Topic: Of all the things.. What do you look for in someone?
Enya's photo
Wed 12/05/07 12:36 PM
THIS SOUNDS CHEEZY............
I LOOK DEEP WITHIN THIER SOUL TO SEE IF HE MEETS MY QUALITY...
HONESTY
MATURITY
ROMANCE
FAITHFULNESS
AND TRUST.

stevenpwis's photo
Wed 12/05/07 12:36 PM
I can usually tell the personality by the eyes and smile

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Wed 12/05/07 12:43 PM
This may sound crazy but I look to see how he treats others'..for instance..the waiter or waitress at the resteraunt..the cashier at a store, etc;...
Also a sense of humor is a major plus for me...
down to earth
open minded...
and most importantly, for me, not thinking that being RIGHT is crucial....bigsmile

stevenpwis's photo
Wed 12/05/07 12:46 PM
the way she is dressed

stevenpwis's photo
Wed 12/05/07 12:46 PM
If she cares about her appearance when out in public, it tells me she cares about herself

stevenpwis's photo
Wed 12/05/07 12:47 PM
Yes, I know I sound like a jerk, but it's honest

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Wed 12/05/07 12:48 PM
Mental stimulation is also a factor..

GCLIFE's photo
Wed 12/05/07 12:50 PM
Absolutely ... above all... a great sense of humor

R1chard's photo
Wed 12/05/07 12:58 PM
Thanks to all of posting.. drinker

Great to find what your true hearts desire! :smile:

singledad1979's photo
Wed 12/05/07 01:03 PM
i can honestly care less how a girl dresses.. she would be in a tshirt with ripped jeans as well as i really dont care much for manners. yes there are times for it but when its just us i would hope she would let loose and be herself. live comfortable and yourself, dont try and impress others.

as long as their personality is awesome then im happy as a pig in ****

reconmarine69's photo
Wed 12/05/07 01:05 PM
I PREFER SOMEONE WHO CAN CARRY A CONVERSATION AND OFCOURSE SOMEONE WHO IS CONFIDENT..,BUT HEY IAM AS OPEN MINDED AS THE NEXT GUY..OPPOSITES ARE WHAT MAKES THINGS MOVE...

Enigma777's photo
Wed 12/05/07 01:12 PM
If i can say this without sounding like a faggot, i look for two main things - fun and honesty. I cannot stand a boring liar. Appearance helps, obviously, but i can't say im TOO fussy about that. I won't only accept your typical supermodel (most tend to be superficial, boring and dishonest anyway).

Shame there's very few women in the world that fit the bill AND are available.

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Wed 12/05/07 04:54 PM

Yes, I know I sound like a jerk, but it's honest

Steven..you don't sound like a jerk at all..If that is YOUR preference..then more power to you..There isn't a Right or Wrong here...flowerforyou

Tameka's photo
Wed 12/05/07 06:30 PM
i love to laugh. so i would have to say someone with a sense of humor. but i also like a guy that can talk to me and listen to what i have to say...

no photo
Wed 12/05/07 06:33 PM
anyone that can put up with me!!!laugh devil laugh devil

tgrlily's photo
Wed 12/05/07 06:36 PM
honesty and openness is important to me! i guess trust since you need trust to believe in both

Baden1976's photo
Wed 12/05/07 11:05 PM
I usually look for a woman that is honest,trustworthy,loyal and fun loving

KalamazooGuy87's photo
Thu 12/06/07 12:08 AM
This can varry depending on what is available to see, not being perverted. Somtimes the Legs, somtimes the smile, or i can even notice someone with a interesting comment, intellectual woman are a big turn on to me. Smile and eyes of course it all depends

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Thu 12/06/07 04:24 AM
Eyes ALWAYS grab my attention: if there is life, love, compassion in those eyes, et al.

Sense of humor/personality: a MUST

Intellectual: If one cannot challenge me to THINK outside of the box~ ya might as well keep walking. Like Kalmazooguy said 'Intellectual ('people' for me ) are a big turn on.

Quick wit: If one cannot keep up with my wit.. oh boy.ohwell

Hands: Say a lot about what kind of life that person has had.

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Thu 12/06/07 04:31 AM
first thing I notice is whether they look me in the eye, dishonest people tend not to do that. After that, can they make me laugh, if so, I'm hooked, can they talk AND listen. Phsyically, I tend to notice arms and hands first :smile: