at the same time I say go for it.. at least the person you're going with is someone you know and you never know maybe spending time with her she may get to see another side of you.

You only live once - have fun whatever you decide to do!

Look at all three responses, posted at the SAME time!!

It's a sign......

Don't set yourself up to fail.
Leaches come in all shapes and forms and she might act like she is interested just to get on the wagon. Take someone that you are friends with and have a good time and them brag when you get back.

You all are right. Thank You

I suppose I already knew the answer, it's just that the heart has a tendency to fuddle with the logic of the mind that makes me question everything.

I agree. Why would you want you to take her to Vegas if you are just friends? My friends pay their own way. If you have feelings for her and she knows it but does not reciprocate them, she has no right to ask you to take her anywhere. If you want an honest female opinion, it sounds like she is not a very good friend. If she wants to go to Vegas, most airports have cheap direct flights. Maybe she could look on Expedia...

yeh the heart tends to do that hun all logic out of the window, but hey enjoy your trip