Topic: ma Married but sexuality unsatisfied
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Wed 06/06/18 09:05 AM
waving was mising the / in the end img

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Wed 06/06/18 09:06 AM
yep, found it. scared

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Wed 06/06/18 09:08 AM
well put it in a safe place till next timewinking

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Wed 06/06/18 09:15 AM

Married but sexuality unsatisfied mens who don't want to leave their wife. Men who want to stay with her but he also want to satisfy his sexual need.
Now the question is what the man do? If he doing sex with another women society called him cheater. So tell me friends I have same prob

Based on the above let us assume she is even more unsatisfied than you.
So she is probably looking for something on the side also.
Eventually you may find each other again by sheer coincidence.

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Wed 06/06/18 09:58 AM
hello

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Wed 06/06/18 12:04 PM
That man shouldn't be in a marriage, if he feels he has to be with other women.

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Wed 06/06/18 12:43 PM
Such different values in the east as regards to women. I watched a programme on female genital mutilation a while back. I could describe what they do to 10 -11 year old girls but it would probably be taken off the thread.
Basically, a process to insure females have no feeling or climax possibilities.
The men think it will stop them straying.
Not saying it is so in the case but it's wide spread in muslim and other faiths.
Hence the men feel it there right to seek sex elsewhere as the wife is just a baby machine!

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Wed 06/06/18 01:13 PM

Married but sexuality unsatisfied mens who don't want to leave their wife. Men who want to stay with her but he also want to satisfy his sexual need.
Now the question is what the man do? If he doing sex with another women society called him cheater. So tell me friends I have same prob


Try one of them new blow-up dolls.

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Wed 06/06/18 02:12 PM


Maybe spend some time to make intimacy pleasurable for the woman. Not just when you want to have sex and get your rocks off, but in day to day life as well. Be nice to her, be loving, make her feel good and appreciated. Cherish her, desire her. Then, provided there is love, she will want to be intimate with you too.
If it's an arranged marriage I guess that will be harder as it's not love-based, but then you still have to make a woman feel good and cherished. When a woman doesn't, she's not going to want to be intimate.
The problem is that if you don't really love her, what would likely happen in an arranged marriage, you're not going to feel inclined to treat her like the Goddess she is and deserves to be treated as.
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my hunch is that your wife doesnt enjoy sex with you because you dont do those things. As such, it doesnt appeal to her, and as your 'need' continues to grow, it communicates to her that you dont give a poop about her and she is just that thing you wanna put your thing in. That makes a gal feel so special. Not saying you feel that way, just that your actions may be communicating that in her perspective. Honestly, I dont think you love her from what youre up to here so a divorce is probly best, but we dont know you or your wife so we can only say what things look like.

Exactly. Unfortunately divorce is not always an option, depending on the country he's in. And as per usual, it is always the woman who pays the price. Always been like that for centuries on end.
I hope that some day not too far in the future this will finally be different.

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Wed 06/06/18 02:42 PM
ma Married but sexuality unsatisfied
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So Dad doesn't have enough mustard on the hot dog?

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Wed 06/06/18 03:34 PM
There's always Vegas for that. Problem solved cuz whatever happens in Vegas stays in Vegas .
Besides if you're paying for it you're really not cheating lol

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Wed 06/06/18 03:45 PM
Can meet u

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Wed 06/06/18 03:58 PM

Married but sexuality unsatisfied mens who don't want to leave their wife. Men who want to stay with her but he also want to satisfy his sexual need.
Now the question is what the man do? If he doing sex with another women society called him cheater. So tell me friends I have same prob


hey Nip.. wouldn't it be funny if your wife was on here looking for some meat on the side.. like you are
wouldn't that be a kick in the a*s.. Lol

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Wed 06/06/18 04:56 PM
You have just met a voluteer

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Wed 06/06/18 05:16 PM
the sex is not all thing in marriage but try to feel her , talk her romantic
words for feeling love with you so you will attract her and she will give you her eyes not sex only

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Wed 06/06/18 05:25 PM
You don't want to leave your wife, and the sex is bad or non-existent..
aww, suck that up buttercup. communicate with your wife, treat her as the others have explained.. Figure out how it got to be this way.. get your/her mojo back.

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Wed 06/06/18 05:36 PM
Do you know Blowup Betty?

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Wed 06/06/18 05:53 PM
which type of volunteer do you need??

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Wed 06/06/18 05:56 PM

I don't see any volunteers :joy:

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Wed 06/06/18 09:08 PM
You know what's truly scary? How many of you that replied to this man totally missed the mark on your response... This scenario, is PRECISELY why people, long before they think of stepping into the bedroom together, should openly talk about what they like and don't like, are and aren't willing to try, and anything that is out of the question... The more open you are about it, the more trust you will have between each other, and the more comfortable you will be together. For the woman these are even more important than they are for the man. I tell any woman I'm with that I will not ask them to do anything they're not comfortable with or don't want to do, and I tell them my boundaries as well. To reiterate from another post I placed on this forum, the things I've just discussed, and people understanding that all aspects of a true relationship needs to be you being all about your partner and your partner being all about you...that is especially important in the bedroom...sex and intimacy is never about your personal experience, it's about rocking your partner's world, and if you're doing your job, they should be doing thiers...if that's not happening, then you have serious problems.