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Married but sexuality unsatisfied mens who don't want to leave their wife. Men who want to stay with her but he also want to satisfy his sexual need.
Now the question is what the man do? If he doing sex with another women society called him cheater. So tell me friends I have same prob |
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Discuss this with your wife, not us feller.
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Perhaps you and your wife should see a sex therapist .. at the least you need to talk and tell her how you are feeling
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Maybe spend some time to make intimacy pleasurable for the woman. Not just when you want to have sex and get your rocks off, but in day to day life as well. Be nice to her, be loving, make her feel good and appreciated. Cherish her, desire her. Then, provided there is love, she will want to be intimate with you too.
If it's an arranged marriage I guess that will be harder as it's not love-based, but then you still have to make a woman feel good and cherished. When a woman doesn't, she's not going to want to be intimate. The problem is that if you don't really love her, what would likely happen in an arranged marriage, you're not going to feel inclined to treat her like the Goddess she is and deserves to be treated as. |
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Lmao true that jasonkm
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Married but sexuality unsatisfied mens who don't want to leave their wife. Men who want to stay with her but he also want to satisfy his sexual need. Now the question is what the man do? If he doing sex with another women society called him cheater. So tell me friends I have same prob First consult a specialist in the medical field. If sex is truly a NEED of yours, you either are suffering from severe mental problems, or you have a brain tumor of some kind. Sex is not otherwise a NEED. If you agree to adjust your claims to make them honest, and admit that you simply WANT more sex than you are getting, then your options shift a bit. If you want to pretend to be married, and still have sex with women (or other things) other than your wife, then you need to work out a deal with your wife. Alter your marriage agreement from being normal monogamy, to being something else that she finds acceptable. Or last, you can decide to become a REAL grown up adult person, who accepts full responsibility for your decisions, and thus recognizes that with choice, comes limitations. Such as that you can be married in the common mode, OR you can have multiple sex partners. And such as that you stop lying about "needs" to yourself and others. |
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I don't see any volunteers
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get divorce, find the right one who will take care of your need... smiple
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Edited by
Piscesmoon02
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Wed 06/06/18 05:48 AM
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get divorce, find the right one who will take care of your need... smiple That's assuming she's the problem and communication is not the problem. Discarding the one you're with may be easy, but if the issue is not resolved then you'll have the same problem with the next one... eventually! |
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get divorce, find the right one who will take care of your need... smiple That's assuming she's the problem and communication is not the problem. Discarding the one you're with may be easy, but it the issue is not resolved then you'll have the same problem with the next one... eventually! OH, I was talking to the wife not him |
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Edited by
Piscesmoon02
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Wed 06/06/18 05:50 AM
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get divorce, find the right one who will take care of your need... smiple That's assuming she's the problem and communication is not the problem. Discarding the one you're with may be easy, but if the issue is not resolved then you'll have the same problem with the next one... eventually! OH, I was talking to the wife not him Edited in... kidding aside, the same thing applies |
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The bigger question you might ask yourself is...is your sexual desire truly more important than your wife?
Try this. Imagine your wife considering stepping out on you because you don’t satisfy her in bed anymore. Now get in that bedroom and change her mind like you really mean it! If that doesn’t renew her spark as well, seek counciling before disrespecting your marriage. Don’t forget that you loved this woman enough to marry her. Would you let anyone else treat her with the disrespect you’re considering? |
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The bigger question you might ask yourself is...is your sexual desire truly more important than your wife? Try this. Imagine your wife considering stepping out on you because you don’t satisfy her in bed anymore. Now get in that bedroom and change her mind like you really mean it! If that doesn’t renew her spark as well, seek counciling before disrespecting your marriage. Don’t forget that you loved this woman enough to marry her. Would you let anyone else treat her with the disrespect you’re considering? Now there is a vital point. The OP got married for a reason. If this reason is no longer existant, please go separate ways, rather than hurting her. |
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The bigger question you might ask yourself is...is your sexual desire truly more important than your wife? Try this. Imagine your wife considering stepping out on you because you don’t satisfy her in bed anymore. Now get in that bedroom and change her mind like you really mean it! If that doesn’t renew her spark as well, seek counciling before disrespecting your marriage. Don’t forget that you loved this woman enough to marry her. Would you let anyone else treat her with the disrespect you’re considering? |
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Married but sexuality unsatisfied mens who don't want to leave their wife. Men who want to stay with her but he also want to satisfy his sexual need. Now the question is what the man do? If he doing sex with another women society called him cheater. So tell me friends I have same prob First consult a specialist in the medical field. If sex is truly a NEED of yours, you either are suffering from severe mental problems, or you have a brain tumor of some kind. Sex is not otherwise a NEED. If you agree to adjust your claims to make them honest, and admit that you simply WANT more sex than you are getting, then your options shift a bit. If you want to pretend to be married, and still have sex with women (or other things) other than your wife, then you need to work out a deal with your wife. Alter your marriage agreement from being normal monogamy, to being something else that she finds acceptable. Or last, you can decide to become a REAL grown up adult person, who accepts full responsibility for your decisions, and thus recognizes that with choice, comes limitations. Such as that you can be married in the common mode, OR you can have multiple sex partners. And such as that you stop lying about "needs" to yourself and others. While I agree with you that sex is not a need as compared to food and water, it is a need as compared to most other things we feel that we need in our lives. You need a phone? Nope. You need a private bedroom or bathroom? Nope. About all you really need is some type of nourishment, water, and protection from the elements; anything more is a want! |
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The bigger question you might ask yourself is...is your sexual desire truly more important than your wife? Try this. Imagine your wife considering stepping out on you because you don’t satisfy her in bed anymore. Now get in that bedroom and change her mind like you really mean it! If that doesn’t renew her spark as well, seek counciling before disrespecting your marriage. Don’t forget that you loved this woman enough to marry her. Would you let anyone else treat her with the disrespect you’re considering? Now there is a vital point. The OP got married for a reason. If this reason is no longer existant, please go separate ways, rather than hurting her. |
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correct let her go, life is to short ,
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Edited by
GalaxyStarz
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Wed 06/06/18 09:03 AM
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She will be better off without you, get a divorce. Most men don't want a divorce because they are greedy with their assets and don't want to split them, it has nothing to do with loving their wife.
I suspect you've already cheated and are looking for validation on Mingle. |
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Edited by
eric22t
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Wed 06/06/18 09:03 AM
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She will be better off without you, get a divorce. Most men don't want a divorce because they are greedy with their assets and don't want to split them, it has nothing to do with loving their wife. I suspect you've already cheated and are looking for validation on Mingle. fixed it |
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Edited by
GalaxyStarz
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Wed 06/06/18 09:04 AM
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my shaking head didn't work. |
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