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Topic: Of all the things.. What do you look for in someone?
R1chard's photo
Wed 12/05/07 11:57 AM
With all the things to see and find, being 100% honest.. what is the first thing you notice or see when looking for someone???

Everyone be truthful and honest.... even if the truth hurts!!!
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INEEDLOVEFROMYOU's photo
Wed 12/05/07 11:58 AM
Edited by INEEDLOVEFROMYOU on Wed 12/05/07 11:59 AM
Male or Female,I look to see if they have a smile.I only date women.

madamx7316's photo
Wed 12/05/07 12:00 PM
as lame as it sounds i look for attitude. i have dated my share of "trophys" that were plain empty and i have dated men who most women would claim "ugly" but they were down right beautiful to me. the beauty in ones heart can out-weigh anything in my book

medevoted2u's photo
Wed 12/05/07 12:02 PM
Edited by medevoted2u on Wed 12/05/07 12:02 PM
I always read there profile first. I believe you can tell alot from a person by what they write wether its true or not.

Mermaid143's photo
Wed 12/05/07 12:03 PM
I always look for myself in someone else.. Well the fun and nice things about them anyway.. because if you see yourself in someone else, even by just the way they talk.. your sure to get along great.

kearbey75's photo
Wed 12/05/07 12:04 PM
i look for honesty, great personality, since of humor, and someone down to earth.

if i dont care for you, then you'll know it.

yummyishoney's photo
Wed 12/05/07 12:07 PM
Some people have this deeper personality that just has extra layers and hidden mysteries. If I can tell a person's whole story in two seconds, I wont bother. I usually sense it through the eyes.

curios789's photo
Wed 12/05/07 12:08 PM
Physically, I look at the eyes. I can tell a lot from the look in someone's eyes.

Personality-wise, I look for a kind, honest, and laid back woman.

INEEDLOVEFROMYOU's photo
Wed 12/05/07 12:09 PM
Edited by INEEDLOVEFROMYOU on Wed 12/05/07 12:14 PM
I love to hear honesty and honestly men often don't have a clue about what women are thinking.So post your thoughts,men need the help.R1chard is a cool dude and needs to meet a cool girl.I hope you find all your questions answered,in life,love,ect.TRUELY kenny

singledad1979's photo
Wed 12/05/07 12:09 PM
starts with a beautiful face then i look at their personality. easy going, open minded, trustworthy, loyal, common interests ,etc... list goes on but im just looking for someone to be a goodfriend/lover then if it turns into something exclusive then ill give it my all to make it work.

Charlesc's photo
Wed 12/05/07 12:10 PM
i look for somone who can laugh at my bs and joke with mebigsmile

INEEDLOVEFROMYOU's photo
Wed 12/05/07 12:10 PM
Eyes,the window to the soul.

DOTTIE's photo
Wed 12/05/07 12:13 PM
smile, eyes and personality:smile:

AlohaTEX's photo
Wed 12/05/07 12:17 PM
FACE AND TEETH! I love a baby face and I love guys with nice teeth!

fortsmithman's photo
Wed 12/05/07 12:18 PM
Pretty face and personality. I'd like to be able to enjoy being with the lady.

katrina_4888's photo
Wed 12/05/07 12:27 PM
their face. i'm a sucker for cute faces.

Gustava's photo
Wed 12/05/07 12:27 PM
First thing I notice in a man is his face. Definitely notice the beautiful ones.

R1chard's photo
Wed 12/05/07 12:29 PM
There are some really AWESOME.. and great thoughts. A lot better than I thought to tell you the truth. The best thing about this site is that even though you don't meet the person. Usually talking to them enough through this site, you kind find the truthful ones. You can see the beauty of ones inner self. Agreed that the eyes are the window to your soul. If you can see into ones eyes you can see into their heart. Mostly why it's better to have a picture of the face than the whole body.

With your eyes, you can see the love and passion or the mistrust, if you can read them just right.

I would say my answer is to my question, the persons inner self. If you don't have the personality and honest true being of yourself, then why put the effort into loving someone. If you can get a good smile or two and maybe just a laugh, with the words and emotions of someone can tell who they truly are. As I was told and believe... Everything within a person of their personality and beliefs and heart, are the whole ice cream... the body is just that little cherry on top that gives it the edge, that completes the one sweet thing, everyone feels for.

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 12/05/07 12:32 PM
Edited by TxsGal3333 on Wed 12/05/07 12:35 PM
First thing that catches my attention is their eyes and the smile to see if it is one of those genuine smiles or fake. I want one that has that genuine smile. Then it is their sense of humor I must have that. One can not go through life down and out all the time got to have a sense of humor and can laugh at the things life throws there way. We can only fix so much that happens all we can do is do the best we can and move on in life. But without laughter each day we have nothing. Then from there they must be able to hold a conversation and be honest and relaxed when they are talking just be them selves and enjoy each day. bigsmile

stevenpwis's photo
Wed 12/05/07 12:36 PM
I always look at the eyes...if I'm walking by a girl and she looks into my eyes and smiles that is a total turn on. If she either doesn't look at me or if she looks at me with no smile I don't find her attractive, even if she is hot as hell.

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